Originally posted by: Anee2
Love this chain of replies from sainath to deepika di to you 😆 I agree with everything said so far so I guess I'll add on without reaffirming anything.
I spoke too soon last episode about getting original HM back. Her personality just got back from an overly sweet urmila wanna-be to a balanced leader, and now the pendulum seems to be swinging to the other extreme (idk what's with me, maddam sir and pendulums 🤣 there are saas bahu shows where neither hero nor villain's character has an ounce of change in decades, and here maddam sir's characters change heart and mind every couple episodes, aaraam se chalna toh humne sikha hi nahi).
Inke heart or mind mein golmaal hai bhai sab golmaal hai 🤣
Anyways, what's up with HM's attitude and why? Going back to the night before the cricket game, even then she acted very annoyed at KS, barely said a thanks for the poster and left without explaining her plan - that almost cost them the game. I get it, KS should've let her know that the fans' issue escalated, but at no point did karishma lose her cool or take a rash step. She genuinely thought the case was solved overnight, and she had only good intentions to let HM rest (honestly though HM should be the one doing this for KS, poor girl's been working nonstop for last 3-4 months with all of thana's responsibility plus HM & anubhav's loss plus urmila nonsense). The lack of appreciation for effort is classic boss behaviour, but I didn't understand the annoyance at a personal level. Whatever, by the next scene KS had brushed it off and so did I. But the attitude just got worse in last episode.
Billu has helped solved more cases than Cheetah, and spies/informers are very highly valued in the police system. They're no longer doing a favour on him with billu niwas, and he definitely needs official recognition. Thought HM would be the first to appreciate him, here we saw the very opposite.
Ikr! Haseena has always appreciated Billu. In fact, I clearly remember in the very early episodes when she would try to convince him that it's against the protocol to keep him, she referred to him as 'aap'. That was the Haseena I adore. The one I saw yesterday seemed so unfamiliar.
KS 'na-farmaani' was purely because of HM's condescending tone and show off of the SHO seniority. It was not merely a delegation of a task, it was almost a refusal to take it on herself because it doesn't match her standard or position. Since when did the ever respectful HM start associating tasks with status, or evading responsibility. Obviously this case doesn't fall into her police duty, but since when has HM complained or sulked about anything, she's one to follow orders with full integrity even if she doesn't agree.
The HM I know would have done anything given to her for the sake of the duty. That's her obsession with her duty. I completely understand both Haseena's and Karishma's refusal to take the task because this is not what they signed up for but that doesn't mean HM can take due advantage of her position. It came off as complete wrong!
After KS's retaliation, why would HM add fuel to the fire and go as far to declare that KS's disobedience can never change. That taunt was harsh and totally unnecessary, KS has been so obedient lately so where does this exaggerated outburst come from. In the end though HM managed to stab right at KS's ego and weakpoint - her hidden insecurities about duty and capability. Once that's triggered karishma literally looses her mind, she forgets all sense of relations, emotions, respect, reason, etc. and I'm sure the precap was another one of those 'dumb' moments. Not that such reactions are okay or justified, but I think KS's accusation is still in-character for her.
Yes Karishma gets into accusing node once she is hurt. JPT track was the biggest example of that. And precap is the result of her being triggered. Although that doesn't justify her randomly going to someone and accusing of theft 🤣
No matter how deep Kareena's friendship and comfort level gets, KS will always be very sensitive and defensive to HM poking at her weakpoint. What surprises me is HM, who usually understands and handles everyone's juzzbaat, how would she not recognize KS's issue and why would she recklessly trigger it in certain situations. HM has forgiven or at very least understood KS's state of mind during some of KS's worst behaviours, so this reaction over something relatively trivial feels out of character.
Thanks for mentioning this. Haseena has always understood Karishma or at least shrugged off her actions because she knew they were not deliberate. And anything not done deliberately can be forgotten and forgiven. I always felt even during JPT track, Karishma's words did not intend to accuse Haseena. It's just Pushpa Ji's comparison has triggered and hurt her deeply which came out as form of hatred. And everything after that just added fuel to fire. So when Haseena forgave her easily, I knew where she was coming from. Since I mentioned Pushpa Ji, just to let you I always felt even Pushpa Ji was reason of things going so ugly during that time.
But whenever makers need to create a rift they resort to HM randomly triggering KS.
Rift can be shown without showing them going out of character. Because whenever a major fight happened between them, both of them were right at their place. The problem was only that they did not understand that them being right doesn't make other wrong. It has always been lack of understanding for each other's perspective.
This really shouldn't become like JPT track, as friends there is so much else that HM and KS could be mad at each other for. Why make it always about seniority and police ranks.
Side note, I feel HM keeps babying KS as if she can't handle anything alone, and naturally in response KS tries way too hard to prove herself. HM's initial problem was KS's short-tempered nature, well she's shed most of that now and tries to solve cases using whatever juzzbaat she is capable of. So what's the problem, why the taunts, why no trust and approval? And KS handled the thana alone for so long in HM's absence, what and why does she still need to prove anything to anyone? Is it because HM hasn't acknowledged any of KS's successes and sacrifices from that period? The sweetness overdose meant they're emotionally attached to each other, but deep down they don't actually understand each other.
For me they never understood each other's point of view. They might have guessed if one of them is upset and be worried about that. But that's something anyone starts to guess after spending a year or two. But both of them need to learn to live with the difference of opinion they will always have.