Prateek should not be blamed

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I can not understand why Prateek should be blamed for what has befallen on Grewals.
How conveniently Kushan,Lavanya, Sonali and even Amrita has blamed Prateek for everything.
Why was Kushan clinging on to Swaika's name for his career? He is not a Swaika, he had qualifications and if he had talent and flair he could have made it himself rather than using his wife as a ladder. Prateek did not erode his self respect; Kushan did not have it in first place. There were ego battles among Swaika siblings - Prateek, Lavanya, Gaurav. Then why is Prateek being singled out? Lavanya too is as sly as a fox and power hungry. She never paid attention to her kids, kept extra marital affair and always gloated over uber high class upbringing. And she blames Prateek for her misfortunes.
When she learnt about Kushan kidnapping Trisha, all she does is to shoot Trisha to death. How callous!! With Bobby's death, she reaped what she sowed.
Prateek, however egoistic he was ,did not plot against kids and Kushan goes to extent of selling off Trisha in flesh market and Lavanya tries to kill her. Amrita too is siding with that monster Lavanya. I hope Trisha regains her memory and identifies Lavanya as the one who tried to shoot her to death.

Instead of blaming Prateek, Lavanya should do some soul searching ; she is no saint either. Lavanya kept on showing down Amrita for her being a middle class woman and even questioned her upbringing but Amrita never went on plotting spree like Kushan.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I made the similar post. I would say about 85% similar. Kushan and Lavanya have become hardcore criminals. They have plotted again and again to hurt Trisha knowing how much it would hurt Amrita who had been a constant support to their children. Yet they did not hesitate once to hurt them. Both of them are weak minded. Prateek is everything but not a criminal. Whatever he has done but like you said he never hurt any of the children. That does go in his favor. I just don't sympathise with Kushan at all. He deserves it fully and more. I can never sympathise with Lavanya at all either even as a mother because she was never there for her children and when she did not care for another mother's pain then how can she deserve to have sympathy. Not mine.. I hate it that Bobby is dead. I did not like how Amrita was defending them. I want to see what she has to say when she finds out it was Lavanya who shot Trisha and when failed she made another attempt to kill her by calling her to Mudh Island location.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Prateek is as much to blame as Kushan and Lavanya. He didn't physically hurt Trisha but he mentally hurt her. He had an affair and this was why Trisha went away in first place. He never respected his kids or the mother of his kids. He even lied to Trisha that he ended the affair. If he loved and Respected his kids he would never hurt their mom but Prateek Swaika only loves himself.
Yes Kushan and Lavanya are criminals but even they have suffered at the hands of the Bully that Prateek is. He is a selfish selfish poor excuse of a guy. Jus because he has committed no actual crime, does not make him a Criminal of a persons mental state, which I must say is worse than physical abuse. A father is suppose to be the type of man a daughter should set standards for a guy to marry, I feel sorry if Trisha marries a man like her dad, she will become her Mom and be disrespected. So yes Prateek jus as guilty
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweetsana1

Prateek is as much to blame as Kushan and Lavanya. He didn't physically hurt Trisha but he mentally hurt her. He had an affair and this was why Trisha went away in first place. He never respected his kids or the mother of his kids. He even lied to Trisha that he ended the affair. If he loved and Respected his kids he would never hurt their mom but Prateek Swaika only loves himself.

Yes Kushan and Lavanya are criminals but even they have suffered at the hands of the Bully that Prateek is. He is a selfish selfish poor excuse of a guy. Jus because he has committed no actual crime, does not make him a Criminal of a persons mental state, which I must say is worse than physical abuse. A father is suppose to be the type of man a daughter should set standards for a guy to marry, I feel sorry if Trisha marries a man like her dad, she will become her Mom and be disrespected. So yes Prateek jus as guilty


I don't agree at all. Lot of people have EMAs it does not mean that their children leave home and their mother to teach their father a lesson. It was a mistake that Trisha made. She did not even tell her mom about her father's affair which she should have. She paid heavily for one mistake. She trusted her aunt and uncle but not her mother. As far as Prateek is concerned he is no saint but he is not a criminal either. If he is having an affair it is nobody's business but only his and his wife's. It does not make him a criminal. Kushan and Lavanya had been no saint either. They are worst of parents and human beings. If they cared so much for themselves and their children they could have left Prateek long back. But they were greedy for wealth and Swaika name. So rather than leaving him they chose to stay and when they could not handle it anymore then they chose this heinous way to get back at Prateek. Please don't tell me that they stayed with Prateek for the family sake. I don't think so. They were there only for their own personal greed nothing else otherwise they would never have thought of hurting Trisha.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Still Lavanya is hiding truth about unlicensed gun. Worst, she is even hatching plot to get Prateek murdered!! Kushan and Lavanya are wretched people. Trisha did a blunder by enacting that fake kidnapping drama. She never realised that she would end up emotionally stressing and torturing her mother by hiding herself as per Kushan's plan.
Even if Kushan just plotted the kidnapping, his hands are soiled with Prem's blood and he should definitely be behind bars for that. And yes he did not kill Prem because he had extra marital with Lavanya but because he discovered that Kushan was behind Trisha's disappearance. How cruel is this Kushan!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: monikameghan


