God save Dev Dixit

I still say God save Dev Dixit.

Edited by ltelidevara - 29 July 2017 at 1:58am

Agree with each and every word of yours ,Lakshmi

It was Dev who decided to dedicate his life for her so he has no choice but to accept her the way she is because he cannot live without her.She will not adjust to him because her life doesn't end without him and can lead a happy life with or without Dev .

If he is sensible he will shift his focus on other aspects of life like his daughter, nephew and business.Being cold and distant will give him some much needed peace .

@itelidevara Thank you for making the post, you have spoken my heart out. Yesterday after reading the updates I was thinking how the story should progress and I hope that next week after one more of their fight ends, he should better take a break for sometime for himself and take a holiday, be away from responsibilities for sometime and then decide on his priorities because right now it clearly seems like his wife is not happy with his current priorities which is herself and their daughter.
He better should leave his wife with what she wants to do as even his mother would want him to do that.
Better become selfish and live for himself. Become more practical and just be there for his family when needed that's it. Don't need to put his efforts in keeping them happy or safe if they feel bound or suffocated by it. Give them space


Just my POV, no offence.

Yes sona they are right!

Originally posted by: yyy

Agree with each and every word of yours ,Lakshmi

It was Dev who decided to dedicate his life for her so he has no choice but to accept her the way she is because he cannot live without her.She will not adjust to him because her life doesn't end without him and can lead a happy life with or without Dev .

If he is sensible he will shift his focus on other aspects of life like his daughter, nephew and business.Being cold and distant will give him some much needed peace .

Nitu...Thank you yaar..When I look back I always find you supporting my way of thought process and feeling the same way as I do. Let others think what they want as if Dev is expecting the unexpected to happen but we will empathise with him for sure. Yes at this point of time there is no use for him to hope for the impossible to become possible. Indifference and opting for other priorities like his daughter and business only will bring him mental peace... You said it..I agree.

Originally posted by: sp12

@itelidevara Thank you for making the post, you have spoken my heart out. Yesterday after reading the updates I was thinking how the story should progress and I hope that next week after one more of their fight ends, he should better take a break for sometime for himself and take a holiday, be away from responsibilities for sometime and then decide on his priorities because right now it clearly seems like his wife is not happy with his current priorities which is herself and their daughter.
He better should leave his wife with what she wants to do as even his mother would want him to do that.
Better become selfish and live for himself. Become more practical and just be there for his family when needed that's it. Don't need to put his efforts in keeping them happy or safe if they feel bound or suffocated by it. Give them space


Just my POV, no offence.

Thank you. Yes. Dev should live life for himself. Better to be in his space and leave the rest to fate.

Originally posted by: YASHO1997

Yes sona they are right!

Stop being the business women and best mother you have been these seven years!

Be a wife first! Be Mrs. Sonakshi dixit first! And be a good mother by staying at home, available for your daughter at home always!

Feel elated and like a fairy tail princess because your husband wants to keep you safe by keeping you at home and bringing your office and shopping mall at home!

Be ready to fulfil you husband's sexual desires! Be more passionate after all he has lived without you for seven years.

Be at the breakfast table at morning when he is there...so that he can have some naughty, private moments with you. Hell with you office and clients... Not ghat important can change their time.

Yes go to the office so that your husband can have some romantic moments with you in his cabin!

You lived and struggled alone for seven years but doesn't matter you should have adjusted back by now too! Don't take so much time.

Your husband is ready to bunk his office just for you so you should be ready to do the same! If not, do you even love him??

Then she don't you break down in front of him, cry in his arms???

You are suppose to make all adjustments, be the wife dev dixit wanted!

Your dreams of a partner who doesn't tie you down or stop you from achieving your dreams can go to hell.

Be Mrs dev dixit sonakshi! Be his wife first!

Yosho, I am a working woman. But I don't agree with anything that you said. I work for my happiness. My husband supports me if I have extra work in office. If not I am the one who is with the kids. Not because he forces me to, but because I want to. I come home and cook, not just one meal for the whole family, but I make different dishes for each of them. Not because I am forced to, but because I want to. Work is in it's place, but family comes first. I don't want to "grow" if it means hurting my family. Yes I spend a little more time with our kids than my husband. But I don't see that there is nothing wrong with it. Both of us love our children and both want what is best for them. Both my kids love and look up to me not because I am a professional or that I buy the things they ask for. But they do that for the love care and the priority importance I give them. When I make them the dish of their choice even after having a hard day at work, they appreciate me for that. They respect me for making them a priority and giving them importance.

My mom is a homemaker. After my father passed away she worked hard to give us an opportunity to have a life. She fought for us, protected us, was there for us. She didn't put herself as more important than us. And for me I couldn't have been more proud of my mom. She gave us such values that today we are praised for them.

Recently I was talking to one of my colleague. He is around 60 yrs old and has grand kids. I have seen him work like 18 hrs a day. He is very smart and intelligent and is also adept in technical knowledge. While talking to him for some topic I answered if I have to make a choice between my career and my kids, I choose my kids in a heartbeat. And he said I applaud you and respect you even more than that. Family is important. You shouldn't let other things consume you and take you away from that. And he was telling me that when he is with his wife, he is shut down to the world. Cause she is there at other times, so he wants to be there with her. His idea of a gift for his wife -- hand written coupons which can use any time she wants. And all of them are something that she could get easily with money outside but getting them from partner can give such a marital bliss. Usually they are like I will give you massages, will be your beck and call maid for a week etc. and he was saying that he has been doing this for like years and his wife loves it. Even more than the other gifts hie buys with money.

I do not agree with anything you said. What Sonakshi is doing is very selfish and all she wants to do is satisfy her false pride and ego. I am really glad the makers are showing that family is important more than what Sonakshi is doing.

shaavi..

i have a doubt

Originally posted by: YASHO1997

Yes sona they are right!

Stop being the business women and best mother you have been these seven years!

Be a wife first! Be Mrs. Sonakshi dixit first! And be a good mother by staying at home, available for your daughter at home always!

Feel elated and like a fairy tail princess because your husband wants to keep you safe by keeping you at home and bringing your office and shopping mall at home!

Be ready to fulfil you husband's sexual desires! Be more passionate after all he has lived without you for seven years.

Be at the breakfast table at morning when he is there...so that he can have some naughty, private moments with you. Hell with you office and clients... Not ghat important can change their time.

Yes go to the office so that your husband can have some romantic moments with you in his cabin!

You lived and struggled alone for seven years but doesn't matter you should have adjusted back by now too! Don't take so much time.

Your husband is ready to bunk his office just for you so you should be ready to do the same! If not, do you even love him??

Then she don't you break down in front of him, cry in his arms???

You are suppose to make all adjustments, be the wife dev dixit wanted!

Your dreams of a partner who doesn't tie you down or stop you from achieving your dreams can go to hell.

Be Mrs dev dixit sonakshi! Be his wife first!