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Khushi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#61

too good DD.................

i was thinkg the same......... what some1's reaction if it actually happen to him/ her................................ If its me then my first reaction would be completely confused?????????

I may shout n cry n leave him for sometime............................ but still not come on any conclusion.................. i gather my strength and talk to him..................... if i really love him i cant let go my relation in such manner........................ if the reason is actually valid as nakku has................. then definitely i forgive him........... though I take some time to be normal with him as i earlier........................ But atleast i cant punish him or throw him out of my lyf.......................... if I truely love him i surely have trust on him............................

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Subii

@Subii

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Posted: 14 years ago

#62

I was expecting this kind of stuff from you DD.😊

my reply would be:

If I would have been in such situation where in I am in love with someone and I am waiting to be with him all along my life, I am dreaming of a beautiful life ahead and all of a sudden the person comes in front of me with a different face main to behosh ho jaungi.. seriuosly i will faint ..i wont be able to take this betrayal i might have nervous breakdown.. coz this deceit is what i consider to be the most cruel and disgusting.. We all are blessed with parents, siblings but those are not by our choice but when we choose a life partner its always our choice that is why our expectaions are always high when it comes to our partner..and if the partner turns out to be the one who has befooled you then you dont have a place to hide urself, ur greif, your broken heart!

the situation would be like pairo ke neeche se zameen khisak gai hoo. dill baith gaya ho.. i dont think i would be able to react sensibly at that point of time.. later on I might ask for a reason from the person as to why he did this to me .. what all was wrong that i did to him..

As you said face is definitely the starting point of the attraction you connect to a person vai his face and then as the time passes by it becomes more of a connection to the heart but u definitely visualize the person with his looks.. For dutta the whole connection has broken completely.. I would never ever go near such person whom i cant relate to.. Nakku is ajnabi to him at the moment.. He has lost his power of thinking.. His world has crashed down to ashes..itna bebas uusne kabhi khud ko meshoos nai kiya hoga.. not even the time of seema, sups not even when he came to know abut his father.. had it been for the first time in his life he might have taken it a bit differently but he is emotionally fragile, he is way tooo vulnerable to this situation beacuse of the past experiences he has had..

Thanks for sucha lovely post DD! i got a chance to put myself in his shoes and to be honest with you i got really scared! thank God i have never been in such situation and hope not to be in future too..

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kiran255

@kiran255

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Posted: 14 years ago

#63

Well Dd i am on with DUtta reaction
so if i have in this position
i first of all be shocked , asked everthing in a stubborn mode
cross questioning
and definitely other person will get some slaps too
that is forsure

i have opened my life to him and now
he is telling me the face i adore doesnt even exist
that would reallly burn me up !
and he/she will have to pay fro consequences!

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Nikita

@Dancingdoll

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Posted: 14 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: sikkaisha
@DD
Lately, I have gone into the same mode, what would it take to calm down and is anything in this life worth getting worked up on! Live for right reasons - Love, friendship, care and make life simple!!...Poor Dutta, only if he could make his life simple! 😛😉

Exactly....very very true.I ,after few years of soul searching ,have made this attitude a way of life.IT DOESN'T MATTER.Now I judge everything on basis of how is it affecting my peace of mind and anything and everything that disturbs my peace of mind ...I drop it there and then.

Exactly, and a little practice and the process becomes simple!

i am sure Dutta will also get to work on him and change himself finally!

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-Ritz-

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Posted: 14 years ago

#65

Wow DD awesome post. 👍🏼

*me puts on Dutta's Pathaani Jooti,* OMG they r too big. 🤣 and then runs away. yippeee I got Dutta's jooti.

but I want his ear rings. 😔 😆

okay, on a serious note, I would just run away and would not even listen to anybody and would later question once my mood settles down. when I'm mad, I have to stay alone for sometime and then would question the person later. I would try my best to know why the person did what he did but would be initially mad and angry.

