Introspect! Need of the hour [Edit: Note on Pg 13] - Page 4

Originally posted by: Dilsay

Very well written post Azi straight from the heart 👏👏

I am also a hard core fan of DD. Maneet made me to start watching Indian soap.

For me it was only Geet and now Madhubala.I don't know what happened in the Forum previously but I could feel the pain of the fans of both DD and VD through your post ...

We are hear to promote and appreciate our respective stars but this fight would only harm their hard work as RK and Madhuba .

Thanks and yes it indeed was straight from the heart... A lot has happened and a lot has been ignored... but probably will be ignored in future too... But i felt its high time people understand that bashing real people for virtual world is not a way to go... It would only mess up things further...

Originally posted by: stressrelief

awesome post and agree with you it hurts see all the bashing post

Thanks ! It definitely does hurt.

Originally posted by: colorsluv

I agree with u.

Thanks! i appreciate it!

Originally posted by: kahkashansakina

OMG very long post tried but

wonderful post..

u wrote each words wow ..

Thanks a ton!!! The hug was needed 🤗

Originally posted by: basri

awsum post girl agree with ur each point bravo yar claps for u


p.s.- for those who thinks its kind of essay they cant read so u people can read 3000 words based fanfiction for ur entertainment than why not read this post for the betterment of this forum?

Thanks! I just hope the message reaches out loud and clear!!!

Wonderful - it is a well thought, well constructed, sensible & straight forward yet respectful piece of writing. I salute you as it reflects my thoughts & it represents all the thing I wanted to say for a long time but was not brave enough!

Originally posted by: an12345678

@Azmatazz : One of the best posts in the forum. Glad you posted it. I have my own biases but that does not make me disrespect others and their view points. It's easier to abuse than to find a middle ground and agree to disagree and move on. And, I believe abuses say a lot about the abuser than the one getting abused.

We may not love and appreciate all the actors equally but that does not mean we have to hate them and call them names. They've done us no harm.

Thank you for writing and posting it.

Thanks An... Loving an actor is a personal choice and no one can force you on that... And its human to be biased... My only expectation of the people out here is to respect each other and the actors. And not blame a fandom based on certain few.

It amuses me when people say XYZ fans told me that DD fans are like this... or i hate DD because her fans love her so much and have made her princess or angel for no reason. I don't see anything special in her... or she is a friend of VD's fan so she is bound to think like her friend and i hate her for that...

How can people ever be so judgmental?

Originally posted by: dddhfan

very true i really like it your post we should respect every one we are all madhubala fans

Exactly... Give respect to get respect. Thanks!

Originally posted by: surabi

Nice post...I love DD and joined MB forum because of her. But as I started watching the show, I loved VD equally. Now, I like both the actors and their work. No one is perfect. So one day if DD falls short in one scene, next day maybe VD is not 100%. If you can accept that something that you may find to be perfect may fall short in some body else's eyes, then this will not happen.

Some of these people never discuss about the show or characters. all they care about is their favorites and being their advocates as well as getting interested in somebody else's favorites and being their basher...What people fail to understand is that "tit of tat" does not make anything better. Doing a wrong thing in retaliation of another wrong does not make it right...Sometimes, you forget the real world and people when you become so engrossed in your love/hatred...harboring this much hate for other fellow human beings just because they love/appreciate somebody else and not your favorite is so harmful to the person and society...

Thanks! What you have said is the crux of what i wanted to say!!

Tit of tat attitude is really harmful and two wrongs in this context can never lead to right.. I hope against all hopes that somethings change and change for the better of this forum...

Originally posted by: -Madhubala-

😆😆😆 its ok dear...you have put it in the best possible way...👏

Just wrote what came out... Feels good !!! 😊