*Season 2, Week 28* Analysis Thread - Page 16

Originally posted by: kshah1987

@Yetika

I agree 100% I understand Sona has to open up but how can she with THIS Dev?

I don' think this Dev would listen to her at this point in time. He's too far out of control.

Also agree, what is he going to do? lock Sona in the house? Make her a housewife? wrap her in plastic bubble wrap?

Exactly! Dev i know would have already shared his feelings with Sonakshi till now and would have calmly made her understand his need to protect her.Would have never doubted her love and in their last argument (after Sona comes back from Bose house) would have 'NEVER' used the word 'revenge'(He said "badla le rahi ho mujhse').And also would have calmly asked Sonakshi to share her thoughts.

I don't think this will have anything to do with mental illness, but I do think something big is about to happen, because how long can this suffocation go on? this has nothing to do with Love. I know they love each other, but his need for control now is too much.

Not mental but psychological issue.

Yes...This has to stop.It is getting too much.Love has nothing to do with it.And the biggest hint is.. Sonakshi was scared today and Dev didn't notice.

In the precap, i was like "who are you, her father?" tum ab ghar se kaam karogi

what??? seriously? I don't even want to know what happens when he finds out she gets irritated and leaves for a meeting. he'll go insane. I don't know where this goes now. Next thing you know he'll want Soha to be home schooled and Sona to be her teacher.

Yeah..

Then he should also start working from home now. Why only Sonakshi?

One thing I will say is that I personally LOVE this track, because it's finally about them and i'm a person who loves internal drama especially in love stories. My favorite tracks are when couples can't be together or are in this type of intense fight. They ignite so much passion in their scenes 😳

I like it too😊

I was getting annoyed at everyone else getting so much screen time, this track is about Dev and Sona and that to me is the best part.

time will tell where this goes though. If I had to guess, his need for control will cause Sona some physical pain/accident, its the only way to snap him out of it. Right now no emotional heart to heart will work. He won't even listen to his own mom at this point.

I agree..

On a side note though, what a change from Season 1 to season 2 regarding his mother. He loves his mom, but it's like he's transferred all of his love/fear to Sona now. 😆 Loving Ish now too.

Oh yes! Sonakshi phas gayi😆

also bechara boses, who is going to tell them all this? 😆 THey are so happy with Ronita, they have NO idea what is going on in their daughter's home.

Let them enjoy😆 If Sonakshi tells them,they would say the same thing as Ishwari and Elena - 'You are so lucky to get a husband like Dev'.

also lastly, going back to who told Dev, i think he might have either 1 had cameras installed on Sona or over heard, because do you guys remember, when elena told sona you have to tell Dev, and Dev goes what? ...he then says What did Vicky do? I think he knew then and wanted them to tell him.

May be...not sure about the cameras though(I was confused too.. as to how Dev knew).Either he overheard or Elena told him because everyone was looking at her when dev told the truth infront of everyone.

@kshah.. Totally understand your views and respect the same. That is why I am keen that they don't go overboard with Dev's obsessive behaviour

Dev's thought process is actually very logical even though it doesn't seem that way when we look at his behaviour. For Sona, it is hard to trust in the first place. Dev on the other hand, is quick to trust but heavily impacted by abandoment issues once that trust is broken. That is precisely what has happened with Sona in the successive events since the bus fiasco.

Mallika, I have a different view of Dev's doing. Yes, he is pushing Sonakshi away, but in turn is asking her to own her feelings. He is telling her "what do you want to be. Ms. Bose or Mrs. Dev Dixit. Take a pick". It is not about him losing Sonakshi, but the other way around. Depending on her choice he will keep pushing her to take responsibility of their relationship. By this he is asking her "are you going to abandon me again citing your independence or will you keep your promise of fighting the world for me?". My guess is this time it will be Sonakshi who will stand at the crossroads where once Dev stood. He is taking her to that discussion which started their disassociation. The "hame alag hona hoga" dialogue in the hospital which caused them to kind of try to go separate ways.

