Did Madhu make the right decision?

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Do you think Madhu's decision was right?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Madhu still can prove to Rk in many different ways that she loves him for the person he is and not for his superstar status. I mean RK def knows this deep down but his insecurities are in the way of him accepting it. Think back when Madhu just knew RK as a superstar she detested him and didnt want anything to do with him. It was only after she got to know him as a person she learned that there was much more to this man and eventually fell in love with him.

So the question of discussion I want to present is did Madhu make the right decision why or why not. Also how else can Madhu show RK that she is not in love with his super star status but him as a person. Also was what RK telling Madhu even logical. I mean if your a superstar your going to be recognized no matter where you are in the world by someone or another. Also he cant leave all his money behind because you need money to survive. What profession was he planning on getting into after quitting acting does he have anything else on his resume at this point? I can understand his feelings but what he was presenting was not a option because one your famous there is no going back really.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: MaaNeeTLuV

She took correct decision!!!


you think so?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think that madhu is right and wrong at the same time...right for wanting to stay with her family wrong for deciding only to stay for trishna and her MIL's promise. She is right for trying to solve everyone's problems because its her character trait. She is right for trying to fix shamsher and padmani's relationship but wrong to tell rk that she can do anything for him and that she loves him like crazy when she cant run away with him. Just as rk is wrong for testing madhu's love and putting her in a position where she has to choose her family or love. Why cant madhu have both her family and love together? So madhu is right in a way for trying to have everything love plus family. Rk is right as well for trying to test her because of his past experiences in love and insecurities. All rk wants it for someone to put him ahead of everyone and everything else because after his fathers death everyone has betrayed him. he wants to be her number one priority hell her only priority, he wants to be the center of her universe. Madhu needs to understand rishabh because she is the mature one out of the two, and rk is kind of like a stubborn man child.

Rishabh and Madhubala Kundra are two idiots in love😆.

As for your other question i think that a test of madhu love should have never happened. Love is about giving your heart to someone and knowing they have the power to break your heart but trusting them not to. Rishabh and madhubala both have different definitions of love until they or madhu learns to see from rk's perspective she will continue to get hurt. Before you ask why madhu has to be the understanding one or why is rk testing madhus love somewhat justified by me well its all thanks to ram and sita. Remember lord ram didnt trust sita love either (twice for the matter) and a seven year exile and her death happened as a result. So rk is only human and bound to make some mistakes, plus he has tons of insecurities and betrayals in love as well. I dont think rk and madhu would have ever ran away and live in the amazon forest if madhu had said yes. Rk could be tarzan and madhu could be that brunette woh's name escapes my memory right now. Maybe a few weeks honeymoon would have been it.😆 I think it was only to prove dipz wrong, why prove dipz wrong because i think that their is still something unresolved between them.

Ok my question 4 u what is the difference between RK, rishabh and rishu? Really confused on this one.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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she's right,Rk doesnt know how to test love
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ajanta1511

she's right,Rk doesnt know how to test love



What do you mean by RK doesnt know how to test love? Is there a definite, specific way to test love??No my dear. It can only be tested by tracing the path of love together.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: RKLover



What do you mean by RK doesnt know how to test love? Is there a definite, specific way to test love??No my dear. It can only be tested by tracing the path of love together.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Jis Maa Ne Use Jindgi dene ke liye Sab chodkar aayi aur use his duniya mai lakar ek achi zindgi diyi aur jab Madhu ko pata chala uski maa malik ke ghar mai nahi rah rahi hai tho RK ke saath kaise jathi.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The question is not whether Madhu took the right decision or not. But whether Madhu actually understood the implication of the decision she took. Some points to be considered here.

1. Madhu was unaware of Dips and RK conversation. So she was not unaware of what RK and Rishabh meant to RK/Rishabh. As far as she knew, RK and Rishabh are the same person.

2. RK is thinking along the line of Madhu might be more interested in his money and fame. But Madhu is again unaware of it. Why? Simply because from her point of view, since she never got any benefit from RK's money, fame or power and only got hurt by it, but still loves RK; that question should not arise at all.

Like, if someone talks about someone who cheats constantly, I won't react to it since I never cheated. The only person who will realize the implication of it, is someone who actually cheated. Deepali would have understood what RK was implying because she did love RK for his fame, power and money. Madhu doesn't.

3. Madhu wasn't even aware about RK's sudden confession. It came out of the blue for her. But when he confessed, she wanted to confess her love too. At that time, talking about her feelings were more important than hypothetical filmy questions.

RK asked: Madhu, would you come with me if I leave everything?
Madhu: Yes, because you are my world.

Direct question, direct answer.

RK asks again: Do you understand the implication of it?
Madhu: Yes.

Direct question, direct answer.

RK clarifies further: So let's go then and leave everything and everybody behind. Just Madhu and Rishabh. We will leave RK here.
Madhu hesitates.

Vague question, need time to understand the implication. She could have made false promises like a lot of woman do to pacify their boyfriends/husbands thinking let's lie now, I will manipulate to change his mind later to go back on my words. But not Madhu.

She hesitates before making false promises because she never wants to lie to RK like everyone has. Decision to leave family behind is a big decision and needs serious thoughts. In her case, RK did try to separate her from her family before. So she needs time to think whether he is again asking her for the same thing.

Why?

Who is Rishabh? The sensitive boy who still hurts for his parents.

Immediately her mind goes to RK's mom, followed by the curse she heard from her elder sister. She hesitates because what if she separates Rishabh from his mom and Trishna's curse of them never being happy together comes true?

Superstitious? May be. In a conventional marriage, may be it won't have mattered. But in their unconventional marriage? Who knows?

She has to pause and think about it. But RK already has made up his mind and after that one pause RK never lets her say anything nor lets her ask any question about why this craziness over a name? What is the implication of it which wasn't there before today?

So whether Madhu made the right decision or not is not the point. Whether anyone in that circumstances, knowing and going through what she has would have made any right decision is the actual question.
Edited by tia.o - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: RKLover



What do you mean by RK doesnt know how to test love? Is there a definite, specific way to test love??No my dear. It can only be tested by tracing the path of love together.


Exactly. It can only be tested by tracing the path of love together and by people's action in tough times. Not in the basis of a pause or hesitation which is how RK tested Madhu's love. If he had tested her by the way you suggested, then he would have remembered that Madhu never wanted to marry him. She was going to marry a middle class guy. She never asked for his money. His fame and power only brought trouble to her and her family. In spite of all that, she saved his life from the faulty light which was about to fall on him, gave her blood when he was about to die, took care of him when he was sick and never asked for anything in return - not even love. Madhu showed unconditional love from the time she started to have feelings for him. When you love someone, you don't put condition in front of them like, if you love me this much, I will love you that much. You love because you can't help it whether the other person loves you enough or at all or not.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: RKLover



What do you mean by RK doesnt know how to test love? Is there a definite, specific way to test love??No my dear. It can only be tested by tracing the path of love together.

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