*Season 2, Week 18* Analysis Thread - Page 36

Originally posted by: aarcha

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I think Sona's efforts to sustain her marriage should be highlighted in proper perspective

- Sona had understood that Dev puts great emphasis on his family and mother. If mother and family happy then Dev is happy. So after marriage her initial efforts were towards satisfying Dev's family, be it his mother or Dadi Bua. Coming from a family where, when respect is given to the eldest(Dida), it makes everyone happy including DIL Asha. So she thought if she gives respect to Dadi Bua, Ishwari will be happy too. She was unaware in Dixit household, Ishwari rules over Dadi bua. So if DadiBua is given importance, it will rile Ishwari. Girls from simple family are hardly aware of crooked, mind games of other complicated families. So her whole effort of pleasing Dadi-Bua and Ishwari gone waste, because Ishwari could not or would not see and appreciate the goodness and effort of Sonakshi. So while Sonakshi desperately tried to be a member of Dixit family, Ishwari always tried to show her that she is an outsider.

- Regarding Sona's interference in Neha-Ranveer is again Sona's effort to maintain her marriage. She was not allowed to go for honeymoon and her marital happiness was getting affected. The couple were made to feel guilty to spend time with each other, thru caustic remarks by Neha, Ishwari and GKB. Dev was also unhappy because of Neha's problems. Since it was affecting her own marriage she thought of mending Neha and Ranveers marriage. Because if that is sorted then her life will also be sorted. She can spend some quality time with Dev, without either of them feeling guilty.

- Wardrobe organising was again an effort towards that direction of togetherness and weaning away an over-dependent son towards more independence, towards taking charge of himself. We can see the traits in Soha. Nothing wrong in being self-sufficient. In my family all holding top positions yet reasonably self sufficient and proud about it.

-Sona has always thought of others. She did not want to hog Dev's attention completely excluding others. She never grudged his love for his mom, nor his love for his sisters. She just wanted him to love her too and give her a special place in his life.

Originally posted by: Shaavi

@Tia. Thanks for the detailed response. Lets agree to disagree. 😃 . In your post you have outlined the "sins" committed by Ishwari. But from my perspective Ishwari and Sonakshi are like 2 sides of the same coin. Both committed "sins" against each other and ruined each others happiness. That is if Ishwari ruined Sonakshi's happiness, Sonakshi ruined Ishwari's. Both wanted to be "the most important person" in Dev's life. Both wanted him to follow their value system and considered only their value system as right. Neither one was ready to even see if there was rightness in other ones value system or not.

As you said "Repentance is the activity of reviewing one's actions and feeling contrition or regret for past wrongs. ". Here neither Ishwari nor Sonakshi have reviewed their actions in detail during the time Dev and Sonakshi were married. When one has not reviewed their actions and felt that it was wrong, one cannot really repent for the same. Similarly if they were repenting for something else while committing a new "sin", that they were not aware of, it does not taint that repentance in any way. The process of repentance for both these ladies is yet to begin. One maybe more than the other, but both of them needs to realize their mistakes of their past actions and admit that they were wrong.

If Ishwari was wrong in not including Sonakshi during Dev's midnight birthday celebration, Sonakshi was not faultless either. She failed to inform Ishwari about their midnight plans. If Sonakshi did not differentiate between her parents and Ishwari and thought of the later as her "mother", why did she fail to inform her of the plans that she did not feel like hiding from the Boses. It was shown that Boses knew of the plan. So where exactly did she think or act like Asha and Ishwari were the same for her. Asha used to scold her for not learning cooking. But Sonakshi would make fun of it and not really take it to heart. But when Ishwari told her to focus on what she was good at and take time to learn the new things, Sonakshi became aggressive and took it as a challenge. If we say Ishwari failed to understand Sonakshi, then Sonakshi failed to understand Ishwari too. Both of them tried to accept the other on their terms, not as they were.

