Put on Dutta's Pathaani Jooti! - Page 9

i would do anything to get back the person i love.

Beautiful points made by Jorda and lovely example DD in reply.Here I just remembered a quote I wanna share
Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation -- by Kahlil Gibran.
The bottom line is that all differences stop mattering ,when that person is no longer with you.And as Jagtap said-fir uski kami ka lai ehsaas hota hai....(.loved that entire dialogue sequence by him.)

All this talk on jooti reminds me of that song from Hum Aapke Hain Kaun? , which is what Naku is probably thinking right now 😆

hiee DD 😛awesome analysis...great post👏

hey first of all...just last night i read ur post n sum replies...of jani, sana, vandu n mimi's(rosepetal)
wen i tried to imagined dat belive me it was really very difficult...n wen i did dat...omg... literally i had tears in my eyes😭...cant belive
den i decided not to reply to dis post coz of my fillings... i thought... no i cant share its may be difficult to sy..
so may be u wil think nw dat...hw can i reply naa...let me tell u...after reading ur post due to sum wrk islept very
late nearly 4 am...really late🥱...n kya yaar mujhe wahi dream aana tha...no dream its a nightmare...DD

ok so let me tell u...as u sy a complete stranger 😲and in he walks...looking at me just as u sed...
he tries 2 talk 2 me...(n lyk Naku he 2 sounds xactly the same as i'v always knwn him 2 sound...nw i understood
why Datta sed fair nakku to keep mum...it hurts n remind abt our luved ones n he is nt infront of us )...
but the voice is cumin out of a new person...same as jani sed...
my first reaction would be confused, angry n hurt ...(in order)
i tried to talk wit my family first...not wit dat person...i totally ignor him...n den from my family...
if i get or nt get my answers...i prefer to walkout ...may be jst in my room nw n locked it...
i'm really very short temperd n very emotionalful too...
(my best frnd sed on dis dt..behind my angr..i try to hide my feeling or my tears)...
so i just close my fiest in anger to control it (i always did dat...coz i dont lyk violent...coz i always feel if i nt did dat den i;m difinetly hit sumone or hurt myself alot)...n start crying😭...n wen i cum back to my sense...i prefer to stay quite coz i want an explanation from him... but i wont tell him to speak...lyk shuru kar teri kahani mujhe sach janana he, noooo i'm not dat type but if he talk den i'll listen him carefully wit no emotion or no xpression on face😕...
may be i need a tym too accept him...coz wen i heard him...der is diff image wer set in my heart soo...its diffult to set a new image... its lyk my brain n heart walking in two direction's...but i think again....shoud i trust him?
after enough explanation i forgive him but after dat it's difficult to trust d person again...may be he see d changes in my behaviour...or may not...i cant tell u 😕

soo DD i think dis is enough nw ...so i want to knw ur reaction...experiment try kiya yaa nahin😆
(i type in a hurry if error hapen den sorry.😳..i just want to throw out my fellings coz i dont want other nightmare😆)

Oh DD i can't imagine we will react worse than dutta we wouldn't have related with gori naku at all & we would have bashed CVs. cvs always gave us a teaser of reveaaling gori naku still it was frustrating rem. JMM time naku washed her face and about to reveal & what did we do we were not ready 4 her saying noooooooo we r not ready gori naku can stay i rem. the form went frantic none was ready 4 her so there u go ur answer if we were not ready despite knowing bcoz it was hard 4 us to connect to gori naku we r afraid she might not feel like the kali naku if we were in that halat we can feel dutta's halat!😉

Originally posted by: Dancingdoll

would u be able to relate to his face, feel the same effect, sentiments and emotions when u go into his arms finally? wouldnt u get the feeling of a stranger in front of u?

BTW, Violent streak!! ah ha...that was the first one! 😆😆

Originally posted by: Dancingdoll

Guys,

I am reading lot of varied posts on Dutta's reaction to Naku's truth and this post is not to contest any point of view because I sincerely feel that everyone has his own taker and feeling that he takes from a scene and none of us have a right to rub the other on his taker for a simple reason that one cannot change other person's feeling and variety is always spice of life...that's what makes this forum spicy!!!

Having said that, I have a simple case study for all of you -

Imagine, you are sitting in your bedroom, day dreaming about your partner (BF/Hubby/Fiance/Potential BF/Fantasiz-able guy)....You recollect your best romantic moment with him, you recollect the sacrifices he has made for you...You recollect the best set of words he crafted only for you....You recollect that one crack in him that made you run and envelope him, make him feel that u are always there for him.....Your eyes well up! You get emotional....

and BOOM! Suddenly a figure walks from the door towards you....You wake up from your trance and look at him, shocked! You cant recognize him! You have never seen that face before...You get scared, "Who is he? What is he doing in my bedroom?"....You reach for the first thing you get your hands on!

And he comes close to you, sighs, look at you longingly, stares in your eyes, serious face and tells you, "I am the one you love"....

What would you do after your initial open mouth expression?....

(Please note that the guy is the same guy you were day dreaming about, either his color has gone through a 180 degree change or he has removed a mask that he always had ON!)

