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Posted: 11 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1


As for Bulbul, she irritates me with her constant badgering of Suresh and her insistence that Purab marry Aliya for no valid reason. The actress is cute and does a great job but the character is grating at times.

And please don't get me started on Sarla, she is the most annoying character of the show to me. A hundred Mrs. Bennets I could have tolerated gladly than this silly woman who acts like a 5 yr old that needs to be pampered and tucked at every turn.



Janhvi,

U know I always love reading your posts and totally agree with most of what u have written.

I left the Sarla part cause I totally agree and want it repeated here for emphasis on how much I agree 😆. Especially the bold part!

I love Abhi and Pragya, but there are things that could be done better and change and u stated them all. So nothing to add there.

My only counterpoint is on Bulbul.

1. constant badgering of Suresh - From what I have seen, and I havent missed one episode since Abhigya marriage 😳 its not exactly badgering.

I think BB is angry for 2 reasons... one is of her own making, meaning she is angry cause in a way Suresh betrayed her sisters trust and hers. Additionally, she also doesn't know whether he is being nice to them cause he is genuinely nice or whether he is being nice with an ulterior motive of getting BB to love him back.

Secondly, Suresh is placing himself in a position to always antogonise BB!!! Who would want to see the man that broke ur sister's heart and knowing its because of you, everday before ur eyes? I wouldnt want to see him... I too might be hostile to him.

Last but not least WHY OH WHY is Suresh always putting himself before BB? If he wasnt always in her face then she wouldnt have cause to badger him now would she? Yes, he is a very helpful person and yes he wants to be her friend and help her out, but sometimes a woman just doesnt want to see a man and can he not respect that and STAY AWAY from her?!!! BB does not go out of her way to find Suresh and be mean to him... Suresh is the one that is always coming before her... whether his intentions are good or bad doesnt matter, the fact is, he does.

2. insistence that Purab marry Aliya for no valid reason

Yes, it was BB's idea... and she did insist at the beginning. But after that, she doesnt want to meet Purab, she is staying away from them and I feel there are times and moments she regrets her decision.

It was BB's idea and insistence... but what the heck is wrong with Purab and Pragya to agree with this idea and go along with it?

This fire will be lit at the mandap and it wont be BB's doing alone... all of them played a part. She might be a fool... but it takes a bigger fool to follow a fool.

p.s. Dont get me wrong folks - I LOVE Purab and Pragya both!!! 😊 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32
I just feel it's unfair to call Abhi a physical abuser, because in serious scenarios when Pragya and him argue over the real issue between them, he does not get violent at all. The rest is just him being his childish self.
Poiu123, yeah those pins won't hurt.. but will tingle. That's why I am not bothered much with that either.

If he really wanted to hurt her physically, he could have done a lot more things..worse things actually
Edited by -Tia- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#33
About Abhi and two timing/polygamy... there will be a time where he will not be able to figure out whom he should be with. He will be pulled to Prayga, but he will avoid it... because he can;t fall for a girl who betrayed his sister. He will be in denial and will want to reinforce to himself that he loves Tannu...
Unless the MU is cleared, whatever he may feel for Pragya he will not want to believe it and will talk himself out of it since he is not supposed to love her.

And Abhi is definitely not a mature individual.. and in fact this is why he has done all these outlandish stuff.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#34
I don't think that hairpin was supposed to be blunt because Pragya is shown wincing in obviously sharp discomfort, if not actual pain. I caved and watched the episode because I wanted to see Raj tell off his wife and FIL. That was a good scene. A man with principles. I like that. Felt bad for the innocent kid Puneet - BB and P obviously know he's innocent but to prevent their mother from the shock (and us from witnessing another fainting spell), they allow him to be thrown under the bus. Not cool. I'd like to see how the girls plan to explain P getting kicked out of Lanka by the Axis of Evil. And what's the point of BB not marrying Purab if P is going to get kicked out anyway? I'd like to see Alu (Aliya and Tanu) begin to hate each other. I also read some posts that Aliya is doing this because she loves Purab. This is farthest from the truth, I think. Aliya told Purab it's only about winning, remember? I don't think that chick is capable of "love actually" (sorry for the bad pun. couldn't help it...did not even really like the movie that much). I'm sorry...no matter how I try to look at it, I can't find an excuse for Abhi's anger issues. Abhi IS violent - when he beat up Purab and Puneet, it was pretty sickening (to me anyway).
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Posted: 11 years ago
#35
Now I want a storyline with poor sweet innocent Puneet - maybe he gets so mad at his family for not believing him that he leaves home...a few months later, Puneet becomes an even bigger rockstar than Abhi! Mina, maybe you can write an OS with poor sweet innocent Puneet. And hit Abhi where it hurts - his fame, fortune, ego, bank account. 😛 👏😆
Edited by veeleo - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#36
By the way, a big thank you to everyone for reading and/or commenting on my post. 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: veeleo

Now I want a storyline with poor sweet innocent Puneet - maybe he gets so mad at his family for not believing him that he leaves home...a few months later, Puneet becomes an even bigger rockstar than Abhi! Mina, maybe you can write an OS with poor sweet innocent Puneet. And hit Abhi where it hurts - his fame, fortune, ego, bank account. 😛 👏😆



I LOVE IT.