I don't agree at all. Lot of people have EMAs it does not mean that their children leave home and their mother to teach their father a lesson. It was a mistake that Trisha made. She did not even tell her mom about her father's affair which she should have. She paid heavily for one mistake. She trusted her aunt and uncle but not her mother. As far as Prateek is concerned he is no saint but he is not a criminal either. If he is having an affair it is nobody's business but only his and his wife's. It does not make him a criminal. Kushan and Lavanya had been no saint either. They are worst of parents and human beings. If they cared so much for themselves and their children they could have left Prateek long back. But they were greedy for wealth and Swaika name. So rather than leaving him they chose to stay and when they could not handle it anymore then they chose this heinous way to get back at Prateek. Please don't tell me that they stayed with Prateek for the family sake. I don't think so. They were there only for their own personal greed nothing else otherwise they would never have thought of hurting Trisha.


It isn't easy for a wife to leave her husband, let alone a mother leave,especially in India. It isn't easy for a Mom to get another husband while she has kids, also they don wanna disgrace their family. If a man truly loves his kids and wife he would never have an extra marital affair, simple as that. Trisha didn't want to hurt her Mom, that is why she never told Amrita.

Lavanya could of walked away but she was also an important member of Swaika Group , a company which her father built, so she has a career. Why should she leave family business ? Because she a woman and married so has a different surname. Prateek brought all this on himself because he had title CEO. He wasn't even ashamed to raise his hand to he mother of his children in a public place, a hospital Infront of an ACP...that's his RESPECT 👏👏👏.

Nobody is denying Lavanya and Kushan are innocent, far from it. They are disgusting humans but fact remains Prateek and his ego were the cause of it all. Look at way he also bullied Kabir, the ACP trying to find his daughter. All Prateek can say is " I am Prateek Swaika "
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweetsana1


It isn't easy for a wife to leave her husband, let alone a mother leave,especially in India. It isn't easy for a Mom to get another husband while she has kids, also they don wanna disgrace their family. If a man truly loves his kids and wife he would never have an extra marital affair, simple as that. Trisha didn't want to hurt her Mom, that is why she never told Amrita.

Lavanya could of walked away but she was also an important member of Swaika Group , a company which her father built, so she has a career. Why should she leave family business ? Because she a woman and married so has a different surname. Prateek brought all this on himself because he had title CEO. He wasn't even ashamed to raise his hand to he mother of his children in a public place, a hospital Infront of an ACP...that's his RESPECT 👏👏👏.

Nobody is denying Lavanya and Kushan are innocent, far from it. They are disgusting humans but fact remains Prateek and his ego were the cause of it all. Look at way he also bullied Kabir, the ACP trying to find his daughter. All Prateek can say is " I am Prateek Swaika "


Still don't agree!! One can not hold one's tongue. They can only control their actions and their speech. If Lavanya could not control Prateek that was her problem no one else's. She did not have much problem with Prateek insulting Kushan until she lost Prem and her position in the company due to Neha chaose. When her wrongdoings were out in the open only then she decided to put Prateek down by hook or by crook. When she failed miserably then she got frustrated and wanted to do anything to bring Prateek down. She lets Prateek push her buttons. On the other hand there is Gaurav who never let Prateek push his buttons. He is always in self control. Gaurav was happy when he became CEO but similarly he was not devastated when Prateek threw him out. He felt bad but he was not on a mission to go out and take revenge on Prateek or whoever comes in his way like Lavanya and Kushan. They had no self control.

And no one here is saying that just because Lavanya is the daughter of the house so she has no right on the family business. She has full right and she could have claim it in the court. But she wanted it all, power, money and full rights. She is power hungry. She just said couple of episodes earlier that now that she is the CEO so she will do as she pleases. So, nothing can defend her actions and saying Prateek is the root cause is utter nonsense. When kids are bullied in the school we don't teach them to go out and kill or hurt those bullies, instead the kids are taught to deal with such behavior. Here Lavanya is dealing with her own brother. She did not feel ashamed to hurt his family and children who are her family also. And what was Amrita's, Trisha's and Sanya's fault that she was out to seek revenge from them when she very well knew it did not even affect Prateek whom she thought was the real culprit. So, dear nothing can justify her actions!! Still rather than learning from her mistakes and saving what she has left she is out on a suicidal mission to ruin herself and Meghan even further by having Prateek murdered.

