Originally posted by: 0-SD-0
Preet,
Ask Peach, how they handled Viraat's first love for whom he was willing to commit suicide in EHMMB. And now he is in a heavenly relationship with Maanvi. So on TVs all kinds of love happen. Oh! btw, did you read that book...The Man, Woman and the Child. I forgot the authors name. Now why would the protagonist go and have a one night stand when he is happily married and in love with his wife. Its all hormones and imbalances mental and physical states.
Love comes when we keep the windows open. Love at various stages of life attracts different kinds of partners. Sometimes we indulge ourselves against our better reasons and sometimes we let them go again with some stupid worldly sense.
Love in itself is complicated when we are mired in too many definitions around us and sometimes its so easy to just feel it and not name it nor say it.
I haven't read that book, I'll have to look out for it now. Worth the read?
RE: love - All I know about romantic love is what I've learned through movies, television, music, and books. I know people in loving relationships around me but again I've never actually experienced the emotion first hand. I sometimes wonder if I'm capable of actually following through on that kind of love. It's scary to allow yourself to give that much power to another person over what you feel. I guess I just don't trust people in general enough.
In regards to RK and Dipzy, I'm going to take Madhu's stance and say that what's in the past is in the past, although it isn't really is it? RK still has some residual feelings from whatever that relationship was and his relationship with Madhu is going to help him overcome that. He's obviously a different man now. He's a stronger man now than he was whenever he was with Dipz, he's a more mature man, and slowly he's becoming a man that's making peace with all the baggage that he had while he was with Dipzy and the baggage that she left him with.
Here's the thing, regardless of what kind of relationship RK and Dipzy had (and I guess I have to make peace with this as I myself have said several times that when RK feels he feels intensely) she was never able to actually truly love HIM, that's the biggest difference between the relationship he'll have with Madhu. How much did Dipzy actually think about and care for RK in the end? Instead she went and left him with a bucketfulls of extra baggage. Madhu is the one that's going to truly love him for him and thus their love is going to be so much stronger for it. That's what I'm holding onto I guess.
I don't like thinking about Dipzy. I don't like her. Sometimes I wish they had just gone with the orignal Bhua story. Cliched? Yes. But perhaps I would have liked it better than this. (Wasn't he supposed to have a Bhua that entered the picture and then all of a sudden we get Dipzy instead?! Am I remembering that correctly?)
Edited by PreetD - 12 years ago
