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Posted: 7 years ago
#61
I think i am airing my views on a wrong thread... because we dont seem to have any common points.. will refrain from posting on this thread going ahead...
Have a wonderful day girls !

Cheers
Asha

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: LiveLife321

@asha, please don't feel bad. It's just that different people will have different opinions based on their life experiences. Let's respect that and agree to disagree.


I can never see Dev and Sona as equals in their relationship because Dev accepted Sona the way she is and always appreciated her efforts and concentrated on her strengths, where as Sona was never able to accept Dev the way he is and always pointed his mistakes and concentrated on his flaws.


Thank you!!

Yes all of us have different ways to look at a situation - that doesnt necessarily mean that one is right and the other is wrong.

If Dev had actually worked on one of his major flaws - he wouldnt be still looking for a short term solution by lying about forgetting to pick up his kids or lying to the principal for getting late.

Anyways... to each ones own!!

😊
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Asha, sorry you feel that way bcos u have an absolute right to air your opinions:((. Not meaning to diss your views in any way.
Its just that, as women, we face such crap from men that someone willing to take even two steps ahead comes as a refreshing change and if it is not appreciated, we know it will fade off.

Sona was the perfect woman before, she was kind, she was considerate, she did not hesitate to stick up for herself and she did not want to lean on a man, she only wanted him to give her his emotional companionship. She was certainly not blind to other people's flaws so its irks me when her character is being shown this way just to keep the TV trope's idiotically misplaced feminism ideas alive. And Erica is a good actress who could have displayed a combination of qualities well too. Then why did they make Sona out to be this righteous being?? WHy not keep it realistic like it was??


And no, Dev is certainly not perfect. NO doubts there but what we are saying is that don;t tell us SOna is, in contrast, bcos she isn't either.

Edited by JALK2000 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Shaavi, are you Telugu by any chance??
'I remember this dialogue from a movie and it kind of stuck with me. It goes like this the relationship between a husband and wife wife should be like fish and water, not like fish and fisherman. Fish and water are 2 different things.'

From Nayak??
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Posted: 7 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: asha2012


Thank you!!

Yes all of us have different ways to look at a situation - that doesnt necessarily mean that one is right and the other is wrong.

If Dev had actually worked on one of his major flaws - he wouldnt be still looking for a short term solution by lying about forgetting to pick up his kids or lying to the principal for getting late.

Anyways... to each ones own!!

😊

Hahaha...
I feel flaw is a flaw, there is nothing called major and minor flaws. Coming to his lies, once upon a time Sona was principal of this school where now Dev is studying. So I can't see her lies as cute and sweet, his lies as mistakes and flaws since I am not the close cousin of Raja Harishchandra. So I see both of them as bokas.šŸ˜†
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: JALK2000

Shaavi, are you Telugu by any chance??

'I remember this dialogue from a movie and it kind of stuck with me. It goes like this the relationship between a husband and wife wife should be like fish and water, not like fish and fisherman. Fish and water are 2 different things.'

From Nayak??

If I am not wrong this dialogue is from Peda rayudu movie.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Hahaha...
I feel flaw is a flaw, there is nothing called major and minor flaws. Coming to his lies, once upon a time Sona was principal of this school where now Dev is studying. So I can't see her lies as cute and sweet, his lies as mistakes and flaws since I am not the close cousin of Raja Harishchandra. So I see both of them as bokas.šŸ˜†


Yes they are both absolute bokas!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Hahaha...
I feel flaw is a flaw, there is nothing called major and minor flaws. Coming to his lies, once upon a time Sona was principal of this school where now Dev is studying. So I can't see her lies as cute and sweet, his lies as mistakes and flaws since I am not the close cousin of Raja Harishchandra. So I see both of them as bokas.šŸ˜†

Well to me preferring to forego his core identity,his passion that is his business matters more than his routine lies. I consider his profession as his passion,his enjoyment,hiss stress buster,his fulfillment,his means to offer so much to people around him in need . I never think he became a slave of his mother and toiled hard to meet her or his sister's needs. When Sonakshi is working hard to uplift her brother it becomes a nice or good trait that she possessed. But Dev can take rest at home. He did enough for his people. Infact he repaid Iswari. I heard many say this. I wonder how could a mother's help be counted in rupees or dollars.

So his magnanimity in staying back is ignored. It's fine. He did so much now he will relax. I stress on this for a person who is used to work round the clock , one minute also will look like one hour if he stays away from work. But he did it for Sonakshi. So what? He lied no? People will fume at him.
When I turn up late due to my own work I tell my head I was stuck up in traffic jam.or my vehicle tyre got punctured. And I don't consider it a serious lie. It happens in day today life. So I am not finding Dev's lie as a blunder... Never


Lakshmi





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Posted: 7 years ago
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Dear Lakshmi,

Putting aside the Dev-Sona debate , can I just say I really admire your fierce love and loyalty towards Dev😊 Being a hardcore Dev Dixit fan myself, I can absolutely relate to your sentiments. We humans being are such strange creatures as in we care more about fictional characters than our own livesšŸ˜†šŸ˜†
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: RUQAIYA10

Dear Lakshmi,

Putting aside the Dev-Sona debate , can I just say I really admire your fierce love and loyalty towards Dev😊 Being a hardcore Dev Dixit fan myself, I can absolutely relate to your sentiments. We humans being are such strange creatures as in we care more about fictional characters than our own livesšŸ˜†šŸ˜†

Yes of course you are right. I love Dev fiercely. He deserves such undaunted single minded love. He is one in millions brought to life by my dearest Shaheer.


Lakshmi


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