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Posted: 8 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: coolmeet

I was thinking the same when Sonakshi was saying all that.
I t was all Sona's fault.



Agree with you
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Posted: 8 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: maharathikarna

Hey guys dont worry. All this is gonna be much ado about nothing when both of them come back together again and it would be revealed that dev was an angel investor in sonakshis company since beginning and his flirtatious ways was just a show to misguide his family😉



Before they are together I want them to learn to respect each other and accept their share of mistakes .Even if Dev is behind this Bose family will not be grateful.Dev took the blame on himself to save Saurabh's marriage except Asha no one bothered to even acknowledge his efforts .
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Posted: 8 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: Sky21

Dev was the one who taunted her inability to be a mother and said he is glad she can't become a mother or she would have been a bad one. After this you expect her to tell him about the pregnancy? She went to his house to give him rights as a father but was not even allowed to enter , it's not her fault . Why this vehemence against Sonakshi



If she dint want to give him the rights years back..why did she not tell Soha how bad Dev is as a person. Why did she give access of her daughter to the bad person Dev. Why did she allow Soha to meet her biological father and get friendly with him. Why did she allow Dev to stay at her place for 7 days and be with their daughter...

This is what is confusing me...I cant understand Sonakshi any more...Initially I couldn't understand Dev ...now Sonakshi's character also confuses me... 😕
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: SummerRain7

I think Sonakshi is logical and practical enough to understand that Dev could not possibly have been present at the time of her delivery or thereafter to take care of Soha as she herself has not informed Dev about it, except for the one visit that she paid him which was quite unsuccessful. But behind all those questions that she asked him, there was only ONE question, I believe, that she as well as the audience desperately need an answer for - "why did he not care to make any attempt to find out what happened to her or her family ( pregnancy or no pregnancy) knowing that they were practically thrown out on the streets.?". He clearly has the means to find out , should he take the trouble to do so. Just my POV.






Sonakshi should have done her job of informing and it was up to Dev to decide whether he wants to be with her during her pregnancy or not .I don't see any reason for Dev not to be with her during delivery .

Whether he made an attempt or not is not shown in the show so I assume he never did but are Devakshi obligated to find out about each other after breaking up but after knowing about her pregnancy It was Sonakshi's responsibility to let him know because it was his baby as well and he had the right on the baby as much as her . This was needed not for Dev but for Soha's sake as well
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld



If she dint want to give him the rights years back..why did she not tell Soha how bad Dev is as a person. Why did she give access of her daughter to the bad person Dev. Why did she allow Soha to meet her biological father and get friendly with him. Why did she allow Dev to stay at her place for 7 days and be with their daughter...

This is what is confusing me...I cant understand Sonakshi any more...Initially I couldn't understand Dev ...now Sonakshi's character also confuses me... 😕



Sonakshi never wanted to keep Dev away from Soha. She wanted him to experience daughters love and Soha to get her dads love. If she wanted she could have kept Soha in Kolkata, never mentioned Dev, maybe even tell her truth of what Dev did. But Sona kept all difference aside and brought Soha to Delhi. Since Soha wants both parents live, they have agreed to stay a week in each
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Posted: 8 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: vibg

Dev has given enuff proof of shamelessness...

forgetting prior marraige..after marraige..
telling sonakshi do whatever u want with room, then go cry & whine to mummy
hid her medical info from her even after wedding
was getting fertility treatments dine on sonakshi without her consent
manipulated her to undergo fertility so his mummy can be happy
slapped his FIL
pushed sonakshi two different times in rage
blamed her for trying to hurt his mom
throwing the whole infertility thjng jnher face when she came to ask him about prenup and getting his parents thrown out of home
telling her she was always after his money
picking up random women and spendknf days and nights out
flirting with elementry school teacher in frontof kids
slamming her against the wall
tieing her up with a rope
twlling sona kya kya kiya hoga successful hone ke liye

precap.. threatening an ex sasur jiske ghar mein ghus ke gundagardi kar raha hai

what other shamelessness he will do?



