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Posted: 8 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: Rang_




remember when dev came to meet soha through balkani
she didnt allowed him
but she is following dev's step bcz
golu says bigcha ne sikhaya he and he is superman

Yes , but that was her first...she was not close to Dev...now she is with Golu...Golu and Soha has bonded well...and in a way she thinks Golu is rt because Golu always drops Dev's name to make Soha follow him...Golu is smart to capitalize on Soha's weakness...which is her dad...You cant blame Golu because every time he has seen ppl being manipulative...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Yes , but that was her first...she was not close to Dev...now she is with Golu...Golu and Soha has bonded well...and in a way she thinks Golu is rt because Golu always drops Dev's name to make Soha follow him...Golu is smart to capitalize on Soha's weakness...which is her dad...You cant blame Golu because every time he has seen ppl being manipulative...


NO no not blaming golu
But dev spoiled him
as per elena
and he used to say
roz padhai kaun karta he 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rang_




remember when dev came to meet soha through balkani
she didnt allowed him
but she is following dev's step bcz
golu says bigcha ne sikhaya he and he is superman



Bang on 👏 I am hoping this track leads to Dev, finally growing up!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Apart from Golu's influence, Soha may also be disturbed coz Vicky Was thrown out of the house. She may have a fear that this may happen to her and her mom too coz she sees them fighting always
Golu never was rude to his Big cha, so wonder why Soha has become rude
There are definitely times when parents could get engrossed I problems which may lead to temporary neglect of a child but when separation of parents affects a child psychologically very badly and Creates a sense of insecurity. So the void created in the past 7 years has deep rooted effect on Soha which is getting visible only now
Edited by tellyjo - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#15
Thank you everyone for the responses.
Actually the post stems from the look which Elena gave to Dev when Soha goes away angrily. That look was kind of conveying that "All these years you have spoiled Golu now you are spoiling Suhana as well", again maybe I am over analysing. Also the fact that Dev has had the maximum influence on Golu's life all these years and now that Suhana is close to Golu some of that influence is rubbing off on to her.
But I guess the main reason for the post is the way the CVs have portrayed Dev's character post leap wherein it seems as if Dev is the root cause of every problem that has been happening so maybe this time as well he will be incriminated
It will be really interesting to see how Devakshi handle the situation as it is going to directly affect their daughter, but right now I am keeping my hopes low.

Just my POV, no offence.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sp12

Thank you everyone for the responses.
Actually the post stems from the look which Elena gave to Dev when Soha goes away angrily. That look was kind of conveying that "All these years you have spoiled Golu now you are spoiling Suhana as well", again maybe I am over analysing. Also the fact that Dev has had the maximum influence on Golu's life all these years and now that Suhana is close to Golu some of that influence is rubbing off on to her.
But I guess the main reason for the post is the way the CVs have portrayed Dev's character post leap wherein it seems as if Dev is the root cause of every problem that has been happening so maybe this time as well he will be incriminated
It will be really interesting to see how Devakshi handle the situation as it is going to directly affect their daughter, but right now I am keeping my hopes low.

Just my POV, no offence.


Actually this is an interesting track if portrayed sensibly.

Regd Elena..we see a sudden transformation in her from 'complaining to Vicky ur mother changed pills n thats why we have Golu' to 'being a concerned mother n blaming Dev for spoiling Golu' ...let her put some efforts into being a parent first n how she ignored Golu all these years.

Regd Soha, with just 1 incident of failing in exam or lie or being rude, it cant be said that parents failed...otherwise every parent wud be a failure only 😉😆 what matters is how Devakshi tackle their mistakes n make Soha understand
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sorry to disagree. Dev did not fail. Only a short while ago Suhana entered IN. Naturally kids will get influenced faster and Soha is effected by Golu's way of functioning. Sonakshi of late did not spend much time with Suhana. That impact is there.
In the early years it is the mother who influences the child by being with her by guiding her,by correcting her mistakes... Not father. I feel Boses used to look after Soha and moniter her along with Sonakshi. Here Iswari's yearning to go for a job made her unavailable to Soha. It is mother who comes first. It is janani janmabhumi...mata cha Pita cha.
Why should Elena hold Dev responsible? What did she do all these years? She should have controlled Golu in the begining itself.

It has become a habit to blame Dev for everything. He is not a failed son husband,man or father. He is true to every relationship .

How easy it is to blame Dev Dixit? So easy I must say.



Lakshmi




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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev and Sona are both responsible for the change in Soha. The couple is so engrossed in their personal relationship, that they are not paying attention to Soha's needs and Soha's changes. Soha has started to hide and lie things from the olders, and soon she might be learning some more vices...
Wake up parents - the two of you did everything to bring happiness in Soha's life and you forget that so soon.😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
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It's very simple. The parents are fighting and the child is scared and depressed that they might get seperated again. Add to this golus teachings.
The child is behaving the way the parents are behaving and by that I mean both parents, stomping off, not listening to others, being arrogant and unyeilding and trying to show attitude even when wrong.

Children are not blind or deaf. They observe and copy. Simple.

But One thing that was really worth watching was Devs change of expression when Golu failed and when he learnt that Suhana had failed.

Instead of lecturing everyone around , Elena should note and learn what is Devs actual opinion about the importance of studying and being a good student. Its high time she realises that no one is going to take genuine responsibility for her child's future, if she herself doesn't.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Payalj_

It's very simple. The parents are fighting and the child is scared and depressed that they might get seperated again. Add to this golus teachings.

The child is behaving the way the parents are behaving and by that I mean both parents, stomping off, not listening to others, being arrogant and unyeilding and trying to show attitude even when wrong.

Children are not blind or deaf. They observe and copy. Simple.

But One thing that was really worth watching was Devs change of expression when Golu failed and when he learnt that Suhana had failed.

Instead of lecturing everyone around , Elena should note and learn what is Devs actual opinion about the importance of studying and being a good student. Its high time she realises that no one is going to take genuine responsibility for her child's future, if she herself doesn't.


Haha I thought I was the only one who noticed that 😆 Dev definitely loves Golu and there is no doubting that but it's obvious that he will feel greater responsibility towards his own kid. Am sure he was this way with his sisters too when they were growing up. With Golu it was always about being the indulgent uncle rather than a responsible parent. Dev was depressed and alone and Golu was the ignored child so they sorta became each others emotional support and clinged on to it when they had no one else. What Dev feels for Suhana is obviously different though he loves both the kids.

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