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Posted: 11 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: -Tia-

The thing is the other characters of the soap are doing nonsensical things under a MU or under a "majboori".

Purab was never under any MU or actual "majboori".

When he was asked to marry Aaliyah he happily agreed.

And one year later, he happily fell in love with BB, forgetting Aaliyah. He did not tell Aaliyah or Abhi about BB. Nor did he tell BB about Aaliyah. That doesn't sit well with me.

And then, when he knows Abhi married Pragya under MU, although he knows very well about Tannu, he goes with BB-Pragya's plan rather than giving them some piece of mind that Abhi and Prayga may never work, even though he thinks Pragya is not Abhi's type. He should know Abhi better than anyone else for he managed his girlfriends like forever.

And then, he commits to marry Aaliyah. Runs away in the middle of the wedding. I mean Abhi and his family is known to him from childhood. That doesn't sit well with me either.

Okay fine, agreed, he ran away in that heat of the moment, scared of marrying scary Aaliyah (lol). Then why try to marry BB right away? Again, Abhi's family is shattered, Sarla has no clue about their wedding, Pragya's marriage will be broken and her life will be shit.. Is that a time to marry when all your near and dear ones are suffering?

Technically, yes, Purab is a free individual and should have the right to marry whoever he wants. But he should responsibly avail what he wants as well.







But then my point is, its his life at the end of the day..Lets just say he agreed to marry Alia cos he was way too much in love with BB and was ready to sacrifice for her sister's happiness..Now that he realizes the sacrifice is pointless, he decides to elope..I have an issue with that cos i think he should have been upfront & called off the wedding but then again, my problem is not Purab here..Am just baffled with the way Pragya & BB expect Purab to sacrifice for their own selfish gains..Bulbul has all the right to refuse Purab..She can even slap him for forcing her to marry him but she has no right to force him to marry Alia IMO..Thats taking things too far..Please take decisions for yourself & your family..Don take decisions on behalf of others is all am saying..
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32
I never like purab until tonight and I hope to god he stand up for himself and beat Abhi up real good.


I mean seriously why does Abhi think it's ok for him to go around beating people up regardless of what they may or may not have done wrong?


Why doesn't he let people speak up for themselves before raising his hands on them. Can't believe he push the poor guy down the stairs like that.


What kind of a man is he? So what he left ur sister, then go find or buy her another guy if marrying someone who love her does not matter.


Don't get me wrong I like Abhi n I am watching this show for him n Pragay but I am so sick n tired of seen him beating people up.


As for the two sisters and their mother...less said the better.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: poiu123

Just wanted to make one point here. Bulbul made her stand very clear today. She lloves her family the most. Her mom and sis are everything to her she told purab. She made it very clear to him that in front of her mom and sis he is nothing to her. So why blame her. She is not head over heels in love or I'll die without u kind of love with Purab . Its probably a little more serious than a college crush. That's it. Their falling in love after 3-4 meetings cannot have same depth as a lifelong kind of love. And purab is more scared of aliya and abhi .. That's why he wants to marry immediately.



I agree..Bulbul has full freedom to refuse the marriage..Like i said, she can even slap him for trying to force her into this..But she has no right to force him to marry a witch like Alia for her di's happiness..I only have an issue with that thought process of hers..She can sacrifice her life/ love all she wants..But she shouldn't expect others to do the same..Even today, she went on & on about her di's happiness..Why does she expect Purab to make such a huge sacrifice for her sister in the first place? Like i mentioned earlier, if the places were interchanged & Purab wants BB to marry a random guy for his sister's happiness, will Pragya encourage Bulbul to do so? 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Angel

I never like purab until tonight and I hope to god he stand up for himself and beat Abhi up real good.


I mean seriously why does Abhi think it's ok for him to go around beating people up regardless of what they may or may not have done wrong?


Why doesn't he let people speak up for themselves before raising his hands on them. Can't believe he push the poor guy down the stairs like that.


What kind of a man is he? So what he left ur sister, then go find or buy her another guy if marrying someone who love her does not matter.


Don't get me wrong I like Abhi n I am watching this show for him n Pragay but I am so sick n tired of seen him beating people up.


As for the two sisters and their mother...less said the better.



