Dutta's pain hurtful, Naku's pain deserving???? - Page 3

Thank you all for such wonderful replies😊..naku is feeling better now and much stronger..she is going to give back to Dutta..bahot tarsega woh..bahot

Originally posted by: ushankitvc

For Dutta, Nakku was alway a very good friend, philosopher and guide. He trusted her so much.She was his problem solver and moral support to face problems..........But not once he ever thought she too may hav some problem.........He nevr enquired abt her life, past, problems or any thing of that kind...........He was too sure that she was problemless becoz she nvr brooded or cried over it..............maybe if he would hav enquired abt it she would hav told him her truth bfore............. or atlleast given a hint.

True..but then in real friendship sharing is on both sides...he was not sure that she was problemless..but he belived that just like he shared his feelings in straitforward manner..she would too...if the time comes...but thats where nakku failed...she became a very good friend, philosopher and guide for dutta but failed to make him her friend ..by not sharing..frienship doesn't need coercsion of ant kind.

I agree to crystal here........nakusha is more selfless in love than dutta.......he wants her because she makes him complete..............where as she wanted that dutta should get married to anyone yet be happy.....she wanted to remove that stain of darkness from his heart n wanted to make him look beyond the horizon but he can't think out of the box as painful experiences have blocked his vision completely........who thinks dutta will be all happy hurting nakusha like this? he is also punishing himself by punishing nakusha......once he melt down, he will use his brain and analyze meaning of nakusha in his life........now its dutta test too........will he break these obstacles to win nakusha again? because I feel this time naku will walk out of his life once he forgives n understands her......

Originally posted by: lizdarcy

"When love beckons to you follow him, though his ways are hard and steep. And when his wings enfold you yield to him, though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you. And when he speaks to you believe in him, though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the garden. For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your groW*H so is he for your pruning. Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun, so shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth......

Love possesses not nor would it be possessed; for love is sufficient unto love. And think not you can direct the course of love, if it finds you worthy, it directs your course. Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself."

But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires: To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night. To know the pain of too much tenderness. To be wounded by your own understanding of love; and to bleed willingly and joyfully."
? Kahlil Gibran (The Prophet)

I suppose Dutta's learning this lesson of love. For what is love that has no obstacles in its path. Me thinks the problem with Dutta is he got it too easy this time. Agreed, he's gone through enough pain and suffering, and he can't take anymore. He's almost insane now. But this test was necessary. His joy, his love won't be the same without the pain. When it came to Nakusha, things were too easy for him. She gave him her shoulder to cry on, whenever he needed it. She became his pillar of support. When accused of trying to sabotage his marriage, she took the blame on her head saying that if loving him was a sin, she was ready for any punishment. She saved his life, without caring for her own, and was freed. She said she'd sit by his side in the face of death, and she did that too. Dutta's taken her for granted. He's bared his soul to her, she didn't. She didn't ask him before loving him. She didn't ask him for his love either. She was ready to let go of him if it meant that he'd be happy. She was ready to see him get married to someone else and stay by his side as his friend forever.

I'm not defending Naku. She is in the wrong. Whatever her reasons, she has been dishonest with him. But did she have a selfish motive behind it? Aai Saheb had one. Babi had more than one. Kala had everything to gain. Naku had none. In her own words, she was scared. Not that he'd downright disown her. She was scared of his reaction. She was scared that he'd harm himself. She wasn't wrong, was she? He'd have done the same before the marriage, maybe the reaction would've been a bit tamer.(I doubt this?.coz Naku herself did the revealing now, and yet, he's gone crazy) So, Naku's a dishonest person, maybe. One against many of Dutta's sins. Now everyone can't be as honest as Dutta, can they? Dutta is what he is. He says what he thinks. No pretence. It doesn't matter if it's AS or Kala or Baaji who's in the wrong. For him, betrayal is betrayal. So, when was the last time he listened to the other person's side of the story when in a dilemma? I don't remember any such instance. He is open with his feelings, so he expected the same of everyone else. But sadly, not everyone is as straight as Dutta when it comes to their emotions. Dutta's an emotional time bomb waiting to go off, so it's no surprise that everyone walks on eggshells around him!

What I want to say is that, if he cannot open his eyes, if he cannot get out of his pain and see what Nakusha stands for, maybe he doesn't deserve her too. The same way he feels that she's a traitor and doesn't deserve his love right now! After everything she's done for him, does her beauty make her evil? Dutta really needs to sort this out. How can he forget everything that has happened? If Nakusha can forgive him for what he is, if she is ready to go to the ends of the earth for him, and live with him inspite of what he does?.can't he forgive her this? I love the fact that Dutta's learning this lesson of pain. Something tells me that this pain will give him the strength to face everything wrong, everything evil in his life. It will help him clear his head and heart. Sort out his priorities.

Sigh. Sorry for the rant. In the end, I'm a TaSha fan. I want them together! At any cost. And like I said in another post, I don't mind Dutta meting out this treatment to Naku, coz this time around he'll have to win her love. I SO want this! I want him to behave like a lover this time.

Tu ne apne pyaar me kya kuch nahi kiya?..

This time I want Dutta to be doing all that?.deewangi?to win her back. And for once, I don't want Naku to give in easily. Ab saara huroor tod degi woh Dutta....it's time!

Sigh. How I love this Jodi! *bawls*

Originally posted by: mussy.jamshed

I agree to crystal here........nakusha is more selfless in love than dutta.......he wants her because she makes him complete..............where as she wanted that dutta should get married to anyone yet be happy.....she wanted to remove that stain of darkness from his heart n wanted to make him look beyond the horizon but he can't think out of the box as painful experiences have blocked his vision completely........who thinks dutta will be all happy hurting nakusha like this? he is also punishing himself by punishing nakusha......once he melt down, he will use his brain and analyze meaning of nakusha in his life........now its dutta test too........will he break these obstacles to win nakusha again? because I feel this time naku will walk out of his life once he forgives n understands her......

I also want to say crystal.......he said yesterday" aisa kia tha jo meine tum logo ko nahi diya"......what did naku take from him? did she accept his money........? did she accept any jewels.........naku did not take anything from him.........he is again disgracing her.............nakusha always at the receiving end...........nakusha did great things from him,........she made him realize importance of love and trust.....in supriya's fiasco she forbeared his punishment.........she was ready to die for him , she saved him n his family.........she also rejected his proposal saying I am not of yr status n u can get somebetter than me........she agreed to marriage as dutta was unhappy..........for AS..........she did not want to marry him before telling him the truth.......she bowed down to elders wishes n getting punished again.........what did she get in the end? punishment., hatred........I tell u nakusha will lose hope in love this time........she trusted dutta always but dutta always doubted her when put to test.........I want this time nakusha does not forgive dutta so easily...........I want her to forgive him n yet walk away from his life to show that "she can let him go for his own good"........then he better try hard to win her again..........n then tasha gets united.......

very good thought crys..............................

I love both Dutta and Nakku....So I am always going to justify both of them. In my opinion, they both need to learn stuff from each other. That is love.

This is perhaps cutting too fine a line, but there is a difference in my mind.

ok I have to say something here.This is really a thought-provoking post.I have been reading so many opinions that i feel everyone is right and yet no one wrong..