Sona u helped me today! [Edited pg:4]

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Posted: 8 years ago
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<font size="3">Sona u helped me today darling!</font>😃
Today when Sona talked about having unconditional support from Jatin during pregnancy or after delivery
she highlighted the facts that how difficult for a single mother to go thru the hurdles during the motherhood process. I truely truly understand her situation.
In spite of having a great supportive system from her family having 2 male members, she's independent, still, she needed someone outside her family.
Now let me say something which I never ever thought, I would do this in my KRPKAB lifetime.
I hated Ishwari to the core as MIL..There are few scenes where I felt touchy and emotional but most of the time I hated Ishwari character. Now I hate Bijoy even more...that's another story...
But, today Sona's dialogues made me think about Ishwari too.
In comparison to Sona, Ishwari didn't have any education. with very little support from her brother who himself was not well off, the lady slogged thru all of her young age to just make both ends meet.
Imagine, she had raised 4 children especially 3 daughters, I can imagine her situation too.
She gave her children good family values, respecting elders, unlike Elena who eloped not thinking for a min about the family respect.
Dixit girls are also not100% perfect they also have flaws but overall upbringing was great.
Sona u really made me think about Ishwari today!!!!
I can empathizeIshwari's insecurities better than before. However, I'mNOT supporting that!

Hats off to both these ladies Sona and Ishwari!!!
Thanks to CVS for making the audience think and see both sides of the coin!!!!!!👏

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wow that's a very different perspective 👏

Agree with everything you said .Unlike Sonakshi Ishwari was not educated nor was blessed to have a rich famous best friend yet she didnt compromise on values and brought up her children really well and provided them a safe childhood .Ishwari had to protect herself and her daughter's from the bad eyes of the society n being a women I know how difficult it is for a single mother.Hats off to her strength and determination

Though I don't support Ishwari for some reasons I have immense respect for the lady and she is a strong women .Minus her insecurity she is a a good human being .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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yes I agree with u..the so called independent, strong, very well educated woman with loving and supportive family though she needs some other man to support her financially and emonationally..then i feel eswari was so much independent and strong than sona..now i can understand eswari's struggles and insecurities
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ifuser

Sona u helped me today darling!😃
Today when Sona talked about having unconditional support from Jatin during pregnancy or after delivery
she highlighted the facts that how difficult for a single mother to go thru the hurdles during the motherhood process. I truely truly understand her situation.
In spite of having a great supportive system from her family having 2 male members, she's independent, still, she needed someone outside her family.
Now let me say something which I never ever thought, I would do this in my KRPKAB lifetime.
I hated Ishwari to the core as MIL..There are few scenes where I felt touchy and emotional but most of the time I hated Ishwari character. Now I hate Bijoy even more...that's another story...
But, today Sona's dialogues made me think about Ishwari too.
In comparison to Sona, Ishwari didn't have any education. with very little support from her brother who himself was not well off, the lady slogged thru all of her young age to just make both ends meet.
Imagine, she had raised 4 children especially 3 daughters, I can imagine her situation too.
She gave her children good family values, respecting elders, unlike Elena who eloped not thinking for a min about the family respect.
Dixit girls are also not100% perfect they also have flaws but overall upbringing was great.
Sona u really made me think about Ishwari today!!!!
I can empathize Ishwari's insecurities better than before. However, I'm NOT supporting that!

Hats off to both these ladies Sona and Ishwari!!!
Thanks to CVS for making the audience think and see both sides of the coin!!!!!!👏



👏👏👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
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nice post, filled with positive, nd in the post u did not comment on how gud or bad ishwari is, instead u highlited the dificulties faced by her. 👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
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yes dear you brought out a very good perspective of why ishwari needs to be respected inspite of her flaws. a very good post.
For all those in this forum who really want people to have a spine, not remain a doormat, or have the ability to call a spade a spade, let us see how many of them can genuinely see beyond someones vices and hail them for the positives that they possess.

I feel in a way it will be a reflection of the society where we live in, we are so blinded and used to filters that we never accept to give credit to where it is due working beyond our prejudices.
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This was a much needed post...That's one reason inspite of all her flaws, I could feel for Ishwari...Sona had a rich business man to support on the financial side and a familyof 3 adults to support on the emotional/physical requirements. Compared to this, whom did Ishwari have? Only Dev & partly Mamaji...And if Sona can be so dependent on Jatin to this level, then how can we blame Ishwari if she couldn't separate Dev from her, who had been her only source of financial/emotional/physical security to her...And here we all behaving as hypocrites, because Sona new generation ladki hai, na...isaliye her hardships are highly valued than the old generation Ishwari...😡😡😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Very sensible post
I respect Ishwari for raising 4 children without much support.Usne insecurity ko ,life ke struggles ko bohot nazdeek se dekha hai.its not at all easy for a mother to take care of 3 young daughters and a young son in a city like Delhi.and probably that's the reason why she's so possessive about Dev.
This is the first post on Ishwari and there's no comparison between Ishwari and Sona kyon ki Ishwari ne akele sab Saha hai whereas Sona ke Saath uski family thi.
More than Ishwari I hate Bijoy.
Bijoy ne bhi apni biwi ke samne doosri aurat se flirt kiya hai(pre leap).I hate this two face man.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am happy to know some one could think beyond Iswari's insecurities. By all means Iswari's struggle for survival is far more difficult than Sona who has great family support and a friend who provided her emotional and financial support.More over Iswari achieved so much working as a house help. It takes a lot of grit and determination to go through such stress physical and mental. Still hardly her hardships are acknowledged whereas Sonakshi got loads of sympathy from every corner.
Finally I would like to admit Iswari and Dev are scrutinised with magnified lenses while Bijoy and his daughter never faced such scrutiny. They were spared and hailed by most of the viewers.

Thanks a lot.Your post brought much needed relief.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes indeed
Being a single mother is not a joke
Only a person who has gone through this can understand the pain

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