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**Im a DD addict, but that doesnt mean im only a DD fan and not rishbala or dvd fan... So if anyone are upset with my post, pls DO NOT point finger and say oh im only a DD fan... Here im talking as a RishBala fan and a fellow concerned MB forum member...
Hello guys.. I know many would be shocked im posting this topic... But looking at the haalat of this forum, i feel the need to say this loud and clear to ALL of you guys...
Why are there a VD vs DD war here every now and then?? I SERIOUSLY don get it..
Are VD and DD playing enemies in this show?? Are they enemies in real life??
Then why are VDians and DDians fighting?? What u gonna gain by fighting??
Isnt this show about Rishbala?? Which means Vishti/DVD???
I don get why people cannot be RISHBALAians or DVDians...
DD and VD fans is it so hard to be FRENS??
Is it very hard to RESPECT the feelings of both sides of fans??
So was BANNING the BBB and FUN posts the main issues for VD fans who are upset??
Was the indirect MOCKING the main issues for DD fans who are upset??
If so, WHY is it that No one from either sides want to come together and solve this ALARMING issue??
Why do you guys prefer to make this a battleground or to leave the forum??
I have got a solution in hand... But i leave it up to you guys whether u wanna follow it...
IF VD fans have a problem with the banning of BBB posts, then come together with me i myself will ask Shifali to lift the ban...
IF DD fans have a problem with the indirect mocking, then i put up a request to all those who makes such post, to consider others feelings before posting it...
This forum needs both sets of fans... In the end, the real innocent parties are those who love both DD and VD and are here as a DVD fan... Cant we be frens and also make this place a home for everyone?? I don think its a hard task...
TO all affected fans, pls do share if you have any problems with each other.. Share it so we can actually discuss ways to solve it than just keep making the wrong decisions...
At the end of the day, we all got into this forum for two people... Lets not forget them...
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Guys i made this post for people to vent and share their anger and then to reconcile differences and to unite as MBians... But i can guess many of you arent ready to reconcile... Its so clear in almost all the replies i have read... I kept quiet all while waiting for shifu to let me reply and comment on what u guys have posted... But i feel sad seeing there wasnt any point in me trying to help everyone... I don get why is everyone so intent of pointing fingers rather than admit the mistake and say sorry to each other and forget what has happened... But with all the accusing, i see no one is ready to forget the past and move on... I made this post to share your problems, NOT TO ACCUSE one another... I wanted you all to share and UNDERSTAND and FORGIVE and FORGET... But why is it that no one is ready to do that? And why do some of you accuse me of making a REDUNDANT post when its YOU people who have trouble moving on?? Is it MY FAULT if i had taken the initiative and solve problems?? You want to know why im helping?? Then look how MIDS are coming in to my thread... Either the MID is a supposed "VD" fan or "DD" fan and bashing the two actors and members... Come on doesnt that show one thing?? Outsiders are now taking advantage of our disunity... Why are we allowing for all this? Right now u all tell me, is it gonna help any of us?? Yes its our right to say something here, but don tell me your parents or school didnt teach how to say things in a polite manner?? Don tell me u guys forget this simple rule when u come to forum?? Why? Are you guys suffering from MPD that you turn into a different person when commenting here?? Is it hard to respect each other?? Everyone STILL can say what they want but please be remindful of the kind of words you use... To all who are leaving because of the problem in MB forum, please do consider your decision.. Im NO ONE to you guys but each and everyone of this forum is a gem of this forum... Especially the good writers... Its not being fair to those who are here as a MADHUBALA SHOW fan... About fun posts vs drooling posts accusation, guys can we like atleast reach a COMPROMISE?? because im a fan of fun posts despite being a non-hindi member... but when i mean FUN post, it means all i can do is 🤣... NOT 😡... Same applies to drooling post... If some members have problem with this, maybe its time we have a special DROOLING thread for BOTH VD and DD... and ANYONE who feels like drooling, go there and DROOL... How? Is that okay with everyone??
Is there anyone wanna volunteer, and say I FORGET THE PAST, I FORGIVE THE PRESENT AND MOVE ON WELL TO FUTURE?... I have said ALL that i wanted to say, and i really HOPE that people will LISTEN to me...
Udne Ki Aasha
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