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Posted: 12 years ago

#71

Originally posted by: xxAqeelahxx

Am Vd fan but what you said is wrong ... i am just saying i don't want a fight

Ignore the newbies... No offence but i don't know from where they come...Most of the times I never see them, but whenever there is a fight, I will see so many new faces just to create more fight:/

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Aqeelah

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Posted: 12 years ago

#72

I really don't know how it started , i just know some bits of what happened and even i want Vd/dd fans to come together ... the problem must have been caused by some Vd fans and some Dd fans , am not saying everyone had a hand but i feel upset Vd fans leaving this forum and some have already left now i can't even see their name anywhere in this forum and that saddens me , wish we could get together but doesn't seem possible :( ...

i only came here for Vd and i remain Vd fan , i appreciate Dd hardowork also even if she is not my fave ...

But liked your post ...

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Aqeelah

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Posted: 12 years ago

#73

Originally posted by: Cutieee1992

Ignore the newbies... No offence but i don't know from where they come...Most of the times I never see them, but whenever there is a fight, I will see so many new faces just to create more fight:/

Yup so right , kahin iss sari problem ki jarr ye newbies toh nahi ?😆 I don't know coz i have not been so active , i just heard about fights but can it not be newbies writing wrong stuff ? I really shouldn't blame any1 ... sorry just was a thought

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ornella_mg

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Posted: 12 years ago

#74

Originally posted by: Coeur2PsychoFMS

Hating is a big word... I don't know DD so I can't hate her... as an actress I only see her acting... I don't like it... and saying it is not a crime... many call VD expressionless so what... I am in many foums and I have seen many fights... and I think it's normal to fight... leking this forum, ab kuch nahin ho sakta 😕

I've never used the word 'hate' in my earlier post.

There is a very thin line between criticsm and healthy criticsm. If I am with my close friends I can criticze a person without having to worry about if i am hurting my friend in that process. But if i am in a public forum i will use my words carefully, so as not to hurt people and still put my views in a very very respectful manner.

A few days back a topic was opened by your friend about reality check. She starts with RK being soul of MB. What is Madhu then? I wouldn't want to watch RK mouthing flimy dilogues for 20 mins. The show is interesting because of both the leads and i think they complement each other very well.

P.S. this my first hindi soap...started to watch it because of VD but I love DD too.

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Aqeelah

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Posted: 12 years ago

#75

I think already one person is so annoying in this forum
mentioning no names , even if Vd fans want to stay they won't be able to tolerate this person for long
grrr am okay till now but agay ka kuch pata nahi

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mjiya

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Posted: 12 years ago

#76

Originally posted by: Cutieee1992

Ignore the newbies... No offence but i don't know from where they come...Most of the times I never see them, but whenever there is a fight, I will see so many new faces just to create more fight:/

sorry i don't come normally but u ddians are to much now getting into my nervous

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559432

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Posted: 12 years ago

#77

Originally posted by: ornellamg

I've never used the word 'hate' in my earlier post.
There is a very thin line between criticsm and healthy criticsm. If I am with my closed friends I can criticze a person with having to worry about if i am hurting my friend in that process. But if i am in a public forum i will use my words carefully, so as not to hurt people and still put my views in a very very respectful manner.
A few days back a topic was opened by your friend about reality check. She starts with RK being soul of MB. What is Madhu then? I wouldn't want to watch RK mouthing flimy dilogues for 20 mins. The show is interesting because of both the leads and i think they complement each other very well.

P.S. this my first hindi soap...started to watch it because of VD but I love DD too.

This is what people start thinking when you start saying you don't like someone's acting...

You are talking about reality check post... fine toh let me also tell you that the fight is between VD and DD fans so obviously both are at faults... some say openly some chhup chhupke... we have also many times read comments giving full credits to Madhu... Madhu toh kya we have also seen comments like "VD is now a good dancer because of DD", or like "VD is looking good because of DD"... is it fair ? We are always blamed for this and that... what about others ? They have the rights and for us it's a crime... Seriously I didn't want to bring back all the things... because I am less active now and it's better for my health to avoid commenting and fighting... I prefer spending my time in some other forum... where I can have fun, people won't attack you for your POV... but if I told you all this it's only because since few days many are talking about us, calling us with names... still I didn't say anything... lekin enough is enough...

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Aqeelah

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Posted: 12 years ago

#78

Originally posted by: Coeur2PsychoFMS

This is what people start thinking when you start saying you don't like someone's acting...
You are talking about reality check post... fine toh let me also tell you that the fight is between VD and DD fans so obviously both are at faults... some say openly some chhup chhupke... we have also many times read comments giving full credits to Madhu... Madhu toh kya we have also seen comments like "VD is now a good dancer because of DD", or like "VD is looking good because of DD"... is it fair ? We are always blamed for this and that... what about others ? They have the rights and for us it's a crime... Seriously I didn't want to bring back all the things... because I am less active now and it's better for my health to avoid commenting and fighting... I prefer spending my time in some other forum... where I can have fun, people won't attack you for your POV... but if I told you all this it's only because since few days many are talking about us, calling us with names... still I didn't say anything... lekin enough is enough...

Sorry to butt in but you bought my memory back Lolz ... i forgot all this but what you said is true what Dd says about Vd .. those 2 examples you gave , your so right even i saw them but ignored but obs you feel bad coz it's not coz of Dd that Vd looks good and i bet even Dd fans would agree it is so wrong , only few will disagree ...

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Posted: 12 years ago

#79

I am finding it hilarious! I mean if someone truly wanted to quit they wouldnt come back 2 days or a week later and state it was because of some pms that they were forced to make posts😆 If anyone wants, just go why create a fuss?😆 Just be honest no1 is going anywhere, everyone will still make post! and if this forum, is not as suitable for people, they can freely quit, the world will defooo not end there😳Ps!! I am not refering to anyone, but this whole dd fans are making it hard for us, just cracks me up😆 I never liked VD but his acting as RK is bang on, hence my appreciation for him, but that doesnt mean i will worship him 24/7 and simiarly with DD i like her but it doesnt mean i worship her, if someone was to criticise her, i wouldnt send hating pms to that person and then act innnocent in the forum. Apparently being a DD fan makes her supporters lesbian! now come on, isnt that bound to piss anyone off? And plus criticising characters here is equivalent to criticising actors appaz! Even i got bashed for that! SO i cant pretend to be respect others, if they cant respect me back! To gain respect you ought to give respect (thats what i have learned and tend to live by.)

This show will be nothing if DD leaves or VD leaves!They both make this show happen! If only people had the brains to realise that.feel free to ignore my comment, if it was to anyone's distaste😛

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559432

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Posted: 12 years ago

#80

Originally posted by: xxAqeelahxx

Sorry to butt in but you bought my memory back Lolz ... i forgot all this but what you said is true what Dd says about Vd .. those 2 examples you gave , your so right even i saw them but ignored but obs you feel bad coz it's not coz of Dd that Vd looks good and i bet even Dd fans would agree it is so wrong , only few will disagree ...

Right or not I really don't care... but I believe in fairness... if you can say something then don't stop someone else from saying the same thing... You can show me my faults then you should accept your faults... You can call someone with abusive words then don't cry when someone else is doing the same... You are not God that you can say anything but we can't... this is my principles you see... The only reason I am commenting here is that I am fed up of reading everywhere that we are bashers/mockers nahin toh I was even not interested in wasting my time here...