Originally posted by: darkness_123
Look, I am sorry if i have offended you... But these are purely my views while watching the episode, and I do not expect everyone to agree with them. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions...
I don't have any personal grudge/relationship with any of the characters in the soap, nor am I some kind of expert critic, so I am hardly the one who should be taken seriously... I am just an updater who does the updates out of pure love for writing, and for the people who like to read my updates...I repeat, these views are purely mine and I am not forcing them upon anyone...
I don't have anything against any actor...My comments are purely based on the character and it's mannerisms... You will notice that there is not a single post where I bash actors... If I do talk about negative characters in a negative manner, it is only because the actor portraying him/her does a good job of making me hate him/her AS A CHARACTER.... I am a person who understands the fact that an actor and a character are 2 entirely different people, so you will never ever find a post of mine bashing an actor...
And as for the whole family thing, Karan and Tanya arent Bhoomi's biological parents either...Just like Joydeep and Nakul aren't Sahil/Tripti's sons, Eklavya isn't Gautam-Damini's son, KT isn't Tulsi's granddaughter and Sahil and Karan arent Tulsi's sons... Now, can you deny that relationships exsist between these induviduals??? No, you cannot... Blood is not the only thing that makes or breaks relationships... So why are these relationships counted?? It's the whole Indian traditon where, whether you are related by blood or not, there is a relationship...
So although technically Abhir may not be related to Bhoomi, if you look in the whole Indian ideology of relationships, Abhir is her step uncle (Harsh is her uncle, and Ahbir is his half brother..) just as Karan is her father (while actually he is her step father), Tanya is her mother (while she has no relation with Bhooomi WHATSOEVER) and so is Manthan considered her brother...
Again, I apologize if I have offended any Bhoomi fans/Abhir fans/Raj Bhasin fans (if there are any... 😕) But these comments are written in pure fun, BECAUSE almost 98% of the readers like them... They aren't meant to be taken seriously and are purely there to lighten up a dreary episode... If you dont agree with my view, thats fine with me! I have no compulsive need to convert everyone here into a bunch of followers who have to agree with every view and opinion i have...
Nimmi
I am very well aware of the fact that these are your own points of view, thank you very much, but you must realize that what you say for other characters can hurt their fans just as if I say crap about Mouni, it can hurt you.
Oh yea? I can never find a post of yours bashing an actor? Well. Then it seems I have proven you wrong unless it was Savita who arised from the dead and wrote this message:
[quote=darkness_123] Yea avani, he was wearing the same DD clothes... Poor thing...
KT looked absolutely gorgeous tho.... I mean... WOW! 😳
And Bhoomi.... The less said the better... 🤢Reshmi Ghosh really needs to get some anti acne treatment.... Her pimples are GROSS to look at... She has the fricking WORST skin in the entire serial... Even Manthan and Abhir have better skin than her, even though they're men.... 🤢 🤢 .
To refresh your memory, check: http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=484862&K W=darkness_123&TPN=2 now go rant on about your conscience about not bashing actors when you clearly have done so. Anyways, I shouldn't really care. It's not in the update but to drag me off topic, you said "you will never ever find a post of mine bashing an actor..." so I went kind of off topic to find this post that I had read quite a while ago as I love to contradict people when I know for a fact they are wrong.
Thank you very much for the examples but clearly, I was talking about something else. In which Indian ideology does it mention that rape forms a relation between the raped and the rapist or the rapist and the rape consequence. Not talking about Bhumi here though. Talking about Harsh. When Raj raped Kesar, did it make a bond between him and her? Which bond, if it has any name at all except the one of prey and predator? True enough Harsh is her uncle but since when has he had a relation with Raj? Per say someone you knew was raped, would you say that the rapist and the rape consequence shared the bond of father-son? And if you are going by biological relations then wake up call, Harsh is actually Kesar's son and biologically, she has nothing to do with Tulsi so even following your theory, Abhir is NOT Bhumi's uncle.
I do know that these are your personal comments. But being sardonic when it comes to Bhumi or per say any character you dislike is not done. And just because a certain amount of people like them doesn't mean ALL have to like them as well. Drifting back to my original complaint, you are always snide and sardonic when it comes to any character you dislike. There is a limit for being funny and a limit to insulting/humiliating a character/actor and you most certainly have crossed it. You are always on Bhumi's case, degrading her in any and every way possible. And that is simply what I have asked you not to continue. If you don't like the character, OK. Fine by me! Just don't degrade them! This includes "your little comments".
RK
Edited by sweetie_rk - 18 years ago