Sikander is always manipulated

I have many complaints regarding Sikander with him not taking stand for himself and what he feels right, shouting, crying instead of dealing with things in better way but sometimes i just feel pity for him. His life is nothing but a puppet in others hands. First Lovely's father, then Lovely, then his own family, then his kids making it seem Lovely and he have eternal love and NOW NEW NIMRAT. They always play with his life according to their own wishes.