(Non) Sense & (In) Sensibility - Page 5

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I do not support Puneet's actions of peeping thru the keyhole. He cud have knocked. Even though he was invited by Tanu, wat if she was actually adjusting her dress at that time and Abhi caught him outside ? Wud we still be bashing Abhi and be sympathetic to Puneet???

Originally posted by: poiu123

I do not support Puneet's actions of peeping thru the keyhole. He cud have knocked. Even though he was invited by Tanu, wat if she was actually adjusting her dress at that time and Abhi caught him outside ? Wud we still be bashing Abhi and be sympathetic to Puneet???

I did think about that. Puneet is innocent, all he wanted to do was give her a rose and the CVs did have him voice some silly reason for peeping into the keyhole but yes, that was wrong of him to peer at Tannu under the what if scenario of had she really been changing her clothes.

Originally posted by: poiu123

I do not support Puneet's actions of peeping thru the keyhole. He cud have knocked. Even though he was invited by Tanu, wat if she was actually adjusting her dress at that time and Abhi caught him outside ? Wud we still be bashing Abhi and be sympathetic to Puneet???

Originally posted by: Ashlaika

Janhvi,

U know I always love reading your posts and totally agree with most of what u have written.

I left the Sarla part cause I totally agree and want it repeated here for emphasis on how much I agree 😆. Especially the bold part!

I love Abhi and Pragya, but there are things that could be done better and change and u stated them all. So nothing to add there.

My only counterpoint is on Bulbul.

1. constant badgering of Suresh - From what I have seen, and I havent missed one episode since Abhigya marriage 😳 its not exactly badgering.

I think BB is angry for 2 reasons... one is of her own making,
meaning she is angry cause in a way Suresh betrayed her sisters trust
and hers. Additionally, she also doesn't know whether he is being nice to them cause he
is genuinely nice or whether he is being nice with an ulterior motive of
getting BB to love him back.

Secondly, Suresh is placing himself in a position to always antogonise BB!!! Who would want to see the man that broke ur sister's heart and knowing its because of you, everday before ur eyes? I wouldnt want to see him... I too might be hostile to him.

Last but not least WHY OH WHY is Suresh always putting himself before BB? If he wasnt always in her face then she wouldnt have cause to badger him now would she? Yes, he is a very helpful person and yes he wants to be her friend and help her out, but sometimes a woman just doesnt want to see a man and can he not respect that and STAY AWAY from her?!!! BB does not go out of her way to find Suresh and be mean to him... Suresh is the one that is always coming before her... whether his intentions are good or bad doesnt matter, the fact is, he does.

2. insistence that Purab marry Aliya for no valid reason

Yes, it was BB's idea... and she did insist at the beginning. But after that, she doesnt want to meet Purab, she is staying away from them and I feel there are times and moments she regrets her decision.

It was BB's idea and insistence... but what the heck is wrong with Purab and Pragya to agree with this idea and go along with it?

This fire will be lit at the mandap and it wont be BB's doing alone... all of them played a part. She might be a fool... but it takes a bigger fool to follow a fool.

p.s. Dont get me wrong folks - I LOVE Purab and Pragya both!!! 😊 😳

Ash, dear Ash, thanks!! :) yes, Sarla drives me batty :(

Love Bulbul when she is away from Suresh. She does seem to have an exaggerated response to him every time she sees him. Yes, he did not love her sister but I think Bulbul's dislike stems from something more, she hates him cos he reminds her that she, Bulbul, was the cause of Pragya not getting her love.

Every marriage proposal had gone awry and most of the time it was cos the groom or groom's family found Bulbul prettier than Pragya. Bulbul has inbuilt pent up resentment from all those situations and here is Suresh available for dumping all that built up anger and hatred at the unfairness of people choosing Bulbul over her sister. Suresh did nothing wrong in loving Bulbul, he also meant to go along with the wedding to Pragya and to keep her happy. Bulbul though sees it as a huge crime that Suresh fell in love with her. He couldn't help himself.

So Bulbul turns vitriolic every time she is in Suresh's company and he , the idiot, is compelled by the love he has for her to try to ease her path (autorickshaw incident). Both are not wrong as their actions/reactions arise from other underlying emotions. I hope to God, we don't have to see them together as a married couple, the constant rudeness on her part to him and his sappy looks at her would make me scratch the TV screen :)

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

I hope to God, we don't have to see them together as a married couple, the constant rudeness on her part to him and his sappy looks at her would make me scratch the TV screen :)

Originally posted by: -Tia-

But the way it is shown in soap does not indicate it's like that. Abhi could do worse to Pragya if his intention was to physically hurt her. He gets forced to do things for her such as decorate with her or to hold her hand for mehendi.. which he doesn't like. And then, he comes up with these silly ways of annoying her.

