Put on Dutta's Pathaani Jooti! - Page 6

Originally posted by: jani-yeh

then Kala will hav all the tym in the world 2 play wiv her dolls n other toys...😆...

hope so...Dutta will need Baji...n Baji has a way of making Dutta understand...lyk that tym in puraana adda...

Originally posted by: Dancingdoll

🤣....Oh yes! I hope she has kept those dolls else we wuld gift her some...🤣🤣🤣

True Jaani!! Although I want Dutta to find his own answers this time but Baaji has to get back to his good books...Although, I am miffed with him too but he is too cute to be miffed on! 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: jani-yeh

if she hav dolls 2 rip heads off she cud start wiv the PN people...

leela wud b a gud start...😆🤣...

yupz Baji def gotz 2 do that...

n ur ryt he def is 2 cute 2 b mad @...plus Dutta is Baji's world which makes it hard 2 think of him not being there 4 Dutta in his hour of need...

A very thought provoking post dear
I would be disoriented for a while ,would surely feel disconnected.I would like to be alone for some time,really be away from him for some time.And it would really really depend on state of my psychology at that time that how long I need my space.If I am in a positive frame of mind,I would analyze things better ,with much ease,looking more positively than negative.
But the person I am,I have my dark moods when if faced with a sudden change in life,my system seriously shuts down for a while,I lose all my capacity to be rational and I NEED,absolutely need my solitude to cope with the change.
I can totally empathize with poor Dutta ,coz he is a person who has seen a LOT of pain,whenever he sees some flicker of happiness and tried HARD ,.fights his demons to try to be positive again...poor chap is so cruelly shoved into a state lower and darker than before.
I can,.by my personal experience say that it is easier to make yourself numb and be in a hard shell than be vulnerable,having defences low ,shown hope of happiness and then see it snatched away from you.
It did take a lot of strength on his part to trust life again and now when he thought he has found stability and meaning in life FINALLY ,he must have felt his world crashing down YET AGAIN.....he must have felt such strong sense of DEJA VU...this is enough to scare living daylights out of anyone
and this time he was TRULY REALLY in LOVE ( not like earlier with both Sups and Seema),much more emotionally involved ...hence deeper the wound and more severe the impact.
I totally understand his reaction that " I can't take it anymore ...Main pagal ho jaunga."Everyone deserves some smoothness , some normality in life.....
How much can a person bear the shocks in life...I dont think he will or can be in a state of being rational at this time
I know he will eventually soul search and accept her ,totally understand her ,and may be respect her more by appreciating her difficulties.
But definitely after a while...NOT SUDDENLY...no matter how much he has changed in recent time

@DD
Exactly....very very true.I ,after few years of soul searching ,have made this attitude a way of life.IT DOESN'T MATTER.Now I judge everything on basis of how is it affecting my peace of mind and anything and everything that disturbs my peace of mind ...I drop it there and then.

hah..... shhhhh

Waise DD ,I know few people close to me with a reaction which I find totally opposite to the essence of the show and this reaction is an example in my list of "what is wrong with the world"
I would want to share it with you-
"Are,kaisa sa hai ye Dutta ,kyun ro ra hai,ek to itni sundar gori ladki mil gayi hai,usme bhi pareshani ho rahi hai ise.Iski to lottery lag gayi...."Hope you got gist of this mentality
What would you say to that...It made me cringe inside .....Ur comments

LOL me..? I wouldn't get angry.. I would still talk to that person but I would distance him from myself in a way that he wouldn't even know. That's me..I keep my friends close and my enemies even closer..the people that I hate don't even know that they are hated by me...so first I would be trying to get an explanation, then I would have my little guard on and maybe if that person's love is strong enough and I think I can trust that person, then I will let down my guard and chill but if it happens again I obviously wont forgive anyone...I hope you understand what I mean but I sometimes confuse myself too so...😆

Hey DD great post dear u have done a marvelous job by doing this bcoz most of our feeling will b clear to others by doing this i 4 one DD i will tell u how i would feel putting my self exactly on dutta's shoes & imagining the person i love! well 4 me he will b alien this person i know & grown to love is no more standing infront of me instead this stranger claiming to b the same person that i love how could i trust him he could b bluffing 4 all i know & to top it off my family knows & say cruely ya this is he yes he doesn't look the same but beleive me he i the same underneath haila i will b mad frustrated & would want this nightmare to end & at that time i would do anything to get back the person i love. to b honest DD i don't know if i would b able to love that person it is not even about betrayal it will b the fact that i won't b able to c my love, the person that i thought i will spend the rest of my life is no more. that will hurt me the most. i completely understand dutta's pain but, as a viewr bcoz i know naku's pain & what she has to go through in life i understand her too! But dutta doesn't & as i said above his anger is justified putting my self in his place i might even feel worse. what i want him to do different from before is bcoz he loves naku v.much now & i want him to understand her after he is gone through his emotions and dealt with them he should give N a chance to explain & i am sure knowing D he is a golden heart so after knowing her past he will melt & may b open up to N & will realise she is the same & hope fully gradually will fall again & i can't wait their LS to start.😊