Kuch Rang Pyar Ke Aise Bhi 3 Written Updates 21 Jul 2021 - Page 6

Originally posted by: Hari73

No, she tried to convince soha to be good with her. What you want sona too shout at her. Sona is around ayush. She is there when he is required.

Poor dev, seriously . Poor is sona, she is trying best to balance n ma beta spoiling it. What is the need to get ice cream seperately. Bring it for all. Sit together. No he had to give spl attention. And just took away gaming controller from soha gave it to her. When he knows clearly soha is insecured, thanks to him he made her more insecured.

I want this to be scam. I want him to realise what mistake he did. Just to comforting other child, his daughter will go away from him.

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

Sonakshi has become a typical mother who only thinks about her kids and supports them in all their misgivings .where did the mature and sensible lady go.

Originally posted by: Newbiewriter30

I agree that Soha's behavior needs to be checked and that responsibility is not just Sonakshi's, as Ishwari tried to say in the last episode. It takes a village to raise a child and every adult in that house, parents and grandparents are in it together to make sure that she behaves. Ishwari spoilt her senseless, as we got a glimpse in the first episode. I would be very upset, if I made breakfast, and the child threw a tantrum, so grandmother made whatever she wanted. The right thing would have been for Ishwari to say, "Suhana your mother has made this today, so you have to eat this. I will make what you want tomorrow." So after spoiling the girl herself, expecting Sonakshi to fix it in a day doesn't work. This is my perspective, as a mother myself.

What I think is that if Ayush were not in the picture and Suhana were misbehaving, then Sonakshi would be coming down much harder on her, to correct her behavior. But because now she knows a specific news that's life-altering for Suhana, she is tending to her with a much lighter and careful hand. She doesn't want to scold her, under the circumstances. Obviously Sonakshi can see that she isn't behaving well, but she is understanding why that is so, so she is trying to talk to her instead of just punishing her. The makers are being way too ITV dramatic by putting up that 'I hate you' sign or the orphanage dialog.

I think Sonakshi keeping a bit of distance from Ayush may be good, because if Suhana will see her mother also paying attention to this new boy, I am sure her behavior will totally spiral out of control.

In the end, I think it will be Sonakshi who will bond most with Ayush.. last episode, the little effort from her to make a snowman was an instant ice breaker..Ayush was ready to talk to her, if she didn't have to rush to Shubh that time. Her slow steps may help him feel comfortable.

Dev is doing a good job trying to balance. I think Ayush is okay with Dev making an effort, but ultimately for that little boy, Dev is where his father should have been, the father who died. So he is a little reserved. But he didn't have a mother in his life, so it might be a bit easier for Sonakshi to find a place in his heart.

That orphanage dialogs was too ott.i understand the jealousy and sonakshi should too but she should tell soha that she is way overboard with the meanness.just because ur upset does not give you the right to be mean to others.qt this young age,soha is behaving like an entitled brat,that behavior should be called out.and that flower crushing also was too much.she is coming across as mean,conniving and a schemer.not good traits.

Ishwaris laad towards ayush is driving soha nuts ,but she should not be so selfish that she can't see either of her parents bonding with ayush.

Originally posted by: kinu17

sometimes need to shout ur children it s nothing wrong with it ..when they become like badtameez like soha...yes dev should not bring ice cream for ayush only but even though he brings it whats wrong in it..? soha knows all bad things but didnot bother to realize that ayush lost his both parents(still he believes this) which is natural ..so for make him happy if dev treats him with a icecream whats the problem its not end of the world for soha..come on its sick ..i am sorry ot say sona ,dev and ishwari no one help soha to grow a normal girl they treated her a princess👎🏼

Soha is behaving like a brat.

I think the show makers are portraying Suhana really poorly now. I guess this helps them to emphasize Ayush's tragic story. Wonder why they need to show one kid in bad light to enhance the other. Seems so black and white.. whereas this show is about so many colors!

Suhana not wishing two strangers being introduced to her and Dev-Sona not correcting her.

Here, I think both Dev-Sona are a little panicked about Suhana being nice to the older couple and they liking her and eventually wanting her back. They actually wanted zero contact, then Dev agreed for them to have a glimpse of her. I think they are both terrified of losing her, and they looked very uncomfortable with her having any contact with them. Correcting her behavior was probably not on their radar then.

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

I agree that sonakshis behavior towards soha is light because she knows a certain news.im not asking sonakshi to punish soha.hell I never believe in punishing kids.but you need to tell them when they r rude and insensitive.

That orphanage dialogs was too ott.i understand the jealousy and sonakshi should too but she should tell soha that she is way overboard with the meanness.just because ur upset does not give you the right to be mean to others.qt this young age,soha is behaving like an entitled brat,that behavior should be called out.and that flower crushing also was too much.she is coming across as mean,conniving and a schemer.not good traits.

Ishwaris laad towards ayush is driving soha nuts ,but she should not be so selfish that she can't see either of her parents bonding with ayush.

