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Posted: 11 years ago
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How incredibly selfish..Honestly thats the first thought that crossed my mind at the end of today's episode..Bulbul emotionally arm-twisting Purab & Pragya lashing out at him was pathetic to say the least..Did Bulbul ever love the guy? Am sorry but at this point, it comes across as a crush/ infatuation at the max 😆 Di ke liye woh karo, maa ke liye woh karo-What the actual fcuk 😕 Its your elder sister dammit..Sacrifice, jump off the cliff or do whatever the hell you want..You have no bloody right to force another guy to sacrifice 😕 And the moment he rebels, it means his love was fake? And he should sacrifice even if its so totally pointless in his opinion cos her sister's life is ruined either ways? Now coming to Pragya, i was gobsmacked listening to her reasoning today..She is putting up with abuse & going through hell for her mom & she expects the entire universe to follow suit? And whats up with her effed up logic? Her mom will have to face reality either ways once she is thrown out of the house..So how will Purab marrying Alia protect her mom in anyway apart from delaying the inevitable? I know Purab should have stood up for himself the moment ppl started pushing him into this marriage of convenience but its his life at the end of the day..I find it baffling that they expect him to sacrifice for his girlfriend's sister & mom 😕 And now if something happens to 'touch me not' Sarla, they'l conveniently shift all the blame on Purab & act like Abhi, Alia & Tannu are virginal souls when those three have been plotting & planning all along 😆 Its probably just me but both Bulbul & Pragya came across as incredibly selfish in today's episode..The best part is they all know Alia is a witch yet they are hell bent on getting the poor guy married to her 😆 If i were Purab, i swear i'l slap Alia, break up with Bulbul, show my middle finger to Pragya & Abhi and leave that place forever 😆

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: victorias

purab,abhi,pragya,bulbul are the most dumbest and annoying characters .



😆 No wonder Tannu & Alia look like Einstein 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with purabs reason that they are gonna ditch pragya anyway so why marry aaliya
And BB and Pragya are werid when it comes to sarla but
My only issue is him running away creating more mess but yeah i get what you are tryna say!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Martinski-

I agree with purabs reason that they are gonna ditch pragya anyway so why marry aaliya

And BB and Pragya are werid when it comes to sarla but
My only issue is him running away creating more mess but yeah i get what you are tryna say!



Ishaa 🤗 ( You are Isha right?😆 )..Yeah i agree Purab shouldn't have waited till the last moment to take this decision but then Alia is such a biatch that she totally deserves all this 😆 And i Bulbul has no bloody right to expect Purab to sacrifice for her sister's happiness..She can dump him, refuse to marry him etc. cos thats totally her prerogative but she has no right to push him into this marriage especially when they all know that Alia is a witch 😆 And Pragya's reasoning has never made sense tbh 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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They way their love story was shown,yes it looked more like an infatuation.The story lacked emotional connect and DEPTH all the way.Infact I dont get why Purab's obsession for Bulbul at this point.I dont know Purab's dukh bhari love speeches etc have great meaning,but their romance was not at all hard hitting for viewers to sympathize with Purab's trial or to mourn over their lost love.At times I feel like Purab is clutching on to Bulbul so hard as he wants to escape Alia more than him wanting to be with Bulbul 😕😆

Pragya and Bulbul are selfish somewhere.But Purab is hardly selfless himself.Ditching a girl at an altar u have been friends with from childhood like that,no matter how evil she is,embarassing her whole family in front of the whole worl,his best friend who has helped him to achieve evrything he has now etc is hardly honourable act.He was extremely selfish and spineless.Sorry the fact he didnt speak out at the right time(even after giving 100 chances) instead opted for runaway route is not at all forgivable.Pragya-Bulbul are behaving selfishly for their mom's life and Purab acted like that for his 2 month old love.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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100% agree with your post.
And Purab was not wrong in running away from the wedding. When coerced under extraordinary circumstances, it takes a thing like wedding, the ultimate reality that makes matters lucid. And for him, whatever the world, the sisters were leading him to, the false pretense that Pragya's marriage will survive, that purpose itself has come crashing down. So how is he even wrong ?

No one can say that this is not the time you should run away. It can happen to anyone of us. Getting not married is not end of life. Infact not committed to marriage after marrying is actually legally a contract breached.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Samaara.

