Put on Dutta's Pathaani Jooti! - Page 10

Originally posted by: sikkaisha

Beautiful points made by Jorda and lovely example DD in reply.Here I just remembered a quote I wanna share
Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation -- by Kahlil Gibran.
The bottom line is that all differences stop mattering ,when that person is no longer with you.And as Jagtap said-fir uski kami ka lai ehsaas hota hai....(.loved that entire dialogue sequence by him.)

Originally posted by: fuzzyface

All this talk on jooti reminds me of that song from Hum Aapke Hain Kaun? , which is what Naku is probably thinking right now 😆

I guess anyone who is in Dutta shoes would be super mad for being made a fool in front of everyone by everyone. I suppose it's fair they way he is angry and reacted at Naku, Baji and AS. The three musketeers he trusts the most, who had it coming their way especially Nakku. Come what was she thinking he was going to be 'Ohh damn ur such an apsara, I am besotted by your beauty, now lets dream away to Switzerland, England and Italy while singing a love song' 😛

I do have sympathy for Baji as he just got caught in the middle but like his BFF he too is not so bright and a gadha.🤔

Coming back to Dutta after he has calm down, I hope he get his sense back as well all know he is not the brightest chap around. At some point he has to put on his thinking cap on and start analysing why a girl would go to the extreme and put soot on her face instead of Fair & Lovely . Every girl in this world strives to look pretty not otherwise, this is the truth and I would like if CVs show some form of analytical thinking instead of making Dutta look like the biggest fool in TV history. Dutta too needs put on Nakku's shoes . 😛

Originally posted by: sonee

hiee DD 😛awesome analysis...great post👏

hey first of all...just last night i read ur post n sum replies...of jani, sana, vandu n mimi's(rosepetal)
wen i tried to imagined dat belive me it was really very difficult...n wen i did dat...omg... literally i had tears in my eyes😭...cant belive
den i decided not to reply to dis post coz of my fillings... i thought... no i cant share its may be difficult to sy..
so may be u wil think nw dat...hw can i reply naa...let me tell u...after reading ur post due to sum wrk islept very
late nearly 4 am...really late🥱...n kya yaar mujhe wahi dream aana tha...no dream its a nightmare...DD

[DD] u had a nightmare of the stranger advancing towards you? 😲😲...oh ho! I am so sorry Sonee!!...this is scary!!! ..and no dude....u can pour ur reaction out...if u cried, then thats ur reaction and as I said, u shld be proud of it...and this is one more diff reaction i received...crying...great!

ok so let me tell u...as u sy a complete stranger 😲and in he walks...looking at me just as u sed...
he tries 2 talk 2 me...(n lyk Naku he 2 sounds xactly the same as i'v always knwn him 2 sound...nw i understood
why Datta sed fair nakku to keep mum...it hurts n remind abt our luved ones n he is nt infront of us )...
but the voice is cumin out of a new person...same as jani sed...
my first reaction would be confused, angry n hurt ...(in order)
i tried to talk wit my family first...not wit dat person...i totally ignor him...n den from my family...

[DD] Oh! Now, I get it, Dutta did ignore Naku - right? he rushes to AS and only talks to them....Kala coaxes him to let Naku talk but he doesnt want to...e talks to everyone but her!!!...Very interesting!!!

if i get or nt get my answers...i prefer to walkout ...may be jst in my room nw n locked it...
i'm really very short temperd n very emotionalful too...
(my best frnd sed on dis dt..behind my angr..i try to hide my feeling or my tears)...
so i just close my fiest in anger to control it (i always did dat...coz i dont lyk violent...coz i always feel if i nt did dat den i;m difinetly hit sumone or hurt myself alot)...n start crying😭...

[DD] This is replica of Dutta!!...Oh god! u might be able to relate with him more!!!

n wen i cum back to my sense...i prefer to stay quite coz i want an explanation from him... but i wont tell him to speak...lyk shuru kar teri kahani mujhe sach janana he, noooo i'm not dat type but if he talk den i'll listen him carefully wit no emotion or no xpression on face😕...