Am pretty sure Abhi wont be punished for any act of his..Infact, he'l be justified..I have no hopes for a redemption track..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rogerrocks



But then my point is, its his life at the end of the day..Lets just say he agreed to marry Alia cos he was way too much in love with BB and was ready to sacrifice for her sister's happiness..Now that he realizes the sacrifice is pointless, he decides to elope..I have an issue with that cos i think he should have been upfront & called off the wedding but then again, my problem is not Purab here..Am just baffled with the way Pragya & BB expect Purab to sacrifice for their own selfish gains..Bulbul has all the right to refuse Purab..She can even slap him for forcing her to marry him but she has no right to force him to marry Alia IMO..Thats taking things too far..Please take decisions for yourself & your family..Don take decisions on behalf of others is all am saying..



You stole the words straight out of my mouth. Yes, Purab did make a mistake, he shouldn't have agreed to marry Aliya to please Bulbul in the first place. Yes, he lacked a spine and reneged last minute but that is his life, his deal.

The two sisters have no business holding a gun to Purab's head and in telling him he needs to go back to confront Abhi and Aliya. Bulbul by asking Purab to marry someone else has already lost any claim she had on him and Pragya never did have any claim on him except that of gratitude for he was going through this farce for her sake.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1




You stole the words straight out of my mouth. Yes, Purab did make a mistake, he shouldn't have agreed to marry Aliya to please Bulbul in the first place. Yes, he lacked a spine and reneged last minute but that is his life, his deal.

The two sisters have no business holding a gun to Purab's head and in telling him he needs to go back to confront Abhi and Aliya. Bulbul by asking Purab to marry someone else has already lost any claim she had on him and Pragya never did have any claim on him except that of gratitude for he was going through this farce for her sake.



IKR..Pragya & BB can ruin their lives for their family's happiness but to expect someone else to go through all that is ridiculous 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It is Purab's life and he can do what he wants at the end of the day. He is responsible and answerable only to himself to act for his own well being good or bad.

For Pragya and BB it is their mom and family above everything else and that is fine too. They have a right to push for what they think right or wrong will keep peace in their family.

What is needed is for Purab to stand firm and state that he will do what he thinks is best for himself and his own happiness. If Arora sisters don't agree with it, they can take a hike.

Arora sisters on the other hand can also stand firm and tell Purab that their family and mom matters the most to them above everything else and if Purab does not agree, he takes a hike.

Thus they can all go their own separate ways on their own hikes and leave the Mehra siblings looking for guns and coin toss to decide whether Abhi should go after Khannas first or chase down Aroras first. 😆😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: MarathiMulgi

It is Purab's life and he can do what he wants at the end of the day. He is responsible and answerable only to himself to act for his own well being good or bad.

For Pragya and BB it is their mom and family above everything else and that is fine too. They have a right to push for what they think right or wrong will keep peace in their family.

What is needed is for Purab to stand firm and state that he will do what he thinks is best for himself and his own happiness. If Arora sisters don't agree with it, they can take a hike.

Arora sisters on the other hand can also stand firm and tell Purab that their family and mom matters the most to them above everything else and if Purab does not agree, he takes a hike.

Thus they can all go their own separate ways on their own hikes and leave the Mehra siblings looking for guns and coin toss to decide whether Abhi should go after Khannas first or chase down Aroras first. 😆😉



Perfect 👏😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
#39
Purab does share some responsibility here because his indecision and inability to make his stand clear is also a root cause of problems. If he had not discussed wedding to BB with Pragya while still committed to Aaliyah, things would have been different!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Tia-

Purab does share some responsibility here because his indecision and inability to make his stand clear is also a root cause of problems. If he had not discussed wedding to BB with Pragya while still committed to Aaliyah, things would have been different!



Purab does shoulder some major responsibility for all this mess but that does not give the sisters the right to expect anything from him especially not go wed Aliya. They could plead with him to tell Abhi the truth but they won't do that either cos they are afraid Abhi will break off his marriage. Doesn't make sense as Abhi will break off his marriage even if Purab does marry Aliya. End result is the same, Abhi walking out of his marriage, so why should Purab pay the price if he has suddenly wisened up to the fact that his being the Bali ka Bakra is useless anyway.

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