Dutta's pain hurtful, Naku's pain deserving????

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left_forever

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Posted: 14 years ago

Guys, I need to vent this out or else I wont be able to enjoy this forum anymore. I ask for forgivesness in beginning and no harsh feelings but I am no fire today.

I dont love Dutta more and Naku less or I dont hate Mahi more and Mishal less...both are same for me as characters and as humans. And that could be the reason I cant take this anymore whats happening with Naku on this forum.

Let me jot down these first so that it becumes easy for me to put forth my thoughts.

Dutta's mistakes: Marrying Naku without her permission and treating her so badly wihtout even trying to find out truth once.

Naku's reactions: Accepted, forgiven and forgotten. Not a single word...Kyu saab..nothing

Dutta's mistakes: Decision to make her aazad again when he felt like she is good girl and doesnt deserve this punishment

Naku's reactions: Accepted, forgiven and forgotten. Not a single word...Kyu saab..nothing

Dutta's mistakes: Naku kidnapped by Dutta' enemy and Dutta sitting at home just coz his kala tai showed some snaps and he needed a provocation to save Naku

Naku's reactions: Poor girl...didnt even know her love is not coming for her. Thanks to Anna' tape

Naku's Mistake: She didnt tell Dutta that Sups was trying to run with mawali coz Sups gave her faith that she wont try again and Naku believed her thinking Saab ki Khushi

Dutta's reaction: Holding gun at her head and forced marriage

Naku's mistake: Aha...she didnt tell him such big secret to Dutta coz she believed Bappa, Babi, baji and then AS and again didnt find the courage to share as she knewed Dutta wont digest it easily.

Dutta's reaction: Naku is dead for him

From this I see Naku is much much better than Dutta in many ways except that she didnt tell her only truth to Dutta. Why everyone's heart is going for Dutta only and no one feeling sorry for that poor girl who is getting treated so badly for the person whom she felt will save her from this curse? She was hiding her truth from outside people like Morey coz she knewed they will take advantage and she was hiding her truth from Dutta coz she knwed he wont understand. So that girl's curse is staying as curse only for her.

What is hurting me more is all saying Naku deserves such punishment and noone feeling sorry for that girl. Y so?? Why she is being hated so much and Dutta is poured with so much love each time for his each mistake?? I dont love mishal at all nor do i love Mahi but yes I love Dutta and Naku a lot and so I feel the hatred for her more. Both are in pain...Dutta and Naku..I feel Naku's pain is more coz the only person whom she loves so much is again treating her the same in front of whole family...so badly..all her past good deeds gone in vain.

She did mistake..big one...so did Dutta of always acting as he wished..without thinking...mann kiya tab shaadi...mann kiya tab aazadi...mann kiya tab hath uthaya...mann kiya tab haath pakda....so all these forgiven for Dutta...y coz he is guy or coz his pain is so readable , viewable?? and naku's one zooth and she bcumes so bad?? Girls she never showed the pain she went thru.

My only pain right now is that even Naku needs sympathy as do Dutta. As after each mistake DUtta is forgiven easily so Naku too needs to be forgiven.

Please comment...I need them

Edited by ccolaco - 14 years ago

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Dhanashree

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Posted: 14 years ago

Crystal very well analysis girl..........👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

Even i had same questions in my mind too..where was Nakku wrong.............Dutta's charachter is shown as fighter, daring man..but y is he showed immatured?????????? y cant he give 1 chance to nakku to speak up....

Really CV's are giving chace Kala to play her evil games, Dutta to shout & yell at nakusha...Y cant Nakku do the same................

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spandana11

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Posted: 14 years ago

Crystal ya me to with you and all the members on forum also feeling bad for nakuu hope things get better for poor girl and this time I do not want nakuu to forgive dutta so easily.I too feel bad for dutta ,but you are right with every word you wrote😭

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Anupama

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Posted: 14 years ago

I agree with you totally. Even I feel for Naku very much. Dutta need to understand her. She is the same person, only her face changed, so what's the big deal.

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usha

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Posted: 14 years ago

I tooooo felt the same but couldnt put it to words..............Beautifully written.......... the Cvs should really read this thread and tthen proceed with the episodes............Nakku should not forgive Dutta this time easily.................I dnt mind Nakku leaving PN ...........and Dutta cums back to PN with new found feelings for her................And finds Nakku left PN................He runs behnd her to find her.................He finds her after a goood search.........but she refuses to cum back.....saying she is really scared to nxt agin she will be chrged with another punishment........Then he manaaos her and bring her back to PN............