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Nikita

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Posted: 14 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: sikkaisha

A very thought provoking post dear
I would be disoriented for a while ,would surely feel disconnected.I would like to be alone for some time,really be away from him for some time.And it would really really depend on state of my psychology at that time that how long I need my space.If I am in a positive frame of mind,I would analyze things better ,with much ease,looking more positively than negative.
But the person I am,I have my dark moods when if faced with a sudden change in life,my system seriously shuts down for a while,I lose all my capacity to be rational and I NEED,absolutely need my solitude to cope with the change.
I can totally empathize with poor Dutta ,coz he is a person who has seen a LOT of pain,whenever he sees some flicker of happiness and tried HARD ,.fights his demons to try to be positive again...poor chap is so cruelly shoved into a state lower and darker than before.
I can,.by my personal experience say that it is easier to make yourself numb and be in a hard shell than be vulnerable,having defences low ,shown hope of happiness and then see it snatched away from you.
It did take a lot of strength on his part to trust life again and now when he thought he has found stability and meaning in life FINALLY ,he must have felt his world crashing down YET AGAIN.....he must have felt such strong sense of DEJA VU...this is enough to scare living daylights out of anyone
and this time he was TRULY REALLY in LOVE ( not like earlier with both Sups and Seema),much more emotionally involved ...hence deeper the wound and more severe the impact.
I totally understand his reaction that " I can't take it anymore ...Main pagal ho jaunga."Everyone deserves some smoothness , some normality in life.....
How much can a person bear the shocks in life...I dont think he will or can be in a state of being rational at this time
I know he will eventually soul search and accept her ,totally understand her ,and may be respect her more by appreciating her difficulties.
But definitely after a while...NOT SUDDENLY...no matter how much he has changed in recent time

Completely and totally agree with you Isha....We feel Dutta shld accept Naku immediately, but we have been preapred for gori Naku from the start....but Dutta wasnt...Just imagine, if till 15th NOV, CVs had kept the real Naku under wraps from us and suddenly on 15th Nov when we are expecting a lovey dovey romantic rendezvous, BOOM! We see a new gal, a goraa chehraa, what would our condition be? wouldnt we wonder whats happening? w*h is this track? why did they change her color...thats not the Naku we have invested on....why get her.....just because we knew the gori Naku we had prepared ourself with the set of feelings that she deserves...shldnt Dutta get enough time to get over this shock?

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Nikita

@Dancingdoll

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Posted: 14 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: pbtghosh
hah..... shhhhh

first I 😲. no reaction on my face (this is my basic nature which pzl every one) but I can feel my heart & body collapsing. only a question "WHY" ...if he start to speek listen oponent (bcz at that moment i feel he is my enemy) all words are going out of my mind only going in my ear. after finish his story. I leave that room then I laugh on myself (how stupid I am). I go to any place where unknown crowud present (like local train). after long time when i feel better come back to my room .... close the door...take a bath... put on my music system with an old song then start analysis his word. If i found any satisfactory answer then i call him to discuss otherwise I ask him to leave me.

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ritun

Ritun, so, u too walk out like Dutta and then u use diff tools to calm down and then retrospect on the issue in hand.....we need to see how much time Dutta would take to calm down and what tools would help him to calm down and get him to the state of retrospection!

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Nikita

@Dancingdoll

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Posted: 14 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: sikkaisha
Waise DD ,I know few people close to me with a reaction which I find totally opposite to the essence of the show and this reaction is an example in my list of "what is wrong with the world"
I would want to share it with you-
"Are,kaisa sa hai ye Dutta ,kyun ro ra hai,ek to itni sundar gori ladki mil gayi hai,usme bhi pareshani ho rahi hai ise.Iski to lottery lag gayi...."Hope you got gist of this mentality
What would you say to that...It made me cringe inside .....Ur comments

Isha, This is a shallow response to a reaction who hasnt understood Tasha Love...This case study was to make each of us understand how difficult it can be to relate to an unknown face....Our reactions can be different from Dutta's but if you notice the underliying intial reaction of everyone was shock, anger, devastation, mad....Noone went and hugged the new guy in front of them, even if he had a Tom cruise face!....Dutta's love is not shallow...he loved Naku for what she was....As Subbu once mentioned that Dutta's love is so pure that he loved her for this face...he wasnt like Anna, disgusted at her ugliness initially and when he sees her beautiful face, he goes to become a leech!!

