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Posted: 10 years ago
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Abhi deserves a congratulations...He is the proverbial boy with his hand in the cookie jar and for the first time he is accepting the consequences for taking those cookies. This time was always going to come...when he would have to stand up and "man up" to his mistakes..does that mean he was less of a man before? No definitely not...but he has done some growing up which is commendable.


He is most certainly starting to redeem himself somewhat...because for the first time he has said the truth...not part truth, nor a manipulated truth ..Pragya never had an abortion because she was never pregnant. There was a mistake. The report wasn't hers.


Will he tell Dadi the entire truth? Probably - as per the promo and short IV yes he does so we'll have to wait and watch.


Is it his fault? Yes he is equally to blame...Pragya is being sacrificial yes, but she's doing it because he's not doing anything about his mistake, A mistake that he doesn't really know how to tell his family so he's asked her to keep going for Dadi's sake, but the truth is there is pressure from Tanu and her parents. If he didnt want to marry her, he should have been concise about that. By asking for time especially by threatening is not the way to go. Yes her parents did the same..but they want to see their daughter married to the man who promised that he would marry her.


She's never blamed him after all there had never been a confession from him to say that I dont love Tanu I love you...if he wanted to nip that in the bud...there were many opportunities for him to tell her..instead he decided to play games..make her jealous when Tanu was in the house, not cut her off when she mentions over and over how he loves Tanu, by becoming her friend(which I think is a step in the right direction)


So much more that Abhi needs to be accountable for...after all saving the day is not enough in my eyes for the actions during, but for this one courageous step...Congratulations.

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Posted: 10 years ago
#42
Cookie jar!! I like that! Bechara Abhi and his sweet tooth 😆
About saving the day and the actions during...exactly! saving the day may count for more but those actions during do take a toll...kahin na kahin the loss IS felt. the end result may be positive but the pain to get there is still pain.

Interesting point about the pressure from tanu-rents...have to think more about that.

I don't think he is gonna tell the whole truth right now...if he does I will be glowingly happy!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Also nice point...abhi telling the truth did take courage. I find it hard to see that and give him credit for it because he allowed so much nonsense to be said and done before opening his mouth...but you're right. there was courage there. Our little boy being brave and doing the right thing even though it hurt so much and he was so scared!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -mina-

Cookie jar!! I like that! Bechara Abhi and his sweet tooth 😆

About saving the day and the actions during...exactly! saving the day may count for more but those actions during do take a toll...kahin na kahin the loss IS felt. the end result may be positive but the pain to get there is still pain.

Interesting point about the pressure from tanu-rents...have to think more about that.

I don't think he is gonna tell the whole truth right now...if he does I will be glowingly happy!


@bold - Lol!!!



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Jhanvi, Radha Akka, Viji!! I see you 😆. Thank you for reading! 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
#46
Oops.. mina ! what an interesting post!..great discussion...missed it from the start..
loved all the views expressed here by all...

my pov is...he may be changing now...and took the baby step as u said...thtsgood when compare to remaining silent when pragya was being hit by all including his so called gf tanu...

Still...its not digestable ,the things he did with tanu in front of pragya...even after pragya was innocent victim to aliya's obsession...the way he treated pragya is not acceptable for me..thts not the way to treat a woman who is his wife eventhough its for namesake...

i wont say pragya is flawless...nobody can be perfect..every human being has some flaws...otherwise he/she will be God...

if he didnt want to marry tanu..even b4 pregnancy..whn she proposed him after losing contract,,,he shd have told her that openly instead of saying tht he has responsibility as a husband,damad...

his biggest mistake was keeping her on hold...so now he is facing the consequences...

eventhough he is not at fault now with tanu...he has to face all...hope he will be cleared from all soon...

abt pragya--she is telling that tanu is his love again n again...but whats stopping him from telling her tht he loves her only not tanu...when pragya proposed him in the forest she told him , she didnt need reciprocate love from him...he can do the same na! instead of keeping in his heart why not say it to her since she is considering him as a friend...why is he keeping the secret of his celibacy after their marriage?!

but still its hard for me to agree to the saying of abi's celebacy after his marriage...becos all the things he did with tanu didnt say tht...even during bb's roka he was planning spending time with her...unfortunately tht didnt happen becos of drowing of arora sisters..

i agree he did many good things for pragya and her family...but tht wont compensate the things he did with pragya...

when compare the ratio of faults of both , abhi's misdoings are great than pragya...

as u said...we have to appreciate the step he took...will see whts he is going to say 2day and in the coming days




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Posted: 10 years ago
#47
Viji!! Great post!! Really agree with so many of your points!
His treatment of Pragya is not acceptable to me either. Yes he had MUs and majboori but even he knew it was wrong. He deserves to feel ashamed of himself for that. Pragya might not hold it against him but it's still wrong.

YES, his biggest mistake was holding on to Tanu! He should have been more direct and ruthless with her! Instead he stayed confused about what he wanted and let her stay in his life. Call that harshly stupid or softly foolish, either way there's no doubt that he has earned these consequences.

I don't believe his celibacy line either. CVS earlier choices don't reflect that. If other things Abhi says can be explained away or not taken seriously I don't see why he should get unqualified credit for this. Him supposedly not having a physical relationship with Tanu while married is not the same as putting the relationship on hold and taking her out of his life for a while.


And about the ratio - YES!!!!!

Thank you Viji 😊


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mina, great post. Agree with all your points. With this first baby step, he has begun to redeem himself that too only IF Abhi discloses the entire truth to dadi.

I can not comprehend the celibacy part either though I will foolishly swallow it in the interests of Pragya. Abhi's spending the night with Tanu in that bathrobe on his wedding night is still etched in my mind. Him poking Pragya with a pin, making her fall several times, physically hurting her and emotionally wrecking every bit of her self worth, his bringing Tanu into the room and yelling into Pragya's face that he loves Tanu and despises Pragya, his adamant refusal to believe Pragya about Purab, his locking himself up in the room with Tanu and blaming/slapping Pragya's cousin, his continued sadistic treatment of Pragya from their so called honeymoon to humiliating her at every chance he got, his slapping her in a fit of little spoilt boy rage - in my view, Abhi has a long, long way to go before he is fit to be Pragya's husband and deserving of her love and respect, no matter she accepts him as is.

I am glad Abhi is in the soup he is and it will be like soothing balm on an open wound to see him squirm and lose dadi's respect. It will be entertaining to watch him extricate himself from this mess of his own creating but Abhi being Abhi as has been said in his defense in the past might just go along with the flow, playing no active part in resolving the situation, allowing Pragya to attempt to save his face while he looks on confusedly with a little boy lost look. I will shout out congratulations to Abhi the day he stands up for his love, publicly owns up to his mistakes, and earnestly pursues his love.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: -mina-




Living a life of honesty defines a man. Taking responsibility for his actions before others act in his stead defines a man. Not waiting until moral outrages pile on top of each other to form a Mount Everest defines a man.


Hiding and telling lies and buying time and fearing the consequences defines a scared little boy.


Very nice. The fact that he opened his mouth today makes me want to applaud him as I have min expectations from him 😃 [:D
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I really don't know even if he loves pragya or not when all those people were criticising her he was just looking over .I am happy atleast he opened up his mouth .It takes like a century for him to realise anything for pragya .I know he has done a lot for pragya but he took his own sweet time to do it🤢.He can do as many favors as he wants but nothing can compensate the insults and humiliation he did to pragya
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