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Originally posted by: ornellamg

@ Coeur...

I am a silent member of this forum...but its sad to see how things have escalated.

Regarding people making fun of Dips...they actually bashed the character and not the actor. Seema mishra ( which i guess is her name) has done a brilliant job of a vamp. That is why we love to hate her.

But when somebody bashes the actor on his or hers acting abilities is when it might hurt certain members. Its the same if somebody says VD is a bad actor. I am sure many wont like. There is a difference between healthy criticism and bashing.

There is a thread in this forum about episode discussion, where people discuss their views very respectfully.

All might not agree to the same thing but they do so respectfully. I always look frwd to reading their views.

Hope i have not hurt anybodys feelings .

Originally posted by: Anu02

@depak148
bar bar eki baat bolte ho chod do na...

Originally posted by: Coeur2PsychoFMS

I will also tell you something which happened before Dipali's entry... few members here called Seema Mishra the actress with names like bitc*, wh*re, p*rn star... do you think it's normal... 🤔 Atleast I only said I don't like DD's acting without using abusive words... 🤔 What about people calling that actress with names... and they are the once to accuse us as bashers 🥱

Originally posted by: Cutieee1992

This time I will be more specific than being general like my previous comment. It might not go well with some, but this is what I have noticed and I will not call anyone name call like pathetic etc. Others can share their opinions regarding this the same way in a respectful manner. At least everyone will get to see both sides.


Here some people want others to take all jokes & sarcasm etc, but can't take the same from others if others try to do so.
People can't differentiate between A character and an actor.

If you say RK wasn't working at one point of time, people think it's the actor being criticised.
If you take anyone's side, some will always think we are saying it's because they are with Madhu which according to them means DD. Can't people differentiate between a CHARACTER & ACTOR here?
Most here always think based on a show than based on mixing characters with actors! If the cvs are showing one cruel at one point, people will dislike it. That doesn't mean at all the actor is criticised. In fact it means the actor is doing a good job else people would have never connected to the character.
Feeling bad for one character doesn't mean taking side with the actor playing it & feeling not bad about the character doesn't mean anything against the actor. If cvs are showing one as the good at one point after the other opposite, people will feel bad for one and so on.

And the ironic thing is I hear from the same people who can't differentiate b/w actors and characters saying others can't differentiate. When I always see them who couldnt differentiate & now even the other side started being defensive and started the same -.-
I won't blame the ones who can't differentiate b/w actor and character because I myself have seen comments like I ONLY watch the show for this character, so obviously every opinion discussion from others will look like they are against their favorite characters to them. Okay fine if they think like that but they should Also understand that others don't watch the show for a character. others always analyse and view the show from all sides not to sideline one character or the other.

Fun topics - As I have said some can do all in the name of fun, but others dare say something , then it wont be called fun. The same with different opinions. ONLY some can say different opinions. Ifothers say anything different, then they will be mocked instead of disagreeing with them in a respectful way. If you can't give respect, then how is it possible for others to give respect to your opinions?
Now again coming back to fun posts, I never saw anything fun or mocking about their own actor accept that he can't dance. Not saying they don't joke about their favorites. They do but let me you how! By making their favorite as the best in a fun way but put down other actors and fan groups in a fun way. Of course the fans whose favorites have been put down in the name of fun will not find it funny!

Before when this all used to happen, we most of us would ourself stop both sides from fighting. We would tell one side to stop calling others bashers just because they said their fav overacts and etc and would tell to to fun topic makers to be a little bit careful with the words they use as some might find it making fun of their favs than just having fun. But what happened? One side listened to our request and compromised just for peace of the forum, so they stopped calling different povs about their favs as bashing, but the other side didn't compromise. They would still make fun in a making fun /mocking than just an innocent fun.
Peace and compromises has to happen BOTH from both sides NOT just one side compromising. But I guess some just don't want to compromise and peace here because I myself have seen comments like I like fights in a forum as it's fun/interesting than having peace. With all respect, I strongly disagree with that. Fun is not called fun if it creates fights and hurt others.
Fun can happen in a real fun way!

Now coming to interfering in others' choices. I never saw anyone mocking some people's way of calling their favorites tharkey etc, or.not caring about ranks etc. Yes, we disagree with their way but we never disrespect, mock them, & make fun of them. But I see the opposite from the other side. Making fun of us of why we do this and that. I see the others side drooling over their favs too, but we never mocked or made fun of them.or question why? Then leave us in peace too when we drool over our favs. It's not like we are forcing you people to come drool over our favs then why this much problem? Live and let live others.

And I have one request (Take it or leave it) for everyone here: Do not embarass yourself and others in other forums/in front of the outsiders. Do some of here really thing outsiders are on your fav side etc just because they tell us so? Do anyone of you even know what they take about your own favs and our show? Does anyone even know what they Side about both of our lead actors when the show news came out? We ourselves have fought with them regarding our favs and your favs bashing. I am not gonna say what they call your favs and our favs too, but it's not good. And when they couldn't be sucessful in making us hate your favorite or divide us so they started pms to you. So be careful with outsiders pms to you all. Their agenda is to divide which they have been pretty much successful unfortunately :/ Even we have recieved pms regarding you guys or how can we tolerate you guys making fun of female lead actress all the time, but the only thing is that we never said it to you neither discussed here. The only thing different is that those those pms were not even from dd or vd fans or previous show co-star/show fans, but others. Do everything here, but do not fight and blame each other outside/in front of outsiders and give those outsiders a chance to laugh at all of us. At least be united in front of others!

Originally posted by: ornellamg

Such behaviours are totally unacceptable and should be reported. No one has the right to character assassinate a person.

Having said that, you have all the right not to like Drashti or her acting. And i understand you are here for VD. But there is subtle way to put things.

This forum belongs to both VD and Drashti fans. And i am sure there are lots of people who dont like VD and are here for Drashti. But if they keep rubbing it in your face I am sure you wont like it too.

Hope i am making some sense.

Originally posted by: mjiya

sorry i don't agree with this post hamara VD is the best aaj mb ki sari TRP hamare VD ke wajah se hai use hi award mila hai he is the best or abhiya jaise or koyi jodi nahi ho sakti hai.. ABHIYa is the best love them and DD moti hamare VD ki amma lagti hai or rone ke elawa kuch acting aati hai hmmm