Wouldnt Dutta be another Anna if he does the exactly as u have quoted above? Dutta is not shallow like Anna, he isnt a leech! he wants true love, flesh doesnt mean anything in his books!!

My answer to these ppl would be what Nkau answered to Anna, "Tu mere saab ki tarah kabhie nahi ho saktaa, woh meri khoobsurati kabhie nahi dekhe" (but he still loves me from the core of his heart! I am his life and his reason for existence....not my flesh!!)

I just loved how Dutta shrugs the beautiful hand of a strange gal standing in front of him....He wanted only Naku!

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Nikita

@Dancingdoll

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Posted: 14 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: supreme_shine
LOL me..? I wouldn't get angry.. I would still talk to that person but I would distance him from myself in a way that he wouldn't even know. That's me..I keep my friends close and my enemies even closer..the people that I hate don't even know that they are hated by me...so first I would be trying to get an explanation, then I would have my little guard on and maybe if that person's love is strong enough and I think I can trust that person, then I will let down my guard and chill but if it happens again I obviously wont forgive anyone...I hope you understand what I mean but I sometimes confuse myself too so...😆

My My!! This is one hatke reaction that I was eagerly watching out for in this thread!...U r dangerous gal!! 😆....I totally understand...I loved the diff reaction!!!....BTW, What would it take for u to feel that his love is strong?

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Nikita

@Dancingdoll

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Posted: 14 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: bfunofbb123
Hey DD great post dear u have done a marvelous job by doing this bcoz most of our feeling will b clear to others by doing this i 4 one DD i will tell u how i would feel putting my self exactly on dutta's shoes & imagining the person i love! well 4 me he will b alien this person i know & grown to love is no more standing infront of me instead this stranger claiming to b the same person that i love how could i trust him he could b bluffing 4 all i know & to top it off my family knows & say cruely ya this is he yes he doesn't look the same but beleive me he i the same underneath haila i will b mad frustrated & would want this nightmare to end & at that time i would do anything to get back the person i love. to b honest DD i don't know if i would b able to love that person it is not even about betrayal it will b the fact that i won't b able to c my love, the person that i thought i will spend the rest of my life is no more. that will hurt me the most. i completely understand dutta's pain but, as a viewr bcoz i know naku's pain & what she has to go through in life i understand her too! But dutta doesn't & as i said above his anger is justified putting my self in his place i might even feel worse. what i want him to do different from before is bcoz he loves naku v.much now & i want him to understand her after he is gone through his emotions and dealt with them he should give N a chance to explain & i am sure knowing D he is a golden heart so after knowing her past he will melt & may b open up to N & will realise she is the same & hope fully gradually will fall again & i can't wait their LS to start.😊

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very well said Jorda...Iam very impressed....and u have made a very profound point here - "I would do anything to get back the person I love"....This reminds me of a couple who broke up amicable because there were difference of opinions and somehow they were not able to sort it out, no matter how hard they tried and believe me they really tried hard....but as soon as they broke up, I saw the gal go into pieces...she was shattered (well, so was guy but I wasnt with him to see it)....they were stil on the same call where they broke up and the gal, who was all for the breakup, just fell down on the floor and started crying bitterly...I was shocked...because I thought she was prepared for this break up and she had talked about it multiple times....and she just told the guy one thing, "It just striked me that I wont be able to see u again"....and there on the other hadn, she told me later on, he cried hard too....and result - they are back together and still a couple! 😆😆😳....The shock that hit them when they realzied that this would be their last call, was too much for them to handle...and they decided that she would give some and he would some till they reach the common ground...I dont know how successful they would be but they are stilla couple today!!

and on the 2nd bold point, exactly what I was telling Isha in the above post, that say CVs had kept the real Naku's face under wraps from us too and 15th nov would have been the first time when she would have been presented to us without any prior notice, would we be able to accept it?

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