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onamlife

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hi guys 😛

Sometimes I feel these tv serials actually project a very wrong thing on tv . In yst epi Rajjo seemed so happy to marry Akash, even the entire family was rejoicing with her. I mean seriously???? The guy says its not his child indirectly calling her characterless , the mother abuses and tells her to abort the kid. After that such a showdown at their house. But still she wants to marry this guy. Y ? For a change why cant they show her getting the child aborted and giving life a fresh start ? Why give society a wrong message.

What is the guarantee that after marriage the person will not harm u and ur baby . The only sensible person in that house yst was Dadi.

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vivkriti

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Posted: 11 years ago

Completely agree. with you. I also don't like the idea of begging for marriage in front of that person who ditched you only for the sake of child. There is no guarantee that he will respect you keep you happy n accept your child whole heartedly after marriage. Marriage is not the end but a new start of life.

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Candylicious

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Posted: 11 years ago

@TM well said. Abhi"s bro is a shameless guy & Rajjo she have no self respect. Rajjo don't have to abort the baby as there are many single mothers out there. Even if Akash marry Rajjo her life will be hell.

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onamlife

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Posted: 11 years ago

Exactly why project , women so weak and doormat on tv . God knows

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Raj (nickname)

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: onamlife
Hi guys 😛
Sometimes I feel these tv serials actually project a very wrong thing on tv . In yst epi Rajjo seemed so happy to marry Akash, even the entire family was rejoicing with her. I mean seriously???? The guy says its not his child indirectly calling her characterless , the mother abuses and tells her to abort the kid. After that such a showdown at their house. But still she wants to marry this guy. Y ? For a change why cant they show her getting the child aborted and giving life a fresh start ? Why give society a wrong message.
What is the guarantee that after marriage the person will not harm u and ur baby . The only sensible person in that house yst was Dadi.

Couldn't have agreed with you more, The part I hated the most was when Rajjo's mother went chasing after Akash and his parents begging for her daughter's marriage, I mean come on this is the 21st century a female can look after herself without the support of a male, why beg like this after everything that they said about your daughter, made me so angry I was literally shouting at the tv screen😡

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zephyr29

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Posted: 11 years ago

Well said. I was wondering about the same. When the child's father himself is unwilling to take any such responsibility of the child, and in fact down right denying it and the fact that his mother took such pains of actually insulting her and her family in front of all, will her finally marrying him bring any happiness to her and her child? Fully agreed with the Daadi there. I can't even imagine what she's getting herself into by agreeing to marry him.

But I guess the mentality they are trying to show is that in the end no matter what its honour (especially the family's honour) that matters even above individual happiness, a very outdated way of thinking in my opinion, and not something that has to be promoted in any way.

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glamarousgemini

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Posted: 11 years ago

What surprises me is the lack of practicing safe sex. When pragya questions her how could
You do this. She goes we got married. Ummm...jus cuz you got married doesn't mean it's okay to
Forgo protection. And then when she finds out she is pregnant she is crying like her life is over. And then she wants to pass of the child as the guy she was going to marry. That is so horrible.

Forgot begging for a guy to Marry her, she has no self respect to
Begin with.

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Stark_Wolf

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Posted: 11 years ago

Completely agree with u!rajjos mom i understand bcoz most parents think abt daughters badnaami first than her happiness nd here she knws rajjos happiness is dat jerk so she went begging bt rajjo godhw can any one b so desprate...come on he as good as called u a s**t by lying abt d kid nd ur relation bt u still want him?why cant she do a job nd look after d kid herself if she wana keep d child ..!

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Saffi Sanam

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: glamarousgemini
What surprises me is the lack of practicing safe sex. When pragya questions her how could
You do this. She goes we got married. Ummm...jus cuz you got married doesn't mean it's okay to
Forgo protection. And then when she finds out she is pregnant she is crying like her life is over. And then she wants to pass of the child as the guy she was going to marry. That is so horrible.

Forgot begging for a guy to Marry her, she has no self respect to
Begin with.

Lol I know right. 😆 Any practical person in their shoes would have used protection. Ekta seems like she can't live without incorporating some sort of pregnancy or another in her shows. 😆