They way their love story was shown,yes it looked more like an infatuation.The story lacked emotional connect and DEPTH all the way.Infact I dont get why Purab's obsession for Bulbul at this point.I dont know Purab's dukh bhari love speeches etc have great meaning,but their romance was not at all hard hitting for viewers to sympathize with Purab's trial or to mourn over their lost love.At times I feel like Purab is clutching on to Bulbul so hard as he wants to escape Alia more than him wanting to be with Bulbul 😕😆

Pragya and Bulbul are selfish somewhere.But Purab is hardly selfless himself.Ditching a girl at an altar u have been friends with from childhood like that,no matter how evil she is,embarassing her whole family in front of the whole worl,his best friend who has helped him to achieve evrything he has now etc is hardly honourable act.He was extremely selfish and spineless.Sorry the fact he didnt speak out at the right time(even after giving 100 chances) instead opted for runaway route is not at all forgivable.Pragya-Bulbul are behaving selfishly for their mom's life and Purab acted like that for his 2 month old love.



I agree..Purab has been selfish & he admitted it in today's epi as well if am not wrong..He should have spoken up ages back and not let ppl push him into this marriage 😆 But the dude was apparently way too much in love with Bulbul & way too spineless to open his mouth..Suresh Part 2 in a way 😆 But then, my point is, i find it appalling that Bulbul expects him to sacrifice for her sister's happiness..That makes no sense 😕 And its a huge sacrifice tbh cos Alia is a witch & Purab would have been unhappy for the rest of his life..So just to make sure her sister is happy, she wants him to live a life of unhappiness? 😆 And now that Purab knows the sacrifice is pointless, she still expects him to go ahead with it? Thats just illogical on so many levels 😕 And i agree..They rushed with Purab-Bulbul's love story just to create conflict & make way for Abhi-Pragya's marriage..I have never understood why Purab is shown to be so much in love with Bulbul 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: 0-SD-0

100% agree with your post.

And Purab was not wrong in running away from the wedding. When coerced under extraordinary circumstances, it takes a thing like wedding, the ultimate reality that makes matters lucid. And for him, whatever the world, the sisters were leading him to, the false pretense that Pragya's marriage will survive, that purpose itself has come crashing down. So how is he even wrong ?

No one can say that this is not the time you should run away. It can happen to anyone of us. Getting not married is not end of life. Infact not committed to marriage after marrying is actually legally a contract breached.




I do think Purab should have stood up for himself the moment he realized there was a misunderstanding & cleared Abhi's misconception and not waited till the D Day but Bulbul really needs to shut up & stop expecting the entire universe to sacrifice for her sister's happiness..They already maligned their cousin brother & din even bother to prove his innocence just to make sure their fragile mom lives in her own dream world..Now they expect Purab to live a life of unhappiness for god knows what reason 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I definitely wanted him to run and encouraged the behavior. I'm glad to see Aliya suffer.


But I also understand the reactions of the sisters. They're afraid for their mother and lashing out stupidly. Their plan was always flawed because it was a short term solution for a long term problem. So basically, no character on this show is immune from dumbness, except maybe the Daadis. 😆


Also bear in mind - Pragya has no idea that Purab left Abhi a note, right? In her mind, he just ran off and left her to deal with the fallout, which could potentially be someone else harshly telling her mom the truth rather than she herself doing it gently. Of course she's going to lash out at the person she feels is responsible for escalating the situation. He didn't even leave an explanation.


All that said, I support Purab wholeheartedly because someone needed to do something. Even if handled the wrong way, it had to happen for everyone's sake. I do think the plan to marry BB though is ridiculous.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lkb79

I definitely wanted him to run and encouraged the behavior. I'm glad to see Aliya suffer.



But I also understand the reactions of the sisters. They're afraid for their mother and lashing out stupidly. Their plan was always flawed because it was a short term solution for a long term problem. So basically, no character on this show is immune from dumbness, except maybe the Daadis. 😆


Also bear in mind - Pragya has no idea that Purab left Abhi a note, right? In her mind, he just ran off and left her to deal with the fallout, which could potentially be someone else harshly telling her mom the truth rather than she herself doing it gently. Of course she's going to lash out at the person she feels is responsible for escalating the situation. He didn't even leave an explanation.


All that said, I support Purab wholeheartedly because someone needed to do something. Even if handled the wrong way, it had to happen for everyone's sake. I do think the plan to marry BB though is ridiculous.



Yeah i understand Pragya's annoyance but my point is the situation would have been as nasty even if Purab decided to go ahead with the marriage..Alia & Tannu wouldn't have let Pragya explain things to her mom..They would have maligned her & kicked her out of the house in no time..And given how fragile her mom is, she would have suffered from a heart attack either ways😆 I find it absurd that both the sisters expect the guy to make such a huge sacrifice..Atleast let the guy explain himself..Lets say the places are interchanged & Purab wants Bulbul to marry a guy ( who is a male equivalent of Alia) for his sister's happiness..Will Pragya let BB go ahead with the marriage? 😆

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