Is Mallika that much in the wrong? - Page 4

I agree with the majority here as well, Mallu is responsible for Mallu. I just wanted to mention another scene I recalled from earlier episode that supports our argument. Nidhi had walked in on Ashutosh consoling Mallika in his office (she's crying on his shoulder) and when he is dropping her home, she apologizes to him and says what Dr. Nidhi must have thought was going on between them. And he says what does it matter, YOU'RE A DOCTOR (meaning how can you think like regular folk) and she answers I'm a woman too. For me, that spoke volumes. Ashu saw Mallu as friend, colleague, buddy but not as a woman. Now contrary, he called and apologized to Nidhi for Mallika's outburst during Raja/Titli story linking Nidhi with Ashutosh. Just some thoughts...

👏very good analysis fanktlk...

Originally posted by: Chitrashi

Ok before I get massacred, I don't support what Mallika is doing right now.

Think about it logically, we feel outraged when seeing intimate scenes between Mallika and Ashutosh. However from both their conversations it is apparent that this type of behavior was normal between them.

So what was Ashutosh doing, getting so intimate with Mallika, if not leading her on?

Would any woman stand to be blamed, if a man is so intimate with her for 12 long years and then one fine day turns around and says, but I never was in love with you, I'm in love with the young hottie, who's just joined us at work?

It doesn't excuse Mallika's current behavior, but let's not put the entire blame on her alone. Ashutosh is equally if not entirely responsible for this mess.

Originally posted by: rrdus

@underline.. in past Ashu always has maintain distant from Mallu.. but now Mallu is doing 12 saal ka jaap that tum mere liye woh karte the ,ye karte the..but i want to point out these scenes..recent ones

1. violin one.. Mallu said when i was sick for sulane ke liye tum sunate the..

2. hair comb .. jab mein sick thi tumne mere baal banaye the..

in Coat wala part.. he did't say why he did it.. but i guess it was cold they both needed

coat..

toh Ashu ne jo bhi kiya as a friend ...in need,and still he is doing it..

gud point heena..

@fan ktlk-waiting fr ur reply..

Originally posted by: SwastikAshNi

@fan ktlk-waiting fr ur reply..

Originally posted by: fanktlk

I think here most of the women would disagree. You mention that even it is embarrassing you owuld ask your friend why you are not getting married and most friends I know would not appreciate the question. Some might snap back saying what's with you??

Ashu did not grow up in a regular environment. Things we take for granted parents, siblings marriage are too alien concepts for him.

He did not have the luxury to take any of that for granted. Thereby he was never exposed to the regular relationships. He did not see marriage as a natural progression in his life. So he might just not have hit him that that is missing form his life and Mallu's.

OK-ur point is valid...Hats off to ur analysis...
Actually i was thinking in this way. as a friend i think,anyone can ask at least once to another friend why he/she isn't marrying...Definitely asking once will not be the cause of embarrassment or interference-it's can be because of curiosity or friendly concern...In that case,i see no reason Mallu did not expose her feeling if asked...then what she was waiting for?
Actually 12 yrs is a big time-it's hard to digest the fact that a woman waiting for 12 yrs didn't give any hint of her feeling and the man couldn't guess it...
Now i think,u r right-as there was no one else in Ashu's life,Mallu began to think Ashu as her own "Haq" in her own way...So she didn't feel any need to express it openly.Sue just instigated her to take forward this relation into Marriage and Nidhi's coming challenged her womanhood..
As for Ashu,yes-being a orphan-he might huv something different perceptions...
It was very nice to get ur experienced views...