A man who can't protect a loved one , isn't a man. - Page 2

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Cassie..

Mukund disappointed me a lot... I thought he would at least support Madhu as a friend.

Anyways, the problem, isn't to support Madhu-Mukund relationship but rather the expectations that that we have from a man to always be the pillar of strength. If there can be weak women and we understand them, being a spineless man doesn't make him any less than a human being...

sorry for rambling..

this is wrong im sorry..you cant justify someone to be weak when they do so much for you..that also when you love them..and no this is not about gender at all. i am a feminist myself and by no means do i permit it or think it to be right when a woman is a damsel in distress..i am sorry. this is about not standing up for your loved ones. more than anything else.spinelessness gives you a lack of perosnality , and perosnality is something everyone needs to have.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i do agree a man is supposed to protect his love. but in real life it is very rare indeed. mukund's reaction was realistic. in reality this is waht happens. it takes a strong n mature guy to support a girl in such a situation. it is very rare to find such a guy. there are men who can be heroes, who might not fight ppl like RK, but who are there in the background to give support to the girl. such guys may not directly fight such high profile opponent, but still help people.

i wd have expected mukund to do atleast that. i mean, him backing out was realistic for a guy frm middle class fly with younger sis. but he cd have helped madhu in tracking shamsher. i mean in today's world most of us some kind of contacts, friends. can't he utillise those resources n trace shamsher. that wd have helped madhu. crying off d wedding can be done later.


but what else can we expect from Mukund! though i wished he had helped, his back out is more realistic.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: leverne

so agree with u...Madhu deserves some one who stands by her rather than someone who lets her face the world all on her own...she is better off single :)


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: priyachand

i do agree a man is supposed to protect his love. but in real life it is very rare indeed. mukund's reaction was realistic. in reality this is waht happens. it takes a strong n mature guy to support a girl in such a situation. it is very rare to find such a guy. there are men who can be heroes, who might not fight ppl like RK, but who are there in the background to give support to the girl. such guys may not directly fight such high profile opponent, but still help people.

i wd have expected mukund to do atleast that. i mean, him backing out was realistic for a guy frm middle class fly with younger sis. but he cd have helped madhu in tracking shamsher. i mean in today's world most of us some kind of contacts, friends. can't he utillise those resources n trace shamsher. that wd have helped madhu. crying off d wedding can be done later.


but what else can we expect from Mukund! though i wished he had helped, his back out is more realistic.

i am sorry but this is not realistic..i have many men around me who would fight for their fiances. my dad is one of them. he fought against his family for her..and trust me..controversialness happens in ordinary families all the time..and not once has my father left my moms side..even before marriage..so no its not realistic..and neither am i talking something idealistic. there are men with spine who are always their for the ones they love...and even women like Madhu who fight against the world for strangers are there.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: anji64

good post koyel..


it's a realistic situation as muku can't take a chance to marry a girl who might bring danger to his own family. he is such a spineless guy who can't stand for the 4 ladies at the police station. it's good madhu gets a reality check.

the scene when madhu hugs muku anticipating his support for them in finding mallik is quite touching.

i know many men who would risk their family..and aayi was shedding fake tears...i know men who stand for their girls no matter what and that is true reality..a reality everyone deserves.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree with u 110% koyel.Aj makkhi ne apni aukad dikha di.I always loathed him,2day i hate him even more.But ek baat se i'm really happy,makkhi se chutkara mil gaya.Party time..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Monami_50

Agree with u 110% koyel.Aj makkhi ne apni aukad dikha di.I always loathed him,2day i hate him even more.But ek baat se i'm really happy,makkhi se chutkara mil gaya.Party time..


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Awesome post!👍🏼

By the way...what else did we expect of him??
He proved himself numerous times that he is spineless...
So whatever happened was not surprising at all...!!

Once he realised that situation..he decided to run than face it...
that's clever of him actually...
.he is not a fool to stand and face the tornado that's coming his way(RK)

So he ran...😃

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: devikamd

Awesome post!👍🏼


By the way...what else did we expect of him??
He proved himself numerous times that he is spineless...
So whatever happened was not surprising at all...!!

Once he realised that situation..he decided to run than face it...
that's clever of him actually...
.he is not a fool to stand and face the tornado that's coming his way(RK)

So he ran...😃

😆🤣 love the emoticon 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shahisthi

Lot of people here criticizes because some of us are against Madhu/Mukund relationship.

Reason we have seen tonight. That is why we don't like the character Mukund. Though madhu & her family realized this tonight the signs have been there all along. This is not the first time he has ditched her.

When his mother was insulting Madhu's mother and Madhu, he left with a simple sorry. He called, but didn't know what to talk or comfort, or give support to her. He just says to his Ayi Madhu is not wrong. But in his heart he is also suspecting her and not believing it completely, which makes Ayi to change his mind so easily.

Madhu was in the same situation as him when she was supporting him. He family and her sister's dreams were at risk at that time. But she supported him and risked everything. But today that person has ditched her when she needed him the most.



You have said everything 👏 I completely agree!!!

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