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Okay, this has been a long time coming...but I really didn't want to do this...and so kept pushing it away...but today I am left with no choice...
This is a democratic forum where people have the right to express their views, agree and also disagree...with so many people around, opinions are bound to differ and not everybody is going to say things that may sound like music to your ears...
However, basic courtesy demands that you respect the right of an individual to differ from you...agreeing to disagree is an oft used phrase...it is sad that this phrase is not treated as currency in this forum,...
I have had differences with people in the past,...but they have always been restricted to differences on the show and characters and neither I nor the others involved have crossed the line and got into the realm of the personal...
Name calling, even if subtle, is simply not acceptable...nor are personal remarks and questioning of personal values based on one's stance on events in the show...I think that is extremely ugly...
I have been putting up with insinuations and insiduous remarks for a while now...have been taking this on the chin and sportingly because I have not wanted to make an issue...that does not mean that such behaviour is acceptable to me...
I find the remarks linking me with KPji offensive after a point...being playful is fine but there are limits...I am a real person whom you don't even know...so, it is wise to keep to limits even in jest...I protest against the remarks making me out to be someone who has tremendous influence on KPji,...that does not do him credit nor is it fair to me...I have not asked him to write this story this way nor will I ever think to do so...I merely share my views with him just as everybody else does...why is this being blown out of proportion...
For the first and the last time, I am not KPji's muse...I don't tell him what to do...so, please be relaxed...I am no threat to this beautiful show...and I do know what love and marriage mean...but thanks for reminding me anyway!
This is a democratic forum where people have the right to express their views, agree and also disagree...with so many people around, opinions are bound to differ and not everybody is going to say things that may sound like music to your ears...
However, basic courtesy demands that you respect the right of an individual to differ from you...agreeing to disagree is an oft used phrase...it is sad that this phrase is not treated as currency in this forum,...
I have had differences with people in the past,...but they have always been restricted to differences on the show and characters and neither I nor the others involved have crossed the line and got into the realm of the personal...
Name calling, even if subtle, is simply not acceptable...nor are personal remarks and questioning of personal values based on one's stance on events in the show...I think that is extremely ugly...
I have been putting up with insinuations and insiduous remarks for a while now...have been taking this on the chin and sportingly because I have not wanted to make an issue...that does not mean that such behaviour is acceptable to me...
I find the remarks linking me with KPji offensive after a point...being playful is fine but there are limits...I am a real person whom you don't even know...so, it is wise to keep to limits even in jest...I protest against the remarks making me out to be someone who has tremendous influence on KPji,...that does not do him credit nor is it fair to me...I have not asked him to write this story this way nor will I ever think to do so...I merely share my views with him just as everybody else does...why is this being blown out of proportion...
For the first and the last time, I am not KPji's muse...I don't tell him what to do...so, please be relaxed...I am no threat to this beautiful show...and I do know what love and marriage mean...but thanks for reminding me anyway!
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