Of course it can be extrapolated and thought of that way. But I never thought Abhi is physically abusive.

Even in the dance sequences, he dropped her and all that, but they also showed she dropped him too. He fed her mirchi.. and she did too.
So, it's more a light hearted "irritating" each other than actual violence.

He dropped her & humiliated her multiple times..She dropped him only at a point when it got too much thanks to dadi's advice..He purposefully fed her mirchi but Pragya had no idea the dessert had mirchi when she fed Abhi..Trying to accuse her of stealing the engagement ring & humiliating her in front of everyone is not evil annoyance..Its plain evil..Beating her brother up & stopping him from opening his mouth cos he wants to safeguard his own extramarital affair again shows how selfish & effed up the guy is..These are not small flaws..We can justify Abhi only up to a certain point..Blood loss or not, fracture or not, abuse is abuse..Just because Pragya tolerates it for whatever reason, it cannot be used to justify the guy..

Anyways, on topic, Abhi is despicable..I have no idea what the writers are trying to do here..On the one hand, he makes out with Tannu & on the other hand, he indulges in long eyelocks with Pragya..And the worst part is, his feelings look genuine in both the cases 😆 And after all the abuse, Pragya is touched when Abhi is shown to be concerned about her..Not an ounce of self-respect left in her 😕 And can someone please tell me why poor Purab is forced to marry Aliya? Even Pragya told BB the other day that they have no other option..Why? Abhi has told Pragya multiple times that he'l throw her out the moment Alia & Purab get married..And she has seen first hand that Abhi & Tannu love eachother..So if Aliya & Purab get married, Purab will be stuck with that witch for life..Bulbul will be depressed too cos she lost her love..Abhi will throw Pragya out and marry Tannu..Sarla will anyway get to know & she'l either have to accept it or die..Eventually Abhi & Aliya get what they want..So what is the purpose of this marriage from Bulbul & Pragya's perspective? Can anyone explain this? 😆 I know its a show & Abhi & Pragya are endgame but this whole plot is so damn illogical 😕

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

He dropped her & humiliated her multiple times..She dropped him only at a point when it got too much thanks to dadi's advice..He purposefully fed her mirchi but Pragya had no idea the dessert had mirchi when she fed Abhi..Trying to accuse her of stealing the engagement ring & humiliating her in front of everyone is not evil annoyance..Its plain evil..Beating her brother up & stopping him from opening his mouth cos he wants to safeguard his own extramarital affair again shows how selfish & effed up the guy is..These are not small flaws..We can justify Abhi only up to a certain point..Blood loss or not, fracture or not, abuse is abuse..Just because Pragya tolerates it for whatever reason, it cannot be used to justify the guy..

Anyways, on topic, Abhi is despicable..I have no idea what the writers are trying to do here..On the one hand, he makes out with Tannu & on the other hand, he indulges in long eyelocks with Pragya..And the worst part is, his feelings look genuine in both the cases 😆 And after all the abuse, Pragya is touched when Abhi is shown to be concerned about her..Not an ounce of self-respect left in her 😕 And can someone please tell me why poor Purab is forced to marry Aliya? Even Pragya told BB the other day that they have no other option..Why? Abhi has told Pragya multiple times that he'l throw her out the moment Alia & Purab get married..And she has seen first hand that Abhi & Tannu love eachother..So if Aliya & Purab get married, Purab will be stuck with that witch for life..Bulbul will be depressed too cos she lost her love..Abhi will throw Pragya out and marry Tannu..Sarla will anyway get to know & she'l either have to accept it or die..Eventually Abhi & Aliya get what they want..So what is the purpose of this marriage from Bulbul & Pragya's perspective? Can anyone explain this? 😆 I know its a show & Abhi & Pragya are endgame but this whole plot is so damn illogical 😕

i dont think ekta and her shows capable of answering this much logical questions... in my view kb
is a illogical and abusive show which having some nok-jok,funny scenes..

Originally posted by: Gayu-Sahil

i dont think ekta and her shows capable of answering this much logical questions... in my view kb
is a illogical and abusive show which having some nok-jok,funny scenes..