Prateek should not be blamed - Page 2

Originally posted by: sweetsana1

I am not saying Prateeks affair was the reason why Trisha got kidnapped, the reason was Prateek and his bullying ways non stop.

I stated the affair as a reason for loving himself and can't even Respect his wife and kids. Jus because Lavanya and Kushan have the " Criminal Tag " does not mean Prateek cannot be blamed for how everything turned out, jus because he has done nothing " Criminal " does not mean he innocent. He manipulates people all around him. Lavanya and Kushan are criminals of law, Prateek is a Criminal with peoples emotions. Now which one mentally affects a person more?

All the Swaika's are evil in their own way and disgusting people also, apart from Gaurav who is the only decent one...Adults only, not the kids. none of them are fit enough to be called humans, even Sonali is disgusting laughing at others misfortune, she that bad her husband prefers men.

@BOLD: I disagree with ur question itself.
U urself noted that Kushan is a criminal proved by the law- can u not see how his actions have MENTALLY affected the cousins & Amrita- who according to u are INNOCENT.
Prateek is a criminal according to people's emotions- u mean to say he's HARASSED EVERYONE emotionally & tortured them emotionally. YES he has. But should he be KILLED? Or should Trisha be kidnapped just to PUNISH PRATEEK? Nope. There are laws which protect individuals from mental harassment. There are individuals in our own life who have a potty mouth-they blurt out abuses, disrespect everyone who's around them, insult their family- it could be our rude boss, it could be our saddu teacher, it could be unsympathetic police officer- anyone. Should they be killed FOR BEING MEAN & selfish?? 😊 Nahiiin.. Jitnaa bhi disgusting kyun na ho, he deserves to live. Unless- like I said before- he's commited a horrendous murder or raped someone. Then tohh he deserves to be killed- BUT his family shouldn't pay for his crimes.

And my stance remains the same with Sonali. She's bad.. She selfish.. But she shouldn't be killed. She's not a horrible insaan just because she's mean. The only one who deserves to make her pay is Gaurav- and that too by seeking a divorce from her. Vivaan should break all ties with her as well. See, this is how Sonali learns her lesson. Anything MORE than this will be unfair & unjustifiable.

Nobody should be killed or harassed and that is where Kushan and Lavanya are the criminals but Prateek played with their emotions and mentality to force them into a situation mentally that they took such evil drastic actions. Mental abuse disturbs a person to an extent they don know what they are doing. Jus cause we didn't see Kushan or Lavanya mentally unstable before, don mean their mind was not disturbed by Prateeks actions.

Originally posted by: sweetsana1

Nobody should be killed or harassed and that is where Kushan and Lavanya are the criminals but Prateek played with their emotions and mentality to force them into a situation mentally that they took such evil drastic actions. Mental abuse disturbs a person to an extent they don't know what they are doing. Jus cause we didn't see Kushan or Lavanya mentally unstable before, don mean their mind was not disturbed by Prateeks actions.

No way does it justify going around muderding and kidnapping but when u suffer mentally for many years, the mind is not in control. The fact Kushan is now in a mental asylum is not jus because he killed his son but because all events from mental abuse finally destroyed him, killing his son was what tipped him over the edge finally.

I am a PTSD sufferer from years of mental and physical abuse by own mother. Should I Respect her after what she done to me and allowed disgusting things to happen to me? No way, I despise her, I even wanted to harm her but instead self harmed to rid the pain...mental abuse does that. 20 years I suffered and it took one incident for me to take a breakdown, jus like Kushan has finally took a mental breakdown with incident of killing his son. For 20 years I smiled and got on with life, like Kushan but ur brain can mentally only take so much before u snap

