If I was the mother in question

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Posted: 14 years ago

Ok here's my question of the day: If you were sent as a mother to either of the homes, what would you change there? How would you address the issues in the Nigam and Bedi families? Remember both the women are very happy with their lives and can see nothing wrong, yet Rajeev constantly harps on "Change in life and not lifestyle", whereas in the Bedi family, emphasis was on "Don't bring in change for the sake of change". So what and how would you handle this exchange?

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Posted: 14 years ago

i think i will remove menucard from bedi house b'coz if u all (maid anita and childern) r staying together 10 years.....she must have an idea of what childern will like / dislike...or they can discuss what they will eat......and if anita is like member of house...childern should respect her...instead of calling anita they should call her didi.....as she loyal to bedi family

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Very good post Purva Jee :) 😛

I guess several members on this forum who are parents can provide their valuable opinion here. I am little confused with role of woman as a wife and a mother. I guess both are bit different roles. I think by definition, mother's role should be more focused towards kids n their upbringing. As far as emotionally connecting with kids, I think both Pooja n Anu have done good job. Anu definitely needs to work on Yashraj's academic progress. She also sounds very stubborn and close minded, which should be changed as well. Pooja's has done comparatively well . Her kids do respect mom and moreover they have sensible grandpa like Kabeer Bedi who can help them further. 😳

Nigam family definitely needs to be more organized. The should understand importance of hygiene . As a mom, Anu needs to discipline her laadla beta. 😊

Suggestion for Pooja would be to not rely on maids n nanny too much. She should spend more n more time with kids. Aliya is kind of diplomatic girl and smart enough to hide her stories from mom.

I personally would ask Rajiv to change , rather than pooja n anu.

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: .Arjun
Very good post Purva Jee :) 😛

I concur, but I don't think I m qualified enough to comment

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: axeion

I concur, but I don't think I m qualified enough to comment

if u can point out fault in someonns mother...praise good thing of some mother...then ur enough qualified to comment

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: axeion

I concur, but I don't think I m qualified enough to comment

Ekta jee ...

Isme qualification ka kya hain ......free forum me free advice dene me kya jaata hain 😳 .....mujhe dekho har jagah apne views daal deta hu ......koi sune ya na sune

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: ashima1975

if u can point out fault in someonns mother...praise good thing of some mother...then ur enough qualified to comment

Neither did I ever point out fault in anyone's mother nor did I ever praise someone's mother... Mothers are Mothers, and let's just leave it at that !!!

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: .Arjun

Ekta jee ...

Isme qualification ka kya hain ......free forum me free advice dene me kya jaata hain 😳 .....mujhe dekho har jagah apne views daal deta hu ......koi sune ya na sune

Arjun Ji... Aap ka toh kya kehna... I don't think I can put myself into their shoes and think from their POV...

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: axeion

Arjun Ji... Aap ka toh kya kehna... I don't think I can put myself into their shoes and think from their POV...

Don't put yourself into their shoes .........you wont fit in there 🤣

Aur yeh POV bhi sab pakaugiri hain :)

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: .Arjun

Don't put yourself into their shoes .........you wont fit in there 🤣

Aur yeh POV bhi sab pakaugiri hain :)

@ Pakaugiri... I totally agree 😳 I was looking forward to shorter posts, but iss forum pe bhi lambe lambe posts... Half of the time I lose track of what I am reading mid-way through the post...Forgetting abt replying

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