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Posted: 13 years ago
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I felt the same thing. Nidhi does not know Mallika is redeemed and what her true intentions are.To her M is a woman who is obsessed with her husband and who goes to any extreme to get him. Is it not Ashu's duty to assure her. This is my complaint about the writer.Right from the start not once he thinks for Nidhi and she is not given much importance. Again this has become a friendship story where the two friends are given much importance. The poisoning incident has become a forgotten past to the friends and they don't care about trying to harm an innocent person and all they are worried is will N understand and accepts him helping a friend
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Come to think of it, when he pulled her to him when she reminded him of his husbandly duties, the fool was again doing the same thing...trying to show her how much he wanted and loved her...trying to tell her that Mallika was not even a factor between them..if the man had even an iota of doubt in his mind that his wife had not understood his compulsions, he would not have made the gesture...in another man, the same gesture might be construed as crude and sexist...in AShutosh, it was probably his way of expressing his all-consuming love and need for her!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very well written sujatha👍🏼... Nidhi has already confirmed she is jealous of mallika. If only ashutosh understands this. For this i guess we need a new guy's entry or KW.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao

I think Nidhi's problem, based on what she has said so far, is that she is extremely possessive about Ashutosh and is unable to tolerate his excessive display of concern for a woman whom she knows was once in love with him and maybe still is...While she is trying to be largehearted and humane, the woman in her is sounding warning bells...If it were some other woman but Mallika, we would have even found this display of possessiveness cute...

Ashutosh already knows that she is madly in love with him and very possessive too...maybe he should try and be a little more indulgent towards her...she is a kid after all and he is her toy that she does not want to share..instead of getting upset himself, if he tried to understand and enjoy her possessiveness, things would be easier for both...after all, he has longed to be wanted all his life...wanted to belong...and here is this girl who is clinging on to him for life...isn't she actually the answer to his prayers...

Maybe if AShutosh had had a normal upbringing in a normal family and had been without so many complexities and insecurities, he would have been able to do this...

Come to think of it, I don't feel angst when they fight...I feel like I am watching two muddled kids who are trying hard to tell each other the obvious...that they love each other like crazy...

Maybe this is why I am not getting worked up at all...they only make me smile!



Again, Sujathaji... I am in awe of you - your way of thinking, your way of expressing what you think... Marvellous!! 👍🏼 I am really touched by your words... how perfect analysis of a situation!!!

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