@Bold: YUPP true.. So should a wife who's husband contantly harasses her for dowry or sleeps with other women- has the right to kill him? Do u expect she would be spared from punishment and not blamed because she suffered under him? I know it's DIFFICULT but killing is not an answer. That was all that I wanted to say. If mental abuse transforms an individual & forces him to do something EVIL then what difference remains between the victim & the tormentor?? Dono jaanwar bann gaye na.. Insaan hote tohh dimaag use karke iss abuse Se baahar nikalte. That's how we, the humans are different from animals right? If an animal (like a dog) is tortured and abused, he would BITE every hand that tries to approach it. Kya difference raha,'Kushan aur usss abused animal mein? Bass yehi kehna hai mujhe. You urself wrote "mind is not in control". Toh what would it result in? Disaster. Mayhem. And Evil. Coz a stable mind can not come up with all these things.
U like Eijaz's character na? ACP Kabir.. U have seen Kabir suffering mentally right? At night he wakes up screaming and crying. Suffers from PTSD. Takes his meds. Goes for counseling. That incident with his daughter keeps harassing him- but did he TRANSFORM himself into a mad man who secretly kills doosron ki daughters because his own daughter was brutally killed. Kabir's mind loses control too. He yells. Throws things. But he STOPS himself from turning into a jaanwar. Yeh difference hai Kushan aur Kabir mein. They both have suffered from extreme mental torment in their own ways.

I am really sorry with what u went through with your mom. I know I cannot understand the pain u suffered back then and the pain u experience each time u have to talk about that. And I know that it's very difficult for u to forgive her or forget what all she did. But I also know that self harm doesn't help. You just looked for an outlet to deal with the pain- u believed self harm will take ur mind off it. Kushan thought kidnapping Trisha & tormenting Prateek will help. Kya hua iss-Se?? It changed nothing. Coz I am really sorry, but that's not the right way to deal with things. I know there comes a point where we breakdown eventually- dil tohh karta hai sabko maar do- but our actions at that particular point, are what define & decide our future. You either charge back at that person- make him bleed, kick him, hit him..
Or you leave, get out. Get help. Let everyone know- without caring about society or logg kya kaheinge. And if your painful experience is over, but u are still haunted by bad memories, toh do what Kabir does- no not break plates. Get medical help. And LEARN to channel your energy into positive things. You have to remember that it wasn't your fault. You should not blame yourself for the abuse. And I am so glad u stopped urself from harming your mom. You are VERYYY brave and I am proud of u for doing that. If Kushan would have once told himself that Prateek is the BAD guy here- and he shouldn't harm Prateek- tohh none of this would have happened. Bure loggon ke Saath hum bura Karne waale kaun hote hain?? Let the law take care of that.
I hope you have all the support around u right now & I wish u more strength to come out of the pain of your past. 😊 🤗

I completely agree with u about the killing, a person who kills another is not human, offcourse we can't blame Prateek for Bobby's murder like Kushan is, it is totally unfair. Kushan one is responsible for that and Kushan alone is responsible for the trauma he put Trisha thru. I was pointing out that Prateek is also responsible as a third party, although he has committed no crime first hand. People deal with mental issues differently and I guess creatives decided to go down worst possible route. It kinda gives a bad image to people with mental issues if u ask me? We already live in a world where it is hard to come forward because of stigma without watching murders and kidnappings on tv. But I guess even that happens in reality.

I think Prateek is a cowardly bully, plain and simple, who enjoys putting others down, probably to hide his own insecurities. But is he responsible for what Kushan or Lavanya did? I think he's to blame partly for what Kushan did. Kushan is and has always been a weak man and Prateek preyed on that for over 20 years. Kushan probably accepted every insult with a smile while seething inside and finally he reached a tipping point and then he did what he did and put the whole mess into motion. But what Kushan did to Trisha was evil, plain and simple - he wanted to sell her into sex-slavery!😡

Lavanya did what she did to save her family and her position in a cold, calculating manner. Prateek isn't to blame for that. The Swaikas for all their money and exulted bloodline are a bunch of ugly monsters except for Gaurav.

But please, make no mistake. I hate Prateek more than everyone else on this show. He's almost sociopathic as to how he shifts blame so he has no culpability in anything. He has no loyalty towards anyone , not his wife, his siblings and I believe, push comes to shove, his kids. Look at the way he's shoving his grieving his sister out of the company when she has lost her son. He even took sadistic pleasure in it. Yes, Lavanya tried to kill his daughter, but he doesn't know that. He just took his opportunity to get rid of the one person who can wrest control of the business away from him.

But Prateek still doesn't deserve death. He probably deserves to lose his business and his money and his marriage. I admit I would have enjoyed watching him lose his precious company but death he doesn't deserve.

We will all agree to disagree haha but we all Agree that Killing someone for revenge is not the answer, we can all agree that Gaurav is the most decent Swaika sibling and we can all agree that Money and Power is what Prateek and Lavanya love more than anything. I said away back at start that the best punishment Prateek can get is his business collapsing and him being left with no status and power.