Dutta Reverting Back--Changing for Yourself - Page 5

Originally posted by: Dancingdoll

@Saaki:

You might be right....And who knows, DP's letter might hold lot of answers to Dutta's questions.....

Your snippet in bold did make me think that while reading DP's letter and walking back in the memory lane, Dutta might recollect how Naku helped him in that phase, how she got him back to making peace with AS and how selfless she was...That letter, no matter what the content is, will compel him to think about Naku....Will force his thoughts towards Naku that he has been very judiciously avoiding...The DP phase can only throw positive light over Naku's character and not otherwise.....

Originally posted by: Dancingdoll

@and both of you:

stop opening a mutual admiration club here!! 🤣🤣....else I also would have to start on, "jaao hato!! mein kahaan....u both are bonds" type liners!!

🤣🤣

Originally posted by: sikkaisha

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Dancingdoll

SB, Yaar, Kya yaad dilaa diya....This song from Sadma, is one of my favs, just like, "Chingaaree koi bhadke"....I remember my friends and I used to sit in college lawns, post classes and sing this song at the top of our voice...One particular friend of mine was just too good in this song, and we would stuff his mouth with food the whole day, so that he could sing this for us!!.....All nostalgic DD....awwww....good !! Yes, i love this song !! It is so inspiring and motivating..😍

Totally agree with you on this song....Adding to it, Even the title para -

"Ae jindgi gale laga le,
Hum ne bhi tere har ik gam ko,gale se lagaya hai
Hai na ?" Yes !!

This also goes so well with Dutta. Its like he is pleading the life to make his moments lively...he has accepted the gift of life - his share of sorrows. Now its the "Life's" turn to fill him with happiness!! Exactly, you know i would have written the same in my post yesterday but i am too lazy and try to write and express my point of view in the briefest ways and hence, only connected the sahaara and kinaara part with your post....I would have gone further and write about it too but then i just gave up 😉 😆..But nevertheless, you got my point and what exactly i meant and my purpose is served 😊

Yes, i agree this song suits dutta perfectly and his life after nakku enters his world....This is what he would have felt like, he is just asking life to lessen his share of sorrows and downs and have mercy on him. He has had enough and is tired of it.He just doesn't want any more of this and wants to start a fresh chapter in his life and pleads life to be not so harsh anymore and give him some respite..But life once again has been harsh to him and he is unable to cope with the heartbreak anymore !! Seriously, yes it is 'life's' turn now to be good and do its part and fill his life with much-needed happiness !! 😊

Aha!! Love the song!!! Me too !!

Originally posted by: msthula

you know parul, I have wanted to post on this for a long time but just could not get the right words and right frame of mind....and now that i read your post, am glad that i did not because you have put it far more accurately than i could have👏
Now my thought...dont know if i would make sense or would invite the wrath of all the IFians😉....but even while good TASHA moments were being shown, I had always felt that although Dutta had this 'me' thing in his mind. although he gave every kind of credit of nakku.... it was me me me all the time.... you know the scene at the bar....when he was asking nakku that wont she stop him from drinking??? when he wanted to see himself in her eyes ... the scene that made us all swoon😳...in that scene also when nakku says something about what more could she ask...he says that you dont need to ask because you are always right....it was this that bugged me a lot... he was as if putting her on such a pedestal that she became an idol for him....and she was not supposed to budge from that stance ....and always be there for him....it was more like a safe bet that he had made....and felt that it was love....even when he went down on his knees on his SR....and he said that he is giving himself to her....it did not have a surrendering feeling....when he said that she can tell him anything ....it was more of hear me out ....i am pouring myself out....he was not ready to listen....he was just in dutta wants to confess mood...it is dutta's sorrow and nakku has to bring him out of that...she is his anchor 👍🏼 True
and she has to remain that ways....

personally i think...when people are in love it is both ways....agreed there is one who is always strong and the other weak....but then everybody has flaws....Dutta is not able to see that....he lives in a world which has no touch with reality....he thinks he can judge people...which is a joke by itself...he thinks that everybody is dhokebaaz because they hide something from him....but on the contrary he forgets to count his blessings. 👍🏼 ....Yes, it is time for some retrospection and for some acknowledgement of his blessings.He should not overlook them anymore.

he has been raised by a woman who could have hated him all his life and he could have been sold off ....he has a friend who in spite of inhumane treatment remains loyal to him...he has a woman who would not leave him in his worst days...but he cannot see those things because he cannot see beyond himself.....

he has to realize this that whatever happens in your life... good or bad...is not necessarily because of others....ultimately it is you who are responsible for the happenings in your life... you cannot go on blaming others... you should take responsibility of your own life.... 👍🏼 Yes, he must understand this fact that " I am the master of my fate,I am the captain of my soul." 😊

still have much more in mind...will add later on and hope i made some sense😊

____________

Srushti

Originally posted by: sikkaisha

Hey thaaaanks a lot dear for appreciation of my writing🤗 I am not a v good writer( DD and Adi are excellent) ,its just that when I feel strongly for something ,I speak my heart out and its because of the encouraging attitude of IF that I can be me in my writings.


Its just that I have learnt from my life that its very easy to judge someone ,criticism is easier but it is a destructive attitude.It serves no good. and makes a situation worse in every respect.It really takes a lot to empathize with someone,walk in his /her shoes ,accept a person with flaws 👍🏼 👍🏼

.But it is the only way to live this life successfully.I read a statement by A.R Rahman ;"All my life I've had a choice between hate and love, and I chose love, and now I'm here,"
👏 Very true isha....Yes, indeed life is all about making choices. We can chose to be either happy or sad, to look at a half-filled glass of water as either empty or half-filled.It depends on your perspective and your attitude - how do you take it and relate to it.That's it.

"And in life, it is all about choices we make.
And how the direction of our lives comes down to the choices we choose."


I just try to follow that.
Thanks a lot for your appreciation buddy .it means a lot.😊

Originally posted by: Sweet_berries

Wow,S very well said! "Muah" Even your earlier post was so thoughtful.All my friends are such sulzhiwi ladkiyaan. Isha You.Looks like I'm the only one who thinks so immaturely Dutta ki tarah😆 How old are you girls?100?😉

D & I are forever grateful to have such sound common sense waale & emphathetic friends around us.

Originally posted by: ZubyDutta

Wow,S very well said! "Muah" 👏 Even your earlier post was so thoughtful.All my friends are such sulzhiwi ladkiyaan. Isha You.Looks like I'm the only one who thinks so immaturely Dutta ki tarah😆 How old are you girls?100?😉😊

D & I are forever grateful to have such sound common sense waale & emphathetic friends around us.😊