Originally posted by: mily_mathew
ohl got ir point.im not picking out sonas faults.just feel she is a little indifferent and for the first time behaving selfishly.dev wants the kids to include ayush.i don't know what's making these two kids to behave like the mean girls gang.but sohas meanness should be tackled and not ignored and sona being the person she is can reason with soma rather than give into her tantrums.
I agree that Soha's behavior needs to be checked and that responsibility is not just Sonakshi's, as Ishwari tried to say in the last episode. It takes a village to raise a child and every adult in that house, parents and grandparents are in it together to make sure that she behaves. Ishwari spoilt her senseless, as we got a glimpse in the first episode. I would be very upset, if I made breakfast, and the child threw a tantrum, so grandmother made whatever she wanted. The right thing would have been for Ishwari to say, "Suhana your mother has made this today, so you have to eat this. I will make what you want tomorrow." So after spoiling the girl herself, expecting Sonakshi to fix it in a day doesn't work. This is my perspective, as a mother myself.
What I think is that if Ayush were not in the picture and Suhana were misbehaving, then Sonakshi would be coming down much harder on her, to correct her behavior. But because now she knows a specific news that's life-altering for Suhana, she is tending to her with a much lighter and careful hand. She doesn't want to scold her, under the circumstances. Obviously Sonakshi can see that she isn't behaving well, but she is understanding why that is so, so she is trying to talk to her instead of just punishing her. The makers are being way too ITV dramatic by putting up that 'I hate you' sign or the orphanage dialog.
I think Sonakshi keeping a bit of distance from Ayush may be good, because if Suhana will see her mother also paying attention to this new boy, I am sure her behavior will totally spiral out of control.
In the end, I think it will be Sonakshi who will bond most with Ayush.. last episode, the little effort from her to make a snowman was an instant ice breaker..Ayush was ready to talk to her, if she didn't have to rush to Shubh that time. Her slow steps may help him feel comfortable.
Dev is doing a good job trying to balance. I think Ayush is okay with Dev making an effort, but ultimately for that little boy, Dev is where his father should have been, the father who died. So he is a little reserved. But he didn't have a mother in his life, so it might be a bit easier for Sonakshi to find a place in his heart.