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Posted: 8 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: -jaya-

To make someone else sacrifice her right for your child's safety is different than making your child to sacrifice her right for her safety..


someone else was made to sacrifice because the child forgot. When child remembered everything the someone else was supported even against the child.
Edited by -HappyLove - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: -Nive-



Agree, it's how we see it. Since both of their acts were compared, I posted my POV that they can't be compared 😊


I also said my POV that they are the same.

something being same doesnt mean its 100% equal to other things in my opinion.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: -mina-

Can we please be careful with how we use the word bashed. If people disagreed with Daadi and criticized her, that's not bashing. If people agree with Sarla and are praising her, that doesn't mean criticizing Daadi was bashing. If people attacked Daadi without reasonings and used rude names and made repetitive posts about it, that would be bashing. Disagreement and criticism are not bashing. Thanks.


I critically bashed Dadi and now I am not doing it for maa.
She meant me.

People - she said na not everybody.
People can ne 2- 10.

I am just clarifying.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: -HappyLove


We cant really say its wrong.

Because what maa did today was not what Pragya will want to do.
Consideration is not only expectations but its also means the wishes of the other person.

Personally I dont see big difference because Abhi has a memory loss.

Bot of them dont want Abhigya together for safety wishes. They told that to pragya because Abhi forgot stuff.



Yeah, I can say it's wrong for Daadi to throw Pragya out of the house because Abhi lost his memory.

It's wrong because it's unfair to Pragya, who is Abhi's legal wife and has spent the whole of her marriage trying to serve his best interests.

It's wrong because it's cheating Pragya, who followed all of Daadi's wishes and requests in the understanding that Daadi believed in their marriage, but when it came down to it Daadi didn't care about the marriage, only about Abhi.

It's wrong because the doctors never said that Abhi will never remember, so it's not like Pragya's place in his life is permanently erased.

It's wrong because it's not what Abhi would have wanted or needed, which is what Daadi should care about.

It's wrong because Daadi did it out of simple fear, without thinking once if there were other ways to solve the problem.

Yeah. I can say it's wrong. You can disagree. That doesn't mean it can't be called wrong.
Edited by -mina- - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: -HappyLove


I critically bashed Dadi and now I am not doing it for maa.
She meant me.

People - she said na not everybody.
People can ne 2- 10.

I am just clarifying.



That's really confusing. If Anu meant you and had a question specifically for you, it would make sense for her to ask you directly. By making an open post that didn't even name you, it's not clear she meant only you or only 2-10 people.

Anyway, I have no problem with the post. I just want to point out that criticism and disagreement are not bashing.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: -mina-



Yeah, I can say it's wrong for Daadi to throw Pragya out of the house because Abhi lost his memory.

It's wrong because it's unfair to Pragya, who is Abhi's legal wife and has spent the whole of her marriage trying to serve his best interests.

It's wrong because it's cheating Pragya, who followed all of Daadi's wishes and requests in the understanding that Daadi believed in their marriage, but when it came down to it Daadi didn't care about the marriage, only about Abhi.

It's wrong because the doctors never said that Abhi will never remember, so it's not like Pragya's place in his life is permanently erased.

It's wrong because it's not what Abhi would have wanted or needed, which is what Daadi should care about.

It's wrong because Daadi did it out of simple fear, without thinking once if there were other ways to solve the problem.

Yeah. I can say it's wrong. You can disagree. That doesn't mean it can't be called wrong.


Just like how I say maa is wrong😊
Just like How I maa is no less than Dadi and there is no difference in being wrong.

When I SAID we cant really say what's wrong, I meant when we think something is wrong that doesnt mean its wrong. I should have been more clear.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: -HappyLove



someone else was made to sacrifice because the child forgot. When child remembered everything the someone else was supported even against the child.

bold - I guess you are talking about LM TRACK, then what was the ultimate motive??? It was to save her own child and not to help that someone else... That someone else was used to help her child.. So it can't be compared.. It can be compared if pragya was supported against abhi for pragya's good..
Edited by -jaya- - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Haha...I'm confused!!!!😆 At first I agree, then I don't...then again, I agreed, then back to don't...arghhh!!!!!!! You girls...please stop confusing me...😆😆😆...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: -mina-



That's really confusing. If Anu meant you and had a question specifically for you, it would make sense for her to ask you directly. By making an open post that didn't even name you, it's not clear she meant only you or only 2-10 people.

Anyway, I have no problem with the post. I just want to point out that criticism and disagreement are not bashing.



see, What Anu meant when she said people in Dadi was bashed (she meant me-1) maa is supported by many (lets take 2-3)

Her sentence was not clear may be.
Edited by -HappyLove - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: -jaya-

bold - I guess you are talking about LM TRACK, then what was the ultimate motive??? It was to save her own child and not to help that someone else... That someone else was used to help her child.. So it can't be compared.. It can be compared if pragya was supported against abhi for pragya's good..


It can be compared Jaya. Its just that some disagree.

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