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23rdkeven

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Posted: 14 years ago

Well Said - Hats off crystal.👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 one thing I did not understand - Our dutta is blaming Nakku for cheating him (then to just for the matter of color and beauty).

What about our dutta (what you call for Dutta's reaction with Nakku) all the time ditching her and acting like a psycho with her and not giving her an chance.

PLEASE LET ME KNOW THE NAME FOR WHAT EVER DUTTA IS DOING TO NAKKU?

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left_forever

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Posted: 14 years ago

U know what I feel more than hurt Dutta is feeling insecure now that as Naku is beautiful even she will leave me and go. He is so insecure about thngs. He needs to learn a lot yet..a lot. Yeah I too feel Naku shud leave him and go....jst go

I love Dutta as much I love Naku but Dutta has to change a lot and only Naku can make him change. Or else ppl like Kala will always take advantage of him and ppl like Naku/baji will always have to suffer

Edited by ccolaco - 14 years ago

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chitrakshgeet

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Posted: 14 years ago

Hey Crystal,

I do agree with each and every word you told'.When ever Dutta required a support Nakku was always been there'but now he is not listening to her at all'😡....IN COURT,CULPRIT WILL BE GIVEN ENOUGH SUPPORT TO EXPLAIN THE REASON FOR THE SIN'.BUT HERE NAKKU DID A MISTAKE OF HIDING HER BEAUTY JUST TO SAVE HERSELF FROM BAD PEOPLE'😊

APNA IZZAT BACHANE KE LIYE AGAR KOI AURAT KHOON BHI KARTI TO WOH MAAF KIYA JATA HAI....KYUKI HER AURAT KO APNA IZZAT PYARA HOTA HAI.....WHATEVER NAKUSHA AND BAABI DID THERE NO MISTAKE IN THAT..😊

Now she shouldn't forgive Dutta for this...NOT TRUSTING HER ...😡

She won't deserve any punishment...since there is valid reason...😊

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LTLFan

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally Posted by ccolaco - 17 November 2010 at 1:38am

U know what I feel more than hurt Dutta is feeling insecure now that as Naku is beautiful even she will leave me and go. He is so insecure about thngs. He needs to learn a lot yet..a lot. Yeah I too feel Naku shud leave him and go....jst go

Edited by ccolaco - 17 November 2010 at 1:38am

My answer:
do you mean dutta is insecure- now that his naku is beautiful she might also ditch him like others. so did he think dark, ugly nakusha will not get anyone to ditch him for?

I hope he doesn't think like that. if he does, then he is really sick. i can have no pity for him. or may be he should be get psychological help.

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Wanderbug

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Good analysis..thank you for a good post.

my Pov is that when dutta did all those mistakes, he didn't knew nakku that well.they were friends yes but..their friendship is more as dutta sharing nakku preaching..she never once talked about herself..she could have shared with dutta about her sis without revealing her beauty. she could have told him about her life in basti as ugly duckling. but she never shares her feelings..she tells what her aai tells her or how dutta should express himself more....even after dutta fell for her..she had never told him about herself..not the beauty...but herself as a person..

Dutta had always been more of an open book to nakku..she knows him better then himself..she proudly says so..and knowing how deeply he loves her and trusts her and how betrayal and lies of any sort hurt him..she still kept something this big from him.

Dutta as a character has always been etched a turbulent complex person..his dream sequences in the jungle track and then during DP track..portrays his complexity well. Rationally thinking a person who is so easily disturbed would react in volatile manner in situations like this..he will always be this volatile in his anger sparks..it can't be changed..his quick silver temper and rash action are his major faults but cannot be helped.

Nakku on the other hand has always been a clear person..her priorities..her thoughts and manners had always been clear. she is one of those persons who can keep clear head in storm. she thinks be4 stepping forward for anything. she has no qualms about her mothers decision..i mean ..see she never q's her mom abt hiding her face..never rebels..any kind of rebellion is against her character..she is calm and serene even when dutta forcibly marries her. so taking any decision without thinking through is not in her character.

As individuals they are so apart but as a couple they make a whole. they complete each others defficiency..when nakku doesn't stand up to kala..dutta stood for her..even threw her out of his house for her honour. when dutta refused to go to his dying father nakku forced him to go to him. thats how husbands and wives are..they complete each other. what nakku did now seems more wrong to for the sole reason that dutta and nakku had made so many mistakes in the past already. they had come a long way as a couple from that day of 1st marriage to now on SR. their relation had risen above so many of the problems and a mistake like this one just reduces that whole relationship to nothing..

hence i m blaming nakku more..afterall she is supposed to be the rock on which the monument called dutta stands..she is the base..and it crumbled.

Sorry for rambling..