Right. I think she was going to tell her that she was misbehaving, when Elena and GKB walked in and the whole situation drifted elsewhere.

I think the makers are going ott showing Suhana in a poor light, so audience sympathy goes towards the new little boy. It's such a bad choice they are making. Showing the two kids bonding with Suhana welcoming Ayush would have been a positive message to the audience, especially when the season has started with such a sad note, with baby swap, Devakshi not very close, Ishwari being herself🙄. Showing the two children bonding would have been a ray of sunshine. But no, they have chosen to spoil Suhana's character, that Suhana who was quick to share her pen, then her lunch with a strange new man, the Suhana who taught Golu that Sharing is Caring.

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

Hey no.but I find sonakshi more sensible than dev .manners is both responsibility.just felt sona changed

No, sona is still same. But when she herself is so scared that soha might go off from her, what to expect. She wad literally holding soha. It's dev, not even sensing what sona going through.

Originally posted by: Newbiewriter30

Right. I think she was going to tell her that she was misbehaving, when Elena and GKB walked in and the whole situation drifted elsewhere.

I think the makers are going ott showing Suhana in a poor light, so audience sympathy goes towards the new little boy. It's such a bad choice they are making. Showing the two kids bonding with Suhana welcoming Ayush would have been a positive message to the audience, especially when the season has started with such a sad note, with baby swap, Devakshi not very close, Ishwari being herself🙄. Showing the two children bonding would have been a ray of sunshine. But no, they have chosen to spoil Suhana's character, that Suhana who was quick to share her pen, then her lunch with a strange new man, the Suhana who taught Golu that Sharing is Caring.

Instead of taking this route, they could hv shown soha welcoming him unwilling n sulking inside when attention was diverted. Trying to stay back bijoy house etc.. There were many ways to show children emotions. They could hv kept original soha essence.

Betwn, when soha was very sweet in s1, even then fandom criticised that she is not behaving like child. She shd not be that matured, what sona made her..blah bla...That time golu was favourite despite he being trouble maker...😆. I think makers thought chalo will make soha as per audience wish.. 😆

Thank you Sutapasima for the written update 😊

I don't understand why the makers are so hell bent on making a villain out of Soha 🥱 Suhana was so mature & understanding in season 1. That was partly because she was brought up by the Bose family & partly because she had seen her mother struggle in life. She was never vengeful or grumpy. She forgave Golu for pushing her even when she didn't know he was her cousin. She was so welcoming to Shubh. She was buying shoes for him from her own pocket money, telling her parents to give all the love to him. It's just not possible she'll turn into something like this so soon. 7 years worth of upbringing & education cannot vanish within 2-3 years like that. However much Ishwari spoilt her, Sonakshi would always have been checking on her. Sonakshi wouldn't let Ishwari spoil her like this. She mostly ignores Ishwari these days but she does stand up when it concerns her kids. She asked Ishwari not to give Cheese to Shubh. She was trying to stop Ishwari from overfeeding Ayush & chastised her when he threw up. So I find it hard to believe that a caring, loving girl like Suhana will turn into this mean brat naturally. No. It doesn't make sense. Writers are deliberately turning her negative to get sympathy votes for Ayush. Ayush is their central character for now & to glorify him they are vilifying Suhana. Pretty sick way of storytelling in my opinion. Making a little kid a villain🥱

And Sonakshi isn't being harsh to Suhana because that would provoke Suhana even more. Ishwari & Dev are already neglecting her, even without meaning to. Ishwari more or less doesn't care for Suhana much anymore as she now has her own blood wala pota. Suhana came to her asking for halwa & Ishwari was busy feeding Ayush & just told her to ask from her Mamma. Dev, just like he did with Suhana, have gone into super caring mode with Ayush because he thinks he has to compensate for all the missed years somehow. He is not deliberately ignoring Suhana, but he somehow ends up doing just that. Suhana is observant & noticing all these. If Sonakshi too goes strict on her right now she'll rebel & it would become a huge issue. Sonakshi is trying to show Soha that she is not being neglected. If Suhana gets convinced that she is being ignored because of Ayush it would be never possible to make her accept Ayush. If she can be shown that she is also being loved equally, she might open up to him slowly. Sonakshi is trying to make Soha lovingly understand that she should be friendly to Ayush. But Dev & Ishwari's over indulgence towards Ayush is spoiling all the efforts Sonakshi is putting in. She has to care for Suhana more because it's visibly obvious that Ishwari & Dev aren't. Playing favouritism among the children will only create animosity, not bonding. Dev & Ishwari needs to understand this. If they stop giving preference to Ayush over Suhana, Suhana will stop behaving this way.

behavior of soha. fault lies with dev sona
they dint tell her clearly ayush is here to stay. instead ust told her his family has issus so he has come to stay. could have directly told her he is devs friends son his father passed away n now they are supposed to adopt ayush n now he is her brother like golu. you first give wrong impression to a kid n then expect her to understand n not question the attention he is getting is not done