Dev's deep rooted fear that his happiness is a fragile entity is making him do all these things. One minute I was praying to God to save papa and another minute he was gone, just like that... One minute I was glowing in the postcoital bliss and another minute Sonakshi was gone, just like that.. It has over-powered him completely. It is an over correction of past mistakes on both parts. He has over scaffolded her.

Sonakshi can see that Dev is reacting that way because this time it is about their love and his business. Two things that he is so passionate about! Therefore, she is trying to calm him down. She is worried Dev will repent it later, just as he blamed himself for his sisters' absence from IN for 7 years.

She is worried they will become too selfish in love. He is worried, she is not selfish enough. Sonakshi is controlling her emotions because if she opens those floodgates, she fears everything will drown in the sorrow she has crammed in. He is pushing her harder because now he worries her priorities are different. Sona thinks it all broke because of her. She is trying hard to control that emotion. While he is trying to explain to her that is all broke because she was not there...

Sonakshi can see that Dev is reacting that way because this time it is about their love and his business. Two things that he is so passionate about! Therefore, she is trying to calm him down. She is worried Dev will repent it later, just as he blamed himself for his sisters

Someone has to stop Dev

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Sonakshi can see that Dev is reacting that way because this time it is about their love and his business. Two things that he is so passionate about! Therefore, she is trying to calm him down. She is worried Dev will repent it later, just as he blamed himself for his sisters

@DQ

For what Dev will repent? He repented because he neglected his sisters immersed in his own pain. It is logical. But he punished Vicky for two of his most wretched deeds ever,causing separation for seven years and trying to ruin his business.

There is a difference between both the issues. If Sonakshi thinks that way honestly she reached a stage where she can't empathise with Dev and support him in punishing Vicky which is justified.

Dev will never blame himself for throwing Vicky out. He knew what he did is just right.

Lakshmi

@DQ

I was watching the SBS and other segments. It felt like such a throwback to Kushal Roy track. In that he first tried to get the answer from Sonakshi. His complaint at that time was how can you think about marriage and not tell me. Although he was referring to her job and before even anything happened, he had decided that she was going to Mumbai. Come to think of it, the whole of her proposing to Dev to her coming to IN is very similar to Dev offering her job in the beginning of the series to accepting it herself when Saurabh shows the other perspective of it.

During Kushal track too Dev was making decisions for her, while she was angry that he was intruding in her personal space. When she criticized his move regarding Kushal, he then took it upon himself to find a suitable groom for her using Jodi.com going to the extent of even interviewing and eliminating the candidates. I feel the upcoming track will be very much like this where he will do things for her in his way. It is like either you prove to me that you are taking responsibility for this relationship or I will for the both of us. I will keep you safe and sound and most importantly in my life. My guess is we will see a lot of this friction before they find that middle ground.

Dev knew that he had got Sonakshi home as nutritionist against her will so to speak. The subsequent events like Ishwari getting sick eating oily food and Sonakshi telling Dev to replace her and the Kushal track where there was possibility that she might leave job before Ishwari got better made him go into panic mode that she will leave him in a moment. Now that he has seen what happens when she is not there and how she still doesn't mind leaving him, he has gone into that shell that he was in in the beginning of the series. There too it took time for him to see that she wouldn't leave the job until his mom got better. Only Sonakshi can heal him by accepting the responsibility of her mistakes and flaws and her role in the breaking up of their marriage. She needs to absolve him of his guilt of not being there with her during her pregnancy and Soha's delivery time. How she will do it is yet to be seen.

Last but not least I have a doubt regarding maami. She loves Vickky very much. So much so that she was ready to leave not only her husband, but IN where she always wanted to be. She stole money for his sake in season 1. It is true that Dev threw him out with what he had. My guess is he is out of his job at Ishwari Enterprises too. Takkar has already threatened him to return back his money. Even if he still had decent amount of money in bank, without any income and with the lifestyle that he is used to, it won't take long to lose it. I mean he might think I will do my own business and for that invest his bank balance. Since he has very little understanding of what it takes to grow a business lose all his money. Will he call RR and ask for money and will she once again steal from IN and give it to him. Will she misuse the keys and the trust that has been shown to her. I am curious.