Why cant we reach a solution?*Note pg1&20* - Page 9

Originally posted by: Coeur2PsychoFMS

Right or not I really don't care... but I believe in fairness... if you can say something then don't stop someone else from saying the same thing... You can show me my faults then you should accept your faults... You can call someone with abusive words then don't cry when someone else is doing the same... You are not God that you can say anything but we can't... this is my principles you see... The only reason I am commenting here is that I am fed up of reading everywhere that we are bashers/mockers nahin toh I was even not interested in wasting my time here...

Originally posted by: xxAqeelahxx

Am Vd fan but what you said is wrong ... i am just saying i don't want a fight

Originally posted by: xxAqeelahxx

Just forget it , it's not gonna go anywhere , am reading both views ... I don't know how it started , who right or wrong , every 1 saying that they got bashed ... kuch samaj nahi araha ... but yes again fairness should be there ... and we are not bashers , i get angry too ... but sometimes dnt have the himmat to answer back ... but i must applaud ppl for saying their dil ki baat ...

Originally posted by: mjiya

we VD fan never start figh .. DD fan always start and always blame someone else for that.. that's there quality ...

I don't know kisne start kiya ... but what you wrote about Dd was wrong , it just gonna go into another fight and then they will say it's Vd fans fault so hence don't write it again ... just saying😊

Originally posted by: Coeur2PsychoFMS

Yeah and nothing will change... Actually it's good for your own sake because more you will answer more you have to show you are strong... So better stay away 😆

Originally posted by: mjiya

we VD fan never start figh .. DD fan always start and always blame someone else for that.. that's there quality ...

Originally posted by: surabi

@ornellamg-You echoed my sentiments exactly...I am also a not-so active member of this forum. When I see these posts (like this morning), sometimes I wonder "what happened?" 😕

I don't know much details about the fights. But as an outsider when I see certain posts, I can assume they are targeted at some other groups...And this applies to both the so called DD supporters and VD supporters. I agree with you totally. When it is a public forum, it is better to respect other people's sentiments when voicing your opinion- fun or serious!!!!

@Coeur2PsychoFMS- I love fun and sarcasm...But fun should never be at the expense of hurting others...when I see certain fun posts making direct hit at some one else's opinions/posts (albeit in a fun way), I have to say I am with the mods (trust me, I don't hit the report button just bcoz I dont want to add fuel to the fire)...We all come here to share our enthusiasm of the show and have fun- not to get hurt/upset ...And I can see how it hurts when people mock your opinions/theories (however bizarre 😉 they are).

This morning I mocked the CVs (along with you) because I was confident that they will not come here and read my post. But I would not do that to a member of the forum, however much I disagree with them...

I know it might be hard for people like you or Nishi who are too straightforward (based solely from my experience reading your posts being a silent fan) but sometimes diplomacy is also important!!!

I am so sad to see the state of the forum. I am sad to know people leaving...I know a few whom I know, like, respect who have left...I wish we could coexist somehow!!!!! Instead of giving it up totally, why don't everybody make an effort to bring peace in the forum?????

Originally posted by: Coeur2PsychoFMS

@Red: I can have fun with someone but usually even I can't do that with a member... Once I made a topic and you don't know what kind of comments I got... calling me ass, troll and what not... I can fight, I can criticise but I can't use such words for the member just because I didn't like that person's comment or post...

@Blue: Yes we are straightforward not backstabber like few members here 😆 So maybe you are right backstabbing is much better 😆

Originally posted by: surabi

😆😆😆 Lets call it "gossiping"!!!! At least it will not attract the attention of people like me!!!! As long as I don't know what they think or talk about me I am happy!!!!!

Welll, I might be wrong but that is what I think...

Sorry to hear that you were also targeted and "namecalled"...I don't understand the mentality of these people at all... why do they come here, I wonder!