Please be sincere in your answers, put urself in the protaganist's shoes that I have just sketched above, imagine and then see your own reaction in your fantasy, and then answer me!! The reactions would be an interesting thing to analyze here!!

AND GUYS, I WILL PREPARE A COLLAGE OF OUR REACTIONS!!! So, think hard, Imagine yourself actually going through this process and complete that scene for me! Its completely alright if your reaction is different from Dutta's or other member's! its your reaction and it defines the person you are! So, be proud of yourself! 😛

Love,

DD

very nice post DD

so horrible to think like that, it is really hard for me to digest, i would run away from the room with out saying any thing (because i sm scared of stranger) and if my family convince me to take him as ur hubby because he is the one u r in love with. i shout at top of my voice and break every thing i get until my frustration get over. i go to my room and cry untill i fall into sleep. next day i won't get angry or cry all i ask the man to leave me alone for a while. but my love for him will never change but it is hard for me to accept. he keep on coming to meet me ask for a chance all i ask is let have a cup of coffee. give a chance to try once more because i can't live without the person i love the most. my weakness is my love.

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u know some thing DD why i starte watch LTL it all because of nakku- my hubby is so much like her. i get angry when he try to hide something and lie to me i get angry to the core and break every thing i get he won't get angry at me. when i stop breaking and start crying he will clean the mess i made and come nere to me and console me and ask forgiveness for his lie he also say i hide because u get hurt. if i leave my hubby he will never give up😉

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Originally posted by: Dancingdoll

Khushi, how would u relate to an unknown face?...u would start with trust or would u trust after u have related to the face?

agreed DD i cannot relate to an unknown face............... but relation not means to knowing sm1's face.......... its the inner heart we knw........................... u tell me if u love sm1 lyk Dutta loves nakku can u really even dont bother to listen him once just becoz the face is unknown????????

Originally posted by: sikkaisha

EXACTLY ......I just imagined this situation......We were mentally prepared for this situation since very beginning.Yes very very true...very valid point
If we ,along with Dutta would have seen Nakku for first time as fair gal...We would have been equally bewildered and this forum would be full of reactions as intense as Dutta's reaction.
WOW .Loved this point dear👏
You know I just remembered that once my friend had very long hair and he had a long ponytail and I Ioved his look ...one fine day he got his hair very short ,sort of army cut and I was finding it so difficult to connect with him for nearly a week..I loved his long hair and his new look made me so uncomfortable and made me long for his previous look again..If a hair cut can make me so uncomfortable,Dutta's reaction is totally justified.You know fair Nakku and dark Nakku do appear totally different...My mom who doesn't watch LTL asked me; ye woi ladki hai???
Someone very correctly pointed out this is shock,so we shouldn't judge him on this....real reaction will come sometime later.

dutta wears a pathaani jooti?! why have i never noticed this..hmm prolly because my nazar doesnt move from the top half of him 🤣 on a more serious note dutta is completely justified in his anger. i know its easy to say we relate to persons personality..but that personality is associated to a face we know. a face no matter how it looks becomes part of us and our memories. and to suddenly see a new face you just wont be able to relate to that personality its not possible and instantaneous connection isnt just possible. it takes time because you actually are getting to know someone "new" and yes dutta did fall in love with nakkus heart but right now he isnt even sure thats his nakku. and if he isnt sure how does he know its the same personality/heart? its very easy to yell at our tv screens but to actuallly just accept someone new like that isnt easy. and this dutta whos whole world has only been recently been flipped around thanks to the secerts his dear AS has been keeping and now this from the person he loved..hes hurt that she didnt trust him enough to tell him but the whole world when she claimed to love her saab.
though the best scene on this whole thing was when he put babi in her place i was like serves you right always thought for your daughter never let her take her own decisions ghadi!
but the scene which i in no way approved of was dutta strangling baji there is was and will never be a justification of that for me. if baji is guilty so is the rest of his families why didnt he attemtp to strangle his brother in laws. he didnt utter one single word to his family in comparison to that. made me too sad. thats it really enough of mty rambling was it me or you know when dutta did that neck roll thing did that remind you of harry potter? he would do that whenever he was possesed by lord voldermot in the order of phoenix..it made me laugh!

i actually found this a hard one d.d. im not really the slapping type, I would not slap him. i think it seems something so unbelievable that i would be in a state of denial. i would be hurt beywond belief that the person iloved kept such a hugething from me. my other huge thing would probably mistrust of the person, ,,,what else is hidden from me? if you loved me and see me as your equal,, why keep such a secret?? maybe i would want to end the relationship, but how do i balance myself between this mistrust of the person, and the love that i felt for supposedly the same person. how do you get rid of the love u feel for someone because their complexion has changed? unlike dutta i would also need to hear the reason behind keeping such a secret,,,and if there is a reason i am not so unforgiving as dutta i think. but nakku also has a very good reason,,,in my case why would a guy need to be protected from buri nazar to begin with lol. with me, the other problem might be difficulty in relating to the person,,,but if the dark and fair person are 1 this is surely not impossible.