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rajanigandha26

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

Very nice post. i agree with you on
Maybe its her personal experience as a motherless child that is making her want to be ready to look after her own child and give it all that she has missed out on. And as part of this readiness she wants to be emotionally ready to take on this responsibility.

Nidhi knows what exactly she has missed by not having a mother.Nidhi was a little girl without a mother's love that so many of us just take for granted. Mother's value as a role model and friend is undeniable. There is no substitute to mother in our life. No one can take that place. In Nidhi's case Shyama aunty and dadi bua can not make up for her loss.
So she wants to be a perfect Mom and give all the love and care that she missed out. i appreciate her decision to wait till mentally prepared for motherhood.Her worrying itself indicates that she will be a good Mom

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parmarA

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

Aardhan,great pov,agree with your each and every word.i really didn't understand what Anji really want and i don't think Nidhi is practical here but rude too.this is whole my pov.

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lee_Ashni

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Perfect analysis of Anji and Nidhi. Very fabulously written.👏

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BayofSarcasm

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

Aarti, brilliant post!👏

My only peeve against anji was the way she said her mom would handle everything. Yes we do take our near and dear for granted and know they will pitch in to help, the key word being help, but we can't dump our responsibility on them. Which is how Anji made it sound.

In contrast, Nidhi, much as she loves kids, wants to be ready mentally and emotionally before she opts for motherhood.

Again here the key word is opts, a choice available to both these women. They are both educated women who have supportive husbands and so the choice is really in their hands. Not many women have this support and choice.

I would appreciate Nidhi's stand more than anji's who seems more immature than practical here.

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Aardhan

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Thanks Divya, Mudra, Koyel and vyoman for your kind words. Really appreciate it! 😃

Edited by aardhan - 12 years ago

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Aardhan

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: Malvika_rajeev
Good Logic Aardhan.

One more difference: Anjie is married to someone who is of the same age group as her, her love affair was never as scandalizing as Nidhi's was..plus there was no "Mallika" threat. So she has a more secure marriage, with parents/parents-inlaw buffering.

Nidhi doesnt have a mother, nor does she have a proper sasural to fall back on. Ashu has been a complex character with a uncertain past which she cannot get over with.

Thanks Doc Malvika. 😊

Well, this couple comparison was going to be my next post based on this Anji/ Nidhi post. But since you have mentioned it, 😉 ...you are correct with both the issues you have raised.

In the beginning I used to think that we will see a lot of comparisons between the two couples and it will mostly be a comparison of and age-gap couple to one without that issue. But now, I feel that's not the only difference. Like you mentioned, there is a more basic difference which right now is the bigger issue than age gap.

Ranji is a normal couple, with both partners brought up in a traditional family set-up, both parents still alive and well-off, so yes they have a support system to fall back on. But Ashni are a more self-made couple with not much in the name of family, here family to them is more a mish mash of a group of people all brought together by circumstances and are connected by the love and care for each other...

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meenu0527

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

as always fabulous post ,Aardhan.I agreed totally.

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Kulfii.

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

Fabulous post.I find Anjie immature here.Why should Shyama be burdened with this responsibility? Moreover she has to take care of PS also.Imo, kids are parents responsibility.At the most grand parents can give support to raise the child.About Nidhi she has no such compulsion to get pregnant.Thankfully CB has not blackmailed her for this(he is a heart patient too).But she also has a big support system in the form of DB, CB, BB & HK etc...and even Ashutosh who I think will take long leave from the hospital if he becomes a father 😆

Edited by SD812 - 12 years ago

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Aardhan

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: jayanti_dj
honestly speakin aarti ,I dont think anji is really understanding what is gonna happen ! and she would realise its not gonna be a walk in the park !
dont think she is that practical after all !

Yeah, it definitely sounded like that. But I don't trust these CVs will ever dwell in depth about any Ranji issue. They have a good opportunity to get a good side track going and show the problems in the life of another couple who on paper seem more ideal than Ashni, but they do not.

Even now, if they end up showing Ranji's baby (based on news reports) they may show Shyama giving some advice to Anji on motherhood and lo and behold overnight we will see Anji transform into the perfect mother. They are never going to show any strugle in Ranji's life and always show that their problems are solved in a matter of minutes or within a day or two... a bit disappointed with the frivolous way in which CVs handle the Ranji story. 😒