Sonakshi interfered in Neha's life and became the catalyst in a way due to which Neha applied for divorce. She did not stop herself from interfering even when she was told multiple times not to do so. Which resulted in Ranveer putting a case of mental torture, which had the consequence of Dev getting Ranveer thrown out of his job which could have very well resulted in the ruin of Ranveer's family. The disaster was only averted because of Neha, who asked Dev to give back the job. If Neha had not done so, then the "sin" of ruining Ranveer's family was on Sonakshi, not on Dev or the Dixits. It was the result of Sonakshi's interference without taking the concerned peoples feelings into account which caused it. Very similar to Ishwari's theft. Meaning Ishwari was thinking that she was taking just 2 bangles. She did not think a family would be ruined by it. Similarly Sonakshi thought that she was trying to unite Neha and Ranveer for their love and happiness. She did not foresee these consequences that happened.

For Ishwari her repentance regarding the theft only ended if she could fall at her employers feet whom she had wronged and begged for forgiveness. Everything else was just the trailer for the main picture. She tried to lessen her guilt by trying to ensure that no one else she knew were placed in a position similar to her. That they would not be desperate where they would have to compromise on their values. I am not saying Ishwari did no wrong when she stole the bangles. She definitely did and the CVs never showed that she was forgiven for that. Malti never once said I forgive you for what you did. She just said I knew you couldn't do such a big crime. But did not say you did not commit a crime. Malti was shown to still resent that Ishwari harmed her family. But reduced the magnitude of it that's all. Ishwari now has acknowledged that she wronged them and has gotten rid of that guilt.

In the quest of maintaining their importance in Dev's life, both Sonakshi and Ishwari became insecure. And in their insecurity, they both did things that hurt not just each other, but hurt Dev very badly. When Sonakshi asked Dev to arrange his cupboard by himself and when he failed, if Sonakshi saw that Dev lied to her and saw Ishwari as the cause of her unhappiness, Ishwari saw her son who was the CEO feeling embarrassed and insulted that he wore 2 different colored socks to office and also burnt his fingers while ironing leading to her unhappiness. The whole of the marriage time, both Ishwari and Sonakshi were unhappy by each others actions, while were happy when Dev sided by them, accepted what they said as right. If Dev did not take their side, they would become unhappy. In their tug of war Dev lost.

When Dev and Sonakshi talked, it was always Dev who talked of children, especially wanting a girl child. Yet he had to lose 6 years of not being able to see her. Has Sonakshi not "sinned" here. We can say she came back, but Ishwari refused to let her meet Dev. But did Sonakshi inform him of her being pregnant, or that she had had a baby. Couldn't she call him. I mean even after all these years Sonakshi is shown to have Dev's number. She never once thought of calling him. The birth certificate of Soha doesn't have Dev's name on it, yet she kept that position sacred for him?.

If Ishwari is to repent for her sins, then even Sona needs to do that. I feel the whole thing was a blunder with contribution from many people. Sonakshi's unhappiness was not just the result of Ishwari's actions, but it was also the result of her own actions and expectations. This is the same with Ishwari too. Both ishwari and Sona needs to meet halfway and not reject the other ones words and claim that only they are correct. If Ishwari needs to realize that she is not "God", Sonakshi needs to realize that she is neither "Perfect" nor someone who "never makes mistakes".

This is my pov. Lets agree to disagree. 😊

Originally posted by: deepsel

It's oh so quiet
Shh shh
It's oh so still
Shh shh
You're all alone
Shh shh
And so peaceful until

You fall in love
Zing boom
The sky up above
Zing boom
Is caving in
Wow bam

'Til it's over and then
Shh shh
It's nice and quiet
Shh shh
But soon again
Shh shhhhh hhh

Starts another big riot 🤣

Originally posted by: aarcha

Elena handed something to sona , she pressed it on her hands n gave to ishwari.. wat was that ? 😕

Originally posted by: Multifandom_Tee

Sona like any normal person has her own set of flaws,but comparing her with ishwari who is nothing but a shallow selfish lady,who ends up destroying other homes for her happiness..Js wrong on so many levels.

Sona might be impulsive at times, she might be blinded by her dad at times... but she is not a homewrecker ...She puts others and their happiness above herself.

And about her not owning up to her mistakes..She not once but thrice has said that our marriage failed because of both of us and not just you..What else does one expect her to say? because honestly sona did make alot of efforts in her marriage just to make it work..What else could she do?