Hello Everyone,
I really loved episode-373 on Wednesday, 08/02 especially the last two scenes. The consequences of two constantly disagreeing and fighting parents is at last in front of Dev and Sonakshi. It will be very interesting to see how they handle it.
All though, entire episode was great for me, my favorite was the last scene between Ishwari and Dev Especially below dialogues by each of them.
Ishwari: "Log Kehte Hai, Har Bachhe Ki Ek Personality Hoti Hai. Dev, Kai Baar Hum Samaz Nahi Paate Par Bachhe Hame Karib Se, Baariki Se Dekh Rahe Hote Hai. Pichhale Kuch Dino Se Tere Aur Sonakshi Ke Bich Jo Kuchh Bhi Ho Raha Hai Uska hi Shayad Suhana Pe Bhaar Aa Gaya Hai. Mujhe Lagta Hai Suhana Ko Tum Dono Ki Zarurat Hai, Tum Dono Ke Waqut Ki Zarurat Hai. Tum Dono Ke liye yun Ek Saath Aana Samzaute Karna, Itana Mushkil Nahi Hoga Jitna Ke Suhana Ke Liye."
What Ishwari said in above dialogue is so true. Kids may not pay attention to parents asking to do their daily tasks but when their parents are having arguments or heated discussions, their attention is all only there. Children deserve love and feeling of safety from their parents. It is important for children to feel safe around the people and world they are in otherwise they will feel unsafe and suspicious about their surroundings, which will in turn make them doubt themselves, people around them and world they are living in. Children also need constant confirmation of love, safety and their place in life of their most important people - parents. If they find this confirmation to be conflicting or missing, in most cases, they will grow up to be insecure, low esteemed and rigid. This may also risk kids to be influenced by wrong people if they feel safer with that influence. And that is what exactly is happening with our little Suhana here. She is unable to predict people and life around her with living 7 years apart from her father not even knowing him, suddenly meeting him, constant drama in IN and Bose house, arguments and fights between her parents and bad influence by Golu who constantly makes her believe that all wrong doings he is teaching her are approved by her dad who she adores and so on.
I loved below dialogues of Dev: (I loved Shaheer's apt performance as a concerned parent in this scene)
Dev: "Mujhe Apane Liye Bura Nahi Lag Raha Hai Suhana Ki Chinta Ho Rahi Hai."
Dev: "Haan Maa. Tu Sahi Keh Rahi Hai. Maine Aur Sonakshi Ne Jo Suhana Se Vaada Kiya Hai Wo Hum Zaroor Puraa Karenge. Mai Sab Kuchh Karunga, Chahe Mujhe Khud Ko Kyun Na Badal Na Pade, Lekin Hum Wo Sab Kuchh Karenge Jo Hamane Suhana Se Waada Kiya Hai. Thank You Maa."
Both parents are responsible for good or bad in a child so definitely Dev is not at all to be blamed alone in this. Though, I loved how Dev accepted it as his mistake and how he is willing to do anything, even changing himself, which is totally against his character. I remember how he told Sonakshi in S1 that he will not change, not even for her. That shows his unconditional love and commitment for his child. I also loved how he said "Maine Aur Sonakshi Ne Jo Suhana Se Vaada Kiya Hai Wo Hum Zaroor Puraa Karenge." "Lekin Hum Wo Sab Kuchh Karenge Jo Hamane Suhana Se Waada Kiya Hai." When it was taking blame, he only included himself but for the plan of action to be taken, making decision for their child's wellbeing, it has to be done as one unit, one team - between both parents. That is our Dev Dixit, showing respect to Sonakshi as equal parent. Let's see Sonakshi's reaction to this and whether she accepts her responsibility in this matter. I hope and pray that her thoughts are aligned with Dev's and she works as a team, one unit - with him.
I am eagerly and excitedly interested in seeing how this situation will be handled.
Thanks.
Ji 😃 😃 😃
Edited by GKaPyar - 8 years ago
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