Woman of substance? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Roza_DU

So what is this track all about...that is my concern, Roza...while people may think it is about empowerment, I am tempted to think otherwise...while nobody expects perfection, compassion is all about being human...and not about being perfect...so is the track about teaching Nidhi compassion...ad how can a woman who has been so compassionate in the past suddenly need lessons?

Btw, you never answered my questions 😊

First one or two years of marriage are very crucial for any couple as they try to know each other in close proximity under the same roof,they make mistakes,rectify & eventually solidify their union...one of my friends got married after 4years of love affair but divorced after 3months of their marriage...
May be the writer is showing the same thing happening in Ashu Nidhi's life,some times Ashu is indifferent to Nidhi's desire , unable to understand her insecurities, her thinking,sometimes Nidhi is unable to understand his desires,miscalculates his certain behaviors,they are two different human being with completely different personal traits,so mu are bound to happen,may be through this journey they will be able to accommodate each others wishes n both will turn to be person of substance...
@bold don't think so.
@blue,when? Actually I can't log in those times when most members are active, sorry about that.

So, you think it is not about compassion...but if she does not start feeling compassionate towards Mallika, how will she forgive her and how will Mallika be redeemed?

And i was talking of the questions in the above post..

Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao

So, you think it is not about compassion...but if she does not start feeling compassionate towards Mallika, how will she forgive her and how will Mallika be redeemed?

And i was talking of the questions in the above post..

She doesn't have to be extra compassionate to forgive Mallu,she will understand the reason behind her husband's caring attitude to Mallu & will forgive her only out of her love to Ashu...don't think she will ever feel compassionate towards Mallu in real sense.If KPji tries to show that would be a blunder..Nidhi ko sare jindegi Mallu ko jhelna hai until unless Ashu cuts her down from his life
or mallu herself moves out from their life.

Originally posted by: Roza_DU

She doesn't have to be extra compassionate to forgive Mallu,she will understand the reason behind her husband's caring attitude to Mallu & will forgive her only out of her love to Ashu...don't think she will ever feel compassionate towards Mallu in real sense.If KPji tries to show that would be a blunder..Nidhi ko sare jindegi Mallu ko jhelna hai until unless Ashu cuts her down from his life
or mallu herself moves out from their life.

Compassion does not have to mean accepting Mallika as a part of their life...I don't think Nidhi even needs to accept that...I only meant compassion in the sense of feeling for her current plight as a woman and also somewhere letting go of the past, if Mallika is truly repentant!

I think my answer will be general...

She has every right to choose what is best for her at the given moment... No external instigation to direct her what she should do and what not ... or how she should proceed...

Each human reacts to situations in their own way... judging humans by a narrowed down set wouldnt give you any conclusion about the traits like compassion or whatever...

Originally posted by: mudraswathi

I think my answer will be general...

She has every right to choose what is best for her at the given moment... No external instigation to direct her what she should do and what not ... or how she should proceed...

Each human reacts to situations in their own way... judging humans by a narrowed down set wouldnt give you any conclusion about the traits like compassion or whatever...

But compassion is a general thing, Mudra...if it becomes selective or based on situations, then it is not compassion...but like, you say, maybe there are multiple definitions to the term...

However, you have not answered my question ...what is the larger purpose of this track?

Agree with all 6 points Sujatha ji ...u hav brilliantly put them forward ...for me, nidhi is already a woman of substance...😛no need for any transformation but yes their love needs some patience ,time and understanding from both of them...