[DD] Okie...this is new!!!...why would u not ask him to explain? Is it ego or u stillr efuse to converse with him? lets see what Dutta does here!!

may be i need a tym too accept him...coz wen i heard him...der is diff image wer set in my heart soo...its diffult to set a new image... its lyk my brain n heart walking in two direction's...but i think again....shoud i trust him?
after enough explanation i forgive him but after dat it's difficult to trust d person again...may be he see d changes in my behaviour...or may not...i cant tell u 😕

[DD] but would u come around if he behaves exactly the same over a period of time? would u become normal?

soo DD i think dis is enough nw ...so i want to knw ur reaction...experiment try kiya yaa nahin😆

[DD] ahem ahem!...*sheepish look*

Nahi!....Mein dari hui hoon!! okie...Aaj pakka I will try!1 Its scary...and ur reaction is very thought provoking isliye aur dar lag raha hai!!

(i type in a hurry if error hapen den sorry.😳..i just want to throw out my fellings coz i dont want other nightmare😆)

[DD] Oh dude!! u shld see me, make 1001 mistakes! left n right!!! and I dnt even proof read and expect everyone to understand that I made a mistake!! 😆😆

Originally posted by: bfunofbb123

Oh DD tanx alot 4 liking my comment srsly when u put ur self in the situation it is a whole lot different story it is easy to judge outside the situation but to actually happen 2 u it is a scary thought & i love how u gave the example the realisation or thought of u won't be able to c the person u love is torture it shook them up & they made it possible despite their differences.

and on the 2nd bold point, exactly what I was telling Isha in the above post, that say CVs had kept the real Naku's face under wraps from us too and 15th nov would have been the first time when she would have been presented to us without any prior notice, would we be able to accept it?

Oh DD i can't imagine we will react worse than dutta we wouldn't have related with gori naku at all & we would have bashed CVs. cvs always gave us a teaser of reveaaling gori naku still it was frustrating rem. JMM time naku washed her face and about to reveal & what did we do we were not ready 4 her saying noooooooo we r not ready gori naku can stay i rem. the form went frantic none was ready 4 her so there u go ur answer if we were not ready despite knowing bcoz it was hard 4 us to connect to gori naku we r afraid she might not feel like the kali naku if we were in that halat we can feel dutta's halat!😉

Ps: @ sikkita tanx 4 ur comment!

Originally posted by: Bushy_92

Yeah DD..........i am like this.....i forget and forgive easily............after all i love him....and if i see the same love in his eyes for me then i cant stop myself frm going into his arms........😳

Originally posted by: sasha_1

very nice post DD

so horrible to think like that, it is really hard for me to digest, i would run away from the room with out saying any thing (because i sm scared of stranger) and if my family convince me to take him as ur hubby because he is the one u r in love with. i shout at top of my voice and break every thing i get until my frustration get over. i go to my room and cry untill i fall into sleep. next day i won't get angry or cry all i ask the man to leave me alone for a while. but my love for him will never change but it is hard for me to accept. he keep on coming to meet me ask for a chance all i ask is let have a cup of coffee. give a chance to try once more because i can't live without the person i love the most. my weakness is my love.

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u know some thing DD why i starte watch LTL it all because of nakku- my hubby is so much like her. i get angry when he try to hide something and lie to me i get angry to the core and break every thing i get he won't get angry at me. when i stop breaking and start crying he will clean the mess i made and come nere to me and console me and ask forgiveness for his lie he also say i hide because u get hurt. if i leave my hubby he will never give up😉

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Originally posted by: khushi0318

agreed DD i cannot relate to an unknown face............... but relation not means to knowing sm1's face.......... its the inner heart we knw........................... u tell me if u love sm1 lyk Dutta loves nakku can u really even dont bother to listen him once just becoz the face is unknown????????

