Put on Dutta's Pathaani Jooti!

Guys,

i need to think about this, 1 thing I am sure about is that I wouldnt do whatever dutta will probably do next. i would be angry, and hurt and i would probably need space for a while. but honestly if i really loved someone, i would want to believe in the person no matter what. i would WANT for their to be a reason behind hiding something so big. and logically speaking, for someone to hide something so big there HAS to be a reason

niki.. tune meri muh ki baat ched di hain..i could nver write as beautifully as u have above.. but this was exactly my thoughts when some could not understand POV. it hurt a bit that some could not understand his love and felt his love was weak.. i know i cannot question their POV and i must respect their POV. but this post will maybe help them better in understanding Dutta's pov for sure.

I would hurt, angry and confused..

Originally posted by: Hessa85

i need to think about this, 1 thing I am sure about is that I wouldnt do whatever dutta will probably do next. i would be angry, and hurt and i would probably need space for a while. but honestly if i really loved someone, i would want to believe in the person no matter what. i would WANT for their to be a reason behind hiding something so big. and logically speaking, for someone to hide something so big there HAS to be a reason

I would get very very hurt and then really mad! It would take a lot of time for me to think straight after that. Even if he is explaining, I might just hear him talk but words may not make sense to me..

DD. meina usko aik jhoota khaich k marunge honestly if I confront such a situation, I wil react angrily n shattered as I m v emotional person. If we love someone, our brain connect thoughts with visual image of that person, when face gets changed. U wil immediately get disconnected , ur feelings does nt cme out so easily for that person. U are with smeone 24x7, he or she does nt stay true to u. I wil b v hurt n might nt stop crying easily. I agree that dutta reaction is justified. If I were in hs place, I would ve felt cheated. I do admit I have soft corner 4 nakusha but she dug hole for herself n nw she has to bear the consequences

Originally posted by: prettywoman

niki.. tune meri muh ki baat ched di hain..i could nver write as beautifully as u have above.. but this was exactly my thoughts when some could not understand POV. it hurt a bit that some could not understand his love and felt his love was weak.. i know i cannot question their POV and i must respect their POV. but this post will maybe help them better in understanding Dutta's pov for sure.

here is my reply from anotehr thread

dutta is not doing wrong here guys.. poor guy has been lied to by everyone and everyone knew the truth except him.. just put urself in his shoes and think.. if the person u married has a new face only cos of their jhooth, whatever the majhboori, for a person like dutta it is inevitable that he will lash out and that is just what he is doing.. and in some respects what he is saying is true na...kaali nakku mar gayi.. she will never come back.. but slowly he will realise the heart in gori nakku is the same.. pls cut him some slack.. usko itna bada sadma laga hain.. a stranger claims to be nakku and he is expected to believe that?! i really feel for him.. i do feel for nakku too, but she knew the outcomes, didn't she when she hid thr truth.. i am not gonna get into why she hid the truth etc, but at the end of the day, dutta has been betrayed again and for a person whose faith on beautiful faces is so fragile, this must have been the last straw..so let him cleanse his mind after venting out all his anger.. then he will sit down and ponder as always! just hope baaj is not penalised too much!

his love for koel nakku is so deep and strong, that he cant even look at this new face..not cos his love is weak.. in fact he is mourning the loss of his koel nakku.. and it will take some time..

I would be devastated and very very angry. Hurt and confusion are part and parcel of that reaction, but I would just walk away. So in that sense, Dutta's reaction is very justified. You cant just blindly accept someone who has just told you - By the way, I am fair now :)
But once I get calm, I am also the type of person, who thinks - why is that everyone is supporting the other person and nobody is backing me up??? Is everybody mistaken or is it just me? That is when I will start asking the right questions - Why? When ? Who ? The answers follow: Men-circumstances-my upbringing in the basti | My own mother.
The real question is what will it take to calm down? Another incident to harm the one you love or just retrospection.