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Originally posted by: gaya1234

Confusing track... While I support Sonakshi's stance to be a working mom.. she doesn't get it that Dev is NOT obligated to share parenting responsibilities as Sona didn't give him that right.. Legally, she is Suhana Bose whose father's name doesn't exist in her birth certificate..Hope someone shows her the Mirror and pulls her out of denial world...

Originally posted by: --Jenny2017--

Well,firstly I'd like to tell you that I've enjoyed your posts over the last few days.You do come across as a straightforward and no nonsense person.While I do not necessarily agree with all your posts but I like your conviction in presenting your view.

Anyways,coming to the episode aired tonight,I don't view that convo as a women empowerment lecture even though it might come across as one when we first see that scene.As you rightfully pointed out,there's no way anyone can question Dev regarding his support for Sona's professional career.Sona has clearly seen how proud the man is regarding her work.I think the convo today was just a cautionary one which points out to what generally happens in most cases like this.You see,a lot of females don't necessarily give up their job in an instant,they start giving less time towards it and they eventually wean away from their careers.I personally don't mind Sona's stand if she genuinely feels that working from home hampers her chances of achieving greater success.The convo can also be viewed as her POV in the sense that Dev's new setup of having her work from home hampers her prospects.

Having said all this,I agree that the dialogues could have been toned down to an extent.Honestly I wasn't really bothered by that scene coz more importantly we had Sona atleast speaking her mind out on something which we've all been harping about since the last few days.

This is just my POV.I respect your views as well.

Originally posted by: randommusings

So wat if officially Soha's name has not been changed yet...does that mean a parent can forget their basic duties towards their child coz their daughter is not using his surname. I just do not understand Dev is not obligated to share parenting responsibilities part.

They are not fighting a legal battle where Suhana's name become a matter of discussion.

Originally posted by: cscs

I guess she was trying to tell him the larger picture. Yes he didn't stopped her from working but she wanted her choice of working space. N she linked it with he success and working, which according to her she cannot achieve by working from home. N its not about women empowerment, but simple choice of selecting working place.

I am a teacher, i can take tutions at home, but i want to go out and teach in a professional environment. Meet people, learn, which may not happen at home. Yes people do work from home, but it depends from person to person.

N i completely support ur PS. Every individual irrespective of their achievements, career and even gender has an identity and it is not restricted to only working individuals. But in the show they were talking about Sonakshi and for her, meaning of identity is different, which cannot be genearlaised. But yes makers should be careful while dealing with these issues. Infact i have this problem when they took up Ishwari's case. But anyways, we can see it as Ishwari's perspective.

Now i feel even Dev will say, i am also working from home. That way we all will be together. 😆

Ps- The best thing was when he asked her to sleep till 12 pm. Koi bol de mujhe 12 baje tak sone ko bas. 😛

Originally posted by: Neerasi29

I found a disconnect with the story today. Vicky issue had played such an important part in their separation. They did not even discuss it. Not even acknowledging it. It would have been better if they had a heart to heart conversation about issue and it shud have been a step in regaining their trust esp Sonakshis trust on Dev. This track is not making sense.