I definetely start with the trust............. thats why i show my anger but cant let go him ................. becoz his face is changed............... asking for a valid reason isn't mean that i trust him after relating with his physical appearance............................. i think ur que to me is for that line, " I took some time to be normal with him as i was earlier".................. i agreed its not the face whom i love...... but its easy to say but very tough to accept the truth............... truth is always bitter......................... so according to me i still take time to be back to normal lyf.......................

Originally posted by: HumaG

dutta wears a pathaani jooti?! why have i never noticed this..hmm prolly because my nazar doesnt move from the top half of him 🤣

[DD] Tut Tut!!...must say, u turned out more decent than I thought!

on a more serious note dutta is completely justified in his anger. i know its easy to say we relate to persons personality..but that personality is associated to a face we know. a face no matter how it looks becomes part of us and our memories. and to suddenly see a new face you just wont be able to relate to that personality its not possible and instantaneous connection isnt just possible. it takes time because you actually are getting to know someone "new" and yes dutta did fall in love with nakkus heart but right now he isnt even sure thats his nakku. and if he isnt sure how does he know its the same personality/heart? its very easy to yell at our tv screens but to actuallly just accept someone new like that isnt easy. and this dutta whos whole world has only been recently been flipped around thanks to the secerts his dear AS has been keeping and now this from the person he loved..hes hurt that she didnt trust him enough to tell him but the whole world when she claimed to love her saab.
though the best scene on this whole thing was when he put babi in her place i was like serves you right always thought for your daughter never let her take her own decisions ghadi!
but the scene which i in no way approved of was dutta strangling baji there is was and will never be a justification of that for me. if baji is guilty so is the rest of his families why didnt he attemtp to strangle his brother in laws. he didnt utter one single word to his family in comparison to that. made me too sad. thats it really enough of mty rambling was it me or you know when dutta did that neck roll thing did that remind you of harry potter? he would do that whenever he was possesed by lord voldermot in the order of phoenix..it made me laugh!

Huma, u didnt do the experiment on urself!! *hands on waist*...where is ur reaction??? bolo bolo?

Originally posted by: Hessa85

i actually found this a hard one d.d. im not really the slapping type, I would not slap him. i think it seems something so unbelievable that i would be in a state of denial. i would be hurt beywond belief that the person iloved kept such a hugething from me. my other huge thing would probably mistrust of the person, ,,,what else is hidden from me? if you loved me and see me as your equal,, why keep such a secret?? maybe i would want to end the relationship, but how do i balance myself between this mistrust of the person, and the love that i felt for supposedly the same person. how do you get rid of the love u feel for someone because their complexion has changed? unlike dutta i would also need to hear the reason behind keeping such a secret,,,and if there is a reason i am not so unforgiving as dutta i think. but nakku also has a very good reason,,,in my case why would a guy need to be protected from buri nazar to begin with lol. with me, the other problem might be difficulty in relating to the person,,,but if the dark and fair person are 1 this is surely not impossible.

what if it was a different situation...and the person i loved was disfigured. i look at the person, but he is completely different...do i stop loving him and forget everything we have shared? It's an interesting complicated topic. also with someone who's complexion has changed,,, u still have the opportunity to know and understand each other as u did before and even better now. but ive worked with people who have partners who have had severe brain inuries, the person they care for now is in so many ways not the person they fell in love with. yet still that past love links them.

maybe itsa personality difference between me and dutta, and the fact that i havent experienced betrayal the way dutta has in his past. the other thing is i actuallly do feel dutta is essentially a weak character, this has been shown by his reaction to the whole seema thing in the first place. hence is reaction is more volatile,,,and also leads to the resurfacing of all his old insecurities so it will take him longer. reaally even dutta see's the old nakku in the new fair 1....i think he even on some unconscious level realised at anna's adda. he just could not accept it. this is why i think and hope he will be completely unable to harm nakku the way he did after the sups fiasco.