Nothing can justify Prateek having an EMA. But still that does not make him a criminal. I am totally disgusted at his character but still I won't blame him for gerawal's self destruction,


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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree with u TM.. Prateek shouldn't be blamed.
If we rewind the story to the time when Trisha told Kushan about Prateek's affair with Neha, it is there we get the mere reflection of Kushan's real intentions. Instead of convincing Trisha that he'll talk to Prateek & try to make him understand, WHAT DID KUSHAN DO? He tried to take advantage of Trisha's innocence & started this chain of events.
Anyone who wants to say that Prateek is responsible by cheating on Amrita first, then let's all be very clear that Extra marital affairs aren't new to our Indian society. Men & women cheat-Period. And that's why I have never really held Lavanya responsible for Kushan's fate. Kushan is inherently EVIL. If a spouse cheats, then yes their marriage would be affected but that should not serve a reason to kill/ torture someone else.
And I won't even like to deal with "But Prateek is a bully".. Well, do bullies deserve to see their children's torture & death? Nope. Bullies should bs dealt with directly.
Should evil uncles kidnap daughters just to torment cheating fathers? I know it's unacceptable for a man to cheat his wife, BUT Kushan should've talked to Amrita or Prateek regarding Trisha's concerns about their marriage but he took this to a new tangent. That's what NORMAL & mature individuals in a civilized society are expected to do. The GREWALS are totally responsible for everything. When Lavanya learnt about Kushan's evil deeds, she chose to save her marriage & wanted him to kill Trisha. Well, as u sow, so shall u reap. They both are being punished right now- with the death of their own kids. I so wish Prateek would've survived today's bomb explosion. But I want to see Gaurav's reaction after Prateek's death as well. 😆 This guy is awfully seedha.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweetsana1

Prateek is as much to blame as Kushan and Lavanya. He didn't physically hurt Trisha but he mentally hurt her. He had an affair and this was why Trisha went away in first place. He never respected his kids or the mother of his kids. He even lied to Trisha that he ended the affair. If he loved and Respected his kids he would never hurt their mom but Prateek Swaika only loves himself.

Yes Kushan and Lavanya are criminals but even they have suffered at the hands of the Bully that Prateek is. He is a selfish selfish poor excuse of a guy. Jus because he has committed no actual crime, does not make him a Criminal of a persons mental state, which I must say is worse than physical abuse. A father is suppose to be the type of man a daughter should set standards for a guy to marry, I feel sorry if Trisha marries a man like her dad, she will become her Mom and be disrespected. So yes Prateek jus as guilty


I disagree. 😊
Prateek had an affair but this is NOT the reason why Trisha left. She left coz she was CONVINCED by Kushan to leave & how that will prevent a divorce.
Who planted this idea in Trisha's brain that if she fakes her own kidnapping her parents won't get a divorce? Trisha is a kid- she didn't know right from wrong. We know that if Neha wasn't involved in the kidnapping, then Prateek would STILL be with Neha- even after Trisha's kidnapping. Kushan knew it as well. But still he lied to Trisha. So he's more to be blamed.
Bullies exist at each level of the society. Every businessman is expected to be shrewd. Prateek is no saint, we know that. But killing or plotting to KILL an individual changes the entire game. That's pure evil.
I agree Prateek never gave Gaurav & Lavanya their true share in the company & treated them like dirt. But there are countless ways to deal with him- which are much more peaceful & ethical. Nothing JUSTIFIES the act of killing. Let's not forget that Prem was also killed by Kushan. Lavanya/ Kushan should've gone to the court & demanded their rights in the company. Get the Board members on your side if you think your stand is correct. Or let go off the Swaika company and enjoy watching Prateek's downfall without your support. If Lavanya was that capable, and if she felt she deserved to be a part of the company as she had worked twice as hard- then she should have proudly & respectfully taken her share & left the Swaika label, to start a new life with Kushan & her kids. But Kushan had already climbed a new tangent by that time. And instead of putting some sense in Kushan's brain, Lavanya supported him. Evil.. That's Pure evil. 🤢
I know we have seen Prateek & his disgusting tricks to insult EVERYONE. But I never wished him to be killed. Never even LIKED the posts in this forum which wanted Prateek to be killed. No one deserves to be killed unless he's commited a horrendous crime- a murder or rape. Other than that- every crime is punishable by law.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I am not saying Prateeks affair was the reason why Trisha got kidnapped, the reason was Prateek and his bullying ways non stop.
I stated the affair as a reason for loving himself and can't even Respect his wife and kids. Jus because Lavanya and Kushan have the " Criminal Tag " does not mean Prateek cannot be blamed for how everything turned out, jus because he has done nothing " Criminal " does not mean he innocent. He manipulates people all around him. Lavanya and Kushan are criminals of law, Prateek is a Criminal with peoples emotions. Now which one mentally affects a person more?

All the Swaika's are evil in their own way and disgusting people also, apart from Gaurav who is the only decent one...Adults only, not the kids. none of them are fit enough to be called humans, even Sonali is disgusting laughing at others misfortune, she that bad her husband prefers men.
Edited by sweetsana1 - 10 years ago

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