And lol at your correct assumption that I was even still reading this post XD

Anyway, yes, lovelovelovelove it. I have a crush on Puneet, not gonna lie. I don't like revenge tracks but I could definitely get behind Rich Tycoon Magnate Awesome Boss Puneet.

I'll think about whether I can write anything on it...😆

Thanks for the lovely idea!!! 👍🏼

PS I am trying to write something where someone hits Abhi where it hurts, but the 'who' hasn't been settled yet...if it turns out to be Puneet, don't feel plagiarised 😉 😆
Edited by -mina- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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TM. Really enjoyed reading your post .
I was upset after Fridays episode and I wanted to see if anyone has raised questions and I found your Post . I agree with you that this show has nothing is common with S and S novel or the movies except for single mother and two daughters.

I see the show and do visit the forum regularly but this is my first post and I am amazed that Abbie is so liked and loved . Nothing about this actor. He is great actor and appears to be very talented but why are we cheering an abusive man and hope to see romance in this abusive relationship ? Do you really think Pagnya will forget every thing and start romancing him ? So writing his character this way is very disturbing . He needs anger management training .
I personally disapprove any abuse but it's used in daily soap . Verbal abuse , emotional and physical abuse is very common and well liked by viewers . This really amazing in negative way.
Abuse is always wrong. Some try to excuse it. Most perpetrators have a sense of entitlement, thinking their actions are justified. I Abhi tries to justify his abuse but there's no weakness as great as false strength.

Why should Pagnya who is an educated girl suffer like this.i think she is hurting her mother more . When her mother knows the truth she will collapse and go I to cardiac arrest . ( the way they are writing her )

I am old enough to know the difference but what about our young generation who idealize these show and character ? Writers should be more careful .



Edited by Heema22 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: veeleo

Now I want a storyline with poor sweet innocent Puneet - maybe he gets so mad at his family for not believing him that he leaves home...a few months later, Puneet becomes an even bigger rockstar than Abhi! Mina, maybe you can write an OS with poor sweet innocent Puneet. And hit Abhi where it hurts - his fame, fortune, ego, bank account. 😛 👏😆



Great idea . Writer should hire you for ideas 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: veeleo

I don't think that hairpin was supposed to be blunt because Pragya is shown wincing in obviously sharp discomfort, if not actual pain. I caved and watched the episode because I wanted to see Raj tell off his wife and FIL. That was a good scene. A man with principles. I like that. Felt bad for the innocent kid Puneet - BB and P obviously know he's innocent but to prevent their mother from the shock (and us from witnessing another fainting spell), they allow him to be thrown under the bus. Not cool. I'd like to see how the girls plan to explain P getting kicked out of Lanka by the Axis of Evil. And what's the point of BB not marrying Purab if P is going to get kicked out anyway? I'd like to see Alu (Aliya and Tanu) begin to hate each other. I also read some posts that Aliya is doing this because she loves Purab. This is farthest from the truth, I think. Aliya told Purab it's only about winning, remember? I don't think that chick is capable of "love actually" (sorry for the bad pun. couldn't help it...did not even really like the movie that much). I'm sorry...no matter how I try to look at it, I can't find an excuse for Abhi's anger issues. Abhi IS violent - when he beat up Purab and Puneet, it was pretty sickening (to me anyway).


And you forget one more, Abhi beat up Suresh too.

Lanka, Axis of Evil ...Lovely. 😆

yeah! I dont see any point in Pragya not telling Bulbul either that her plan wont work with getting Aliya-Purab married coz she is going to be kicked out if the marriage happens. 😆

Anyways...all I care and hoot for is Puneet. When is the boy going to get justice? Fine few slaps for him going after Tanu and peeping is well deserved punishment for his lafangey baazi...but he is teen I guess...but he needs to be heard as well, why he was going to that room. Parenting slaps to elders too who forget that they have to listen to their kids with open minds!!!!

Is Intezaar mein, I would grow my hair a little bit greyer in time.😛

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