rk missing his mom and radhaji feeling guilty

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Posted: 12 years ago
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today's episode was brilliant specially rk. he is too gud with his words and his style of talking. when rk said he remembered his mom today and misses the love and care he felt in his mom's cooking. while he was talking radhaji was crying. rk kept on going on how he misses his mom and after a long time he actually loved the food because it was made with love and affection. i felt that radhaji was feeling guilty while crying because the son-mother relationship has gone kaput and whatever radhaji does it doesn't really makes a positive affect on rk. today when he was missing his mom despite that radhaji was there with him, says a lot how rk wants his mom back not some mrs.bhatia. even though radhaji is there for rk but he is not emotionally connect with radhaji and radhaji fails to understand him so rk def misses his mother big time but he cannot do anything about it at the same time. at the other radhaji thinks she is trying her best but she never understand rk's emotions and gets angry at him. i think the rk-radhaji relationship might get better but the stepfather-brother duo is never going to let it happen easily. i loved how rk looked upto madhu after finishing food and he was actually understanding her emotions but their silence said a lot more than words could say. rk is comfortable with madhu and he actually feels safe with her like a feeling of being loved and caring which he didn't get since his dad's death. so now rk has madhu to whom he can share his emotions and at some extent his pain as well. madhu has given rk the love and affection he craved for all his life.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I was thinking the same thing.

Previously RK has expressed how much he misses his father, sometimes in past tense but mostly in present tense. we have all seen the impact RK's father has had on him alive and deceased but we have never seen what impact Radha had on RK.

Today it was there big time. Once upon a time Radha was a good mother to her Rishu then - bang - she became a stranger and RK became alone.

How sad to talk about missing your mother, as if she were dead, when she is sitting right in front of you. That is so much pain on RK's part but also on Radha's part.

Now i have refused to get all sentimental on Radha anymore so I am not going there. BUT if this scene does not open her eyes as to how much RK loves his mother, the hurt she has caused him, then I can't see her ever reuniting with her son. Her loss but sadly it is also Rishu's loss.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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👍🏼 agree with you . Rishabh misses his mom and Madhu with her selflessness , warmth , compassion and empathy has affected RK deeply . Earlier too he never regretted display of what or how much she means to him ... he was so keen in having the food from Madhu's hands as if it was something he longed for , he also kept looking at Madhu while she was feeding him . He was totally oblivious to BGOBC and Radhajee
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Priya2000.

👍🏼 agree with you . Rishabh misses his mom and Madhu with her selflessness , warmth , compassion and empathy has affected RK deeply . Earlier too he never regretted display of what or how much she means to him ... he was so keen in having the food from Madhu's hands as if it was something he longed for , he also kept looking at Madhu while she was feeding him . He was totally oblivious to BGOBC and Radhajee

true, i feel bad for rk now technically he lost his mom at a young age after his dad. radhaji was there for him but she never cared to understand rk's emotions and be there for him emotionally which a child needs as a kid a feeling of being loved and having a sense of protection which they get from their parents. radhaji's mistake is that she never understood the negative affect of her marriage with bhatia dude has caused on rk. she did what she thought was right but at the end she lost her own son.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: 4ever4love

I was thinking the same thing.


Previously RK has expressed how much he misses his father, sometimes in past tense but mostly in present tense. we have all seen the impact RK's father has had on him alive and deceased but we have never seen what impact Radha had on RK.

Today it was there big time. Once upon a time Radha was a good mother to her Rishu then - bang - she became a stranger and RK became alone.

How sad to talk about missing your mother, as if she were dead, when she is sitting right in front of you. That is so much pain on RK's part but also on Radha's part.

