SS Justajoo part8- page71 28/01/2015 - Page 19

Originally posted by: Vidishaa

1)Nidhi is bold..but only up to a point...

plus being a single mother isn't easy..esp in small cities like Lucknow...

Even unwed moms living in metros like Mumbai face a lot of hassles..pregnancy... visits to gynaec...school admission...etc..Nidhi knows it and isn't bold enough to tackle it

She would be called names... the child would be labelled...

I am talking about the change to bring. How can this be handled...😳

2)People would question her about the dad's identity...what would she say..how long can she hide the truth from her immediate family...

Plus ..do you think this Ashu will give her a chance to become a single mom...never... he will apply subtle pressure and ensure that she eiither terminates the pregnancy or marries his best friend... that way things will be kept under wraps...he can't take the risk of Nidhi revealing the child's paternity ( some time in the future..after a tiff with him..or maybe during an emotional moment.).. Nidhi's marriage to Armaan is an insurance against all this.

Here I am disliking Ashu. He is attracted to her... But asking her to marry his best friend to cover pregnancy or termination... is disgusting..

by the way, Armaan knows about AshNi? I f he knows, then well and good otherwise.. Ashu is so mean...

I hope Ashu doesnt turn emotional towards Nidhi and hurt Pallavi in any manner.

3) Ashu wants to continue his relationship with Nidz...If Nidhi were to become a single mom then her movements will be watched carefully.. he will get into major trouble if he is accidentally spotted with his saali ( who is an unwed mom)..people will speculate that he is the child's dad--- risky again...

If Nidhi were to marry Armaan, not many eyebrows would be raised if he is spotted with Nidhi( though he would take precautions not to be seen with her)...or seen coming out of her house...

4) Ashu wants the child to be born free of stigma... have a responsible man as a dad..and have a happy childhood...he doesn't want the child to pay the price of Nidhi's rebellion

hmmm..

The most important factor is that Ashu wants to save his own skin.. he doesn't want the truth to be out... ever

😡..very true... this society...is really😡😡😡

Originally posted by: mudraswathi

Originally posted by: mudraswathi

One of my friends family is facing a problem. Their daughter has some difficulty in conceiving a child... and as usual in-laws are making an issue...upto divorce...

male is always escaping unblemished ... what about a fellow has ED and still called a male?😡

Here Ashutosh too is unpardonable ... he just dispises Pallavi..but still called a male and a hero in the society... now doing similar thing with Nidhi😡

Originally posted by: mudraswathi

I was reading your reply and thinking hard about it😳

Originally posted by: Vidishaa

ohk.. thanks for clarification😆😆😆😆

And I am glad u will never pester me😛

Originally posted by: Vidishaa

Ashutosh is a protagonist ... many will make the mistake of calling him a hero.. he isn't .. he is a cad.. Nidhi is a bit@h...

Men are pardoned very easily by their family and friends... society is very tolerant of their transgressions😡

Regarding the example-

One of my seniors ( school) has been divorced by her huz coz of her inability to conceive... She is a nice girl..but the guy and her family were very mean... publicised her infertility in a very crude manner so that he doesn't find it difficult to get a new bride...

The guy found a bride and got married last year...an educated girl from a modest family...

This is the society we are living in... the new bride's family didn't view him as a disgusting man