Please Explain To Me - Page 9

Originally posted by: Charishma

Forgive and forget your abuser? I'm not going to say that's impossible. Some claim (depending on the nature of abuse) couple's therapy combined with the abuser's honest remorse and willingness (and capability) to change might do the trick. But RK still lies. So this becomes a moot point.

@ 1st Bold: I believe she has given him that on a number of occasions. A proper role model would be shown growing and moving on without him. He has his mommy. She'll heat up his baby bottles for him.

@ 2nd Bold: A person's strength (no matter the gender) lies in their intelligence. Not in their ability to manipulate the opposite sex to get their own way. She's not a child to be wrapping someone around her finger and be applauded for it. She's an adult. To get her way, she merely needs to show some independence and work towards it. This is not the 1700's. Woman are allowed to vote and own property. She does not need to be manipulating a man to get what she wants. She is both physically and mentally capable of acting on her own. God, what am I even talking about now? I've suffered a mild concussion while reading this.


PS: I'm so sorry if I came across rude. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just a little incredulous. I can't believe that this show is sending out messages like this. All this hum hain deewane needs to bloody well stop.

Originally posted by: shweta2728

If...Then...then what? We all go back to watching the show and coming back to forum complaining and ripping out each there's throats haha! 😆 Personally, I really wouldn't care...this is the only Indian show I watch so eh whatever.

Note: You said "If". Predictions, huh? 😆

Originally posted by: shweta2728

Hmm...oh well but she forgave him and married him. Not much that we can do about it now. 😆

Originally posted by: shweta2728

Hmm...oh well but she forgave him and married him. Not much that we can do about it now. 😆

Originally posted by: likarsh

Yes. Not just predictions. Calling it as I see it. That's not any kind of 'redemption.'

So, you will grant that should my ifis in fact what is the case...then perhaps we aren't so far off base in what we term Rishbala.

Originally posted by: likarsh

And she is about to find out exactly how much of a mistake it was.

Reality check for Madhu, as well as for some in the audience.

She forgave him and married him. Many do go back, forgive, believe, and give and another chance. Many times they are fools. Especially when 1) all that's happened has happened, and 2) his apology and redemption are flimsy with no depth.

Originally posted by: likarsh

Yes. Not just predictions. Calling it as I see it. That's not any kind of 'redemption.'

So, you will grant that should my if is in fact what is the case...then perhaps we aren't so far off base in what we term Rishbala.

Originally posted by: shweta2728

Hmmm...okay...so WHAT is the perfect redemption in your eyes? Just a bit curious cuz Apparently this was good enough for Madhu and she did forgive him.

Originally posted by: likarsh

Perfect? No doesn't have to be perfect. But certainly not what and how it was shown. Well to be honest, redemption wouldn't mean back to being in "love." All that he did, how he 'married' her in the first place, all that is downright insulting and should never be "love" int he first place.

Yeah it was good enough for Madhu, just as apologies are good enough for many women who go back to the man. Only for the man to once again go back to his ways, if he ever actually stopped with his ways.

It was good enough for Madhu and it will hit her again just how blind and stupid she was.