*Season 2, Week 30* Analysis Thread - Page 7

Originally posted by: --Jenny2017--

@Bold-I guess there's some confusion there.Dev said that he loves Sona as much as he loves his mother and sisters.He did not say that he loves Sona in the same manner as he loves his mother and sisters.

Originally posted by: cscs

@Archa but Vicky did take Soha to game parlour without taking anyone's permisison

N even Elena took her along to meet Vicky.

If these husband wife duo thinks they can take Suhana anywhere, then how can they expect Dev to take permission from them. Although he should have taken. N this is one thing i don't like, why they make Dev stand mute when people r accusing him. That day mami was saying hamne tujhe sambhala and now Vicky. Y can't he speak up for himself that dude i was all alone in last 7 years, what did u do for me or stay away from my daughter as she is my baby.

DQ, reading the TOI spoilers, I think it will get worse with Suhana before it gets better. When Elena ran away with Vickky, Dev lost a huge amount of money, something that he couldn't ignore. And that became secondary to the fact of what happened with Elena.

It still amazes me that nobody in the family is able to grasp the gravity of Vicky's actions, and it speaks to a dangerous level of trust in Dev's abilities. Dev is desperately trying to communicate that Vicky could have brought them to the streets, but all their minds say is, "but you fixed it like you always do, so what is different this time? Why such a drastic reaction this time?" Somehow Dev is not able to get across the message that, no, this is different because it's not just about greed and mistakes, it's about a deliberate attempt to hurt me and harm those closest to me.

@DQ: After reading your post, I did some googling about emotional child abuse myself and came across this condition called Parental Alienation. According to the linked Wikipedia article, "Parental alienation is the process, and the result, of the psychological manipulation of a child into showing unwarranted fear, disrespect or hostility towards a parent or other family members." Apparently, it usually happens with the non-custodial parent in a divorce, but in this case, it fits Vicky's behaviour, manipulating Soha to feel alienated from Dev.

I do not know whether it is the right thread to discuss this but since it's an analysis thread I wanted to put my thoughts here.
I feel the show is getting illogical now a days, first thing is watching the precap I see that Dev & Sonakshi do not have any idea that the kids have bunked the school for 3 days. Now a days in almost every private school in India more so in a city like Delhi the school sends a message or calls the guardian if their kid does not turn up to school by a certain time, I remember my nephew the days he does not go to school the school sends a message to my sister informing the same. I will not go into the other illogical things regarding the school as that has already been discussed here.

The next thing is why does it seem that more often than not Sonakshi's office meetings are impromptu, I mean she is the owner of the company and she does not have idea of the meetings and on top of that her assistant fixes the meetings and then informs about the same. Normally shouldn't the assistant take Sonakshi's consent before fixing those or at least inform her well before time if a meeting is fixed, I am confused 😕 . In fact her whole office was shifted to her house and her assistant did not even inform her, if I would have been there in that place I would have fired the assistant right at that moment.

Another small thing I noticed is Vicky works in a restaurant as a manager..Now I do not know which restaurant opens so early in the morning as the kids visited him before going to school and on top of that on one hand he said that his boss will not give him permission but he gets time to play with the kids and then follow golu as well to IN 😕

And one final thing Dev being the owner of one of the top company in India and yet the security system in his office is so weak that anybody can come and steal a software which is supposed to be a game changer in the market and surprisingly he knows about it and places a dummy software instead of increasing the cyber as well as physical security at his office 😕

I know not many might agree and maybe this is a lame post but in their want of creating drama CVs are showing things which are far away from reality

Just my POV, no offence.

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Originally posted by: Samanalyse

It still amazes me that nobody in the family is able to grasp the gravity of Vicky's actions, and it speaks to a dangerous level of trust in Dev's abilities. Dev is desperately trying to communicate that Vicky could have brought them to the streets, but all their minds say is, "but you fixed it like you always do, so what is different this time? Why such a drastic reaction this time?" Somehow Dev is not able to get across the message that, no, this is different because it's not just about greed and mistakes, it's about a deliberate attempt to hurt me and harm those closest to me.

In that vein, some of the dialogues from yesterday (and before) were real doozies

Ishwari: Soha won't be happy until her brother is back, and you won't be happy until your brother is back.

I have loved Ishwari's transformation, but this moment showed that a leopard doesn't really change its spots. She very well knows that Dev does not have the same attachment for Vicky that Soha does for Golu -- it's Golu that Dev can't live without. But she is giving him the subtle message that trust me, you can't win this one without bringing Vicky back into the family. You can't find your happiness (in Golu and Soha's happiness) without the extra baggage of Vicky. I resented her for this moment. This is where Dev's tendency towards short-term solutions in S1, one of the primary causes for the dissolution of his and Sona-s relationship, came from. He was terrified of exactly this feeling of complete alienation from his mother and the rest of his family, and so he kept succumbing to their manipulation, and trying to keep everyone happy. But now, for the sake of his daughter, Dev is facing the thing he feared the most with complete determination.

Elena: People change if they are given a change to change

Elena has observed Dev and Vicky's relationship for seven years. WHEN in that stretch of time did Dev stop Vicky from improving or changing? When has Dev ever held him back or been anything short of encouraging? The fact that Vicky is only displaying this so-called change after Dev kicked him out should be ringing alarm bells in your head, lady, but instead you are too busy punishing the one person who worked behind the scenes so that you could have the illusion of family you so proudly flaunt today. Vicky still has you wound around his little finger, and I would feel bad if you weren't indoctrinating poor, innocent Golu for your self-aggrandising ends.

What annoys me the most about these kinds of dialogues it that it takes all responsibility away from Vicky. Elena made the passive aggressive jibe to Sona that it wasn't their decision whether Vicky comes back to IN or not -- true, it's not. Vicky, who made the choice to do all the horrible things he did, has to make the choice to prove himself worthy of this family again. Yet again, everyone is relying on Dev's agency and magnanimity to forgive Vicky and bring him back; they are frustrated that he is not fulfilling their expectations, and holding him responsible for this separation. It's is blatant victim-blaming, akin to blaming an assault victim for pressing charges because they managed to use self-defense and the rape didn't actually happen.

@Sam..@Shaavi..@DQ great posts .. everyone is on a roll here...

What really stood out for me was the last scene of today's episode 👏 how the tables have turned in the eyes of everyone..

Point to be noted... Dev kidnaps Golu without the consent of his parents .. while a Vicky comes to the door and says the kids should be in school.. in fact Dev took Golu without our permission.. and Right now both Golu and Soha should be in school..

Did you'll see Dev's expression when Soha and Golu were ready to go to school with Vicky..

Vicky is one up against Dev.. it's like all of sudden he's a hero in the eyes of everyone.. Only Dev is not convinced.. but everyone else ... is falling for Vicky's tricks!

Irony.. the kids are bunking and going with Vicky... no wonder they've been having so much fun are close to him!

Once Vicky is successful in his plan.. that's what we have to see.. and I think he's targeting Suhana.. where Dev will be hurt the most!

But I see a Vicky finally going to jail.. and Elena and Golu leaving him for good, because after this I don't see them reconciling.. the trust is so hard to get back... fooling his wife.. child.. Mother .. family ..What else is left!!!

@ Lakshmi. Ceasefire ! n I respect u'r views ..😊