Now i have refused to get all sentimental on Radha anymore so I am not going there. BUT if this scene does not open her eyes as to how much RK loves his mother, the hurt she has caused him, then I can't see her ever reuniting with her son. Her loss but sadly it is also Rishu's loss.

agree with you. rk misses his mother badly but whenever he looks at radha he sees mrs.bhatia not his mother so steps back. The biggest mistake is on radha's part when she got married to bhati and ignoring her son's wishes complelty. she didn't give rk enough time to accept and understand the reason why radha got the second marriage done. so over all these years, rk has been deeply affected by his mom's second marriage which made him distant from her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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YOU ALL ARE RIGHT agree with you but i want to share one thing more which i am feeling rk want to tell her mother that madhu do every thing for him with love and care if she is thinking that she can give him poison or she want to kill him is wrong and madhu care for rk same like his mother which he was missing a lot. he repeated those words love care of his mother taste of food same like mother hand, he want to show his emotions for madhu to his mom that he is very happy and feel comfert with his wife so don't try to separate them same like she separate his mother to him
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes totally agree with you, RK's dialogues when Madhu was feeding him on the table, it seemed to me that though he pushes his mum away, he wants her to fight to stay by him and give him the care and love he craves, don't get me wrong he is getting that from Madhu now, but I feel he is hurting and he feels his mother turned away from him, so when he rejects his mum he wants her to fight back and be beside him...I'm glad I read your post because it was exactly what I was thinking, I after I watched that scene.

Why I came to that conclusion is I feel Kukuji refused Radha to feed her son and care for him, when he refused (like young sons do when they feelings are hurt) Kukuji must have said leave him to stay hungry if he doesn't want to eat and Radhaji didn't fight to feed him. So she stopped taking care of him, when he needed her the most as he had nobody else, his dad was dead, the love and care needed to come from her only. I feel Kukuji will leave Radha or more likely Radha will break off with him and be just RK's mother in the end, only then will he let her come close to him and accept her love and affection.

RK just wants his mum to remain faithful to his father, despite Mohan Kundra leaving them when he committed suicide. He doesn't understand why she married Kukuji, when kukuji is not that companiable/caring types of husband, in fact even RK is providing financially and kukuji concentrates on drinking, going to night clubs and travelling to bankok for enjoyment, he is not a companion for his mother, just someone that takes and gives nothing, perhaps in the past he gave, Mohan Kundra committed suicide perhaps they were financial pressures and for economic reason and father figure for Rishu she married him, but right now he is not a man that is respectable, so RK will only let her come close to him when Kukuji is gone from their lives.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Miss.Colorfull

today's episode was brilliant specially rk. he is too gud with his words and his style of talking. when rk said he remembered his mom today and misses the love and care he felt in his mom's cooking. while he was talking radhaji was crying. rk kept on going on how he misses his mom and after a long time he actually loved the food because it was made with love and affection. i felt that radhaji was feeling guilty while crying because the son-mother relationship has gone kaput and whatever radhaji does it doesn't really makes a positive affect on rk. today when he was missing his mom despite that radhaji was there with him, says a lot how rk wants his mom back not some mrs.bhatia. even though radhaji is there for rk but he is not emotionally connect with radhaji and radhaji fails to understand him so rk def misses his mother big time but he cannot do anything about it at the same time. at the other radhaji thinks she is trying her best but she never understand rk's emotions and gets angry at him. i think the rk-radhaji relationship might get better but the stepfather-brother duo is never going to let it happen easily. i loved how rk looked upto madhu after finishing food and he was actually understanding her emotions but their silence said a lot more than words could say. rk is comfortable with madhu and he actually feels safe with her like a feeling of being loved and caring which he didn't get since his dad's death. so now rk has madhu to whom he can share his emotions and at some extent his pain as well. madhu has given rk the love and affection he craved for all his life.

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Lovely post, dear.⭐️👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: 4ever4love

I was thinking the same thing.


Previously RK has expressed how much he misses his father, sometimes in past tense but mostly in present tense. we have all seen the impact RK's father has had on him alive and deceased but we have never seen what impact Radha had on RK.

Today it was there big time. Once upon a time Radha was a good mother to her Rishu then - bang - she became a stranger and RK became alone.

How sad to talk about missing your mother, as if she were dead, when she is sitting right in front of you. That is so much pain on RK's part but also on Radha's part.

Now i have refused to get all sentimental on Radha anymore so I am not going there. BUT if this scene does not open her eyes as to how much RK loves his mother, the hurt she has caused him, then I can't see her ever reuniting with her son. Her loss but sadly it is also Rishu's loss.

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