Shaavi dear... This is for you - Page 5

Apologies for chiming in but could not hold myself back.

@ASHA2012 I completely agree with you that both Dev and Sonakshi made mistakes which resulted in their break-up, in fact just like we need two hands to clap similarly a relationship depends on both the individuals, it's success or failure depends on both, no two ways about it.
Now I might be wrong but the main point here is that While we have seen that both Dev and Sonakshi have made mistakes yet time and again it has been only Dev who has acknowledged those mistakes, asked for forgiveness and tried to rectify it but can that be said for Sonakshi, at least in my opinion its a no. And I guess for quite a few of us that has been her biggest flaw, to own up on her mistakes. Yes you might feel that we are prejudiced towards Dev and that's probably because we are able to see his efforts in acknowledging and rectifying those mistakes which at least I cannot see with the BOSES and that's my biggest gripe.

Now coming to the show being about different shades of Dev, I agree that's been the case but more often than not these shades have shown his mistakes, in no track he was shown to be MAHAAN but what it did indirectly is show Sonakshi as the all knowing person and MAHAAN.

Just my POV, no offence.

Originally posted by: sp12

Apologies for chiming in but could not hold myself back.

@ASHA2012 I completely agree with you that both Dev and Sonakshi made mistakes which resulted in their break-up, in fact just like we need two hands to clap similarly a relationship depends on both the individuals, it's success or failure depends on both, no two ways about it.
Now I might be wrong but the main point here is that While we have seen that both Dev and Sonakshi have made mistakes yet time and again it has been only Dev who has acknowledged those mistakes, asked for forgiveness and tried to rectify it but can that be said for Sonakshi, at least in my opinion its a no. And I guess for quite a few of us that has been her biggest flaw, to own up on her mistakes. Yes you might feel that we are prejudiced towards Dev and that's probably because we are able to see his efforts in acknowledging and rectifying those mistakes which at least I cannot see with the BOSES and that's my biggest gripe.

Now coming to the show being about different shades of Dev, I agree that's been the case but more often than not these shades have shown his mistakes, in no track he was shown to be MAHAAN but what it did indirectly is show Sonakshi as the all knowing person and MAHAAN.

Just my POV, no offence.

Asha, My two bits:

And Asha, the pregnancy matter, I completely agree with you. There is no justification for what Dev did. I don't agree that he did it for Ishwari. I think he did it to cement Sona's place in the house but it was unforgivable, no question there. Not to mention it was plan idiocy.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Nitu

Thanks for liking the post. Your husband is right. It is very difficult to sail with a wife like Sonakshi. Dev is doing a commendable job. But seeing him always toil hard to keep her happy hurts me a lot. Period. First Iswari and now Sonakshi... His fate is like that.

Lakshmi

Originally posted by: yyy

Ishwari and Sonakshi compliment each other so well .They help each other by sending Dev on guilt trips and in turn making him feel worthless without them .I would say Sonaksi and Ishwari atre two most toxic persons in his life .😳

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Originally posted by: asha2012

Maybe Dev should maybe give up his mother and Sona and marry maybe soha's teacher with whom he flirted at the beginning of the season or the new nanny or Natasha who agreed with him on everything. Oh I forgot about Shreya with whom he shared a hotel suite for god knows how many days - shared as in they just played board games all night - silly me

@sp12, completely agree with you. My only complaint is why only certain set of people's mistakes were addressed and infact presented like crimes and certain set of people's mistakes as basic human errors. When you say all the characters are grey then show that balanced approach in presentation too.

Originally posted by: asha2012

Maybe Dev should maybe give up his mother and Sona and marry maybe soha's teacher with whom he flirted at the beginning of the season or the new nanny or Natasha who agreed with him on everything. Oh I forgot about Shreya with whom he shared a hotel suite for god knows how many days - shared as in they just played board games all night - silly me

Hahaha Bang on sarcasm

Ishwari is a master at manipulating DEv through his emotions and she has deliberately guilt tripped him into doing hajaar things. SOna also managed to guilt trip him, but inadvertantly, she isn't mean or selfish. MOst times, she messes up bcos she is so focussed on getting Ishwari's approval or someone else's approval. I dont think she has intentionally hurt DEv but she HAS unintentionally hurt him many times over and after she found she found, she hasn't shown that she regrets it like Dev has done many times. That's why I feel she comes across as an unemotional rather robotic person, post leap.