Like I said in other post ..difference of opnion between couples cannot be the reason for a mother to deprive her child of father's love .Thia topic is discussed to death on who is wrong and who is what .We all know how much efficient is Sonakshi in balancing relationship btw Dev and Bijoy

If Sonakshi had hated Dev before Shimla night then why did she make out with him in Shimla ? If she feels she is being manhandled then why doesn't she say anything or shout for help instead she is busy trying him dhoti,going with him to jungle , sharing the bedroom with him .
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Posted: 8 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld



If she dint want to give him the rights years back..why did she not tell Soha how bad Dev is as a person. Why did she give access of her daughter to the bad person Dev. Why did she allow Soha to meet her biological father and get friendly with him. Why did she allow Dev to stay at her place for 7 days and be with their daughter...

This is what is confusing me...I cant understand Sonakshi any more...Initially I couldn't understand Dev ...now Sonakshi's character also confuses me... 😕



She allowed him in Soha's life, not hers or her family's! he is living there cause he wanted to fulfil his daughter's demand. she couldnt just automatically go live in an hellish dixit mansion as dev suggested!!!! Sonakshi wanted normalcy for her child as she adjusts to her new life with Dev as the father. But Dev is rushing without consideration to what soha is used to and people around her. He cant just cut out someone from her life because he is there and Jatinis no longer required. Dev doesnt make those decisions! And sonakshi has never said dev is bad to soha and neither she is sayjng to dev that he is bad. she has asked him to stop taunting, starting fights, and backoff family matters. Jatin is part of soha's life.. dev cant throw him out by just showing up.

why dev is notin soha's life.. its due to his mother and hisown actions. yes, sona might not have tried hard enuff but she did try. wven after what dev did and said toher.. even after prenup which said.. dev or his family will havenothingto do with thechild that is born fromthemarraige if devakshi r not together. just like sona could have tried harder, drv could have just tried once.. instead of drinking, partying and womanizing!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld



If she dint want to give him the rights years back..why did she not tell Soha how bad Dev is as a person. Why did she give access of her daughter to the bad person Dev. Why did she allow Soha to meet her biological father and get friendly with him. Why did she allow Dev to stay at her place for 7 days and be with their daughter...

This is what is confusing me...I cant understand Sonakshi any more...Initially I couldn't understand Dev ...now Sonakshi's character also confuses me... 😕



Ashwathy , this is something I cannot understand why should Sonakshi give rights to Dev .What makes Sonakshi superior than Dev as a parent .They both are equally responsible for Soha's upbringing and have equal say .

If Dev had abandoned Soha as a child then I can understand Sonakshi being superior but here he was not even informed so how did he lose his rights over Soha ?
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Posted: 8 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: yyy



Sonakshi should have done her job of informing and it was up to Dev to decide whether he wants to be with her during her pregnancy or not .I don't see any reason for Dev not to be with her during delivery .

Whether he made an attempt or not is not shown in the show so I assume he never did but are Devakshi obligated to find out about each other after breaking up but after knowing about her pregnancy It was Sonakshi's responsibility to let him know because it was his baby as well and he had the right on the baby as much as her . This was needed not for Dev but for Soha's sake as well[/QUOTE]

Bold - under normal circumstanes, NO . After a mutual break up its not necessary for a person to keep in touch with or keep tabs on a former partner . But the circumstances under which Dev - Sonakahi separated were anything but normal. Dev thinks he was responsible for getting the Bose family thrown out and Sonakshi too heard it from none other than Dev. So if not out of any love , then I was hoping at least basic humanity would have induced Dev to find out whatever happened to them.

As for Sona , although the makers tried to make it look like she attempted to fullfil her responsibility of informing Dev about Soha's birth by giving us that one poorly inserted , cooked up-in-the-last-min scene , personally to me it looked like a half - hearted attempt. But I really cannot fault Sona for that, considering how she was treated by Dev and his family. Again , that's just my POV.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy



Ashwathy , this is something I cannot understand why should Sonakshi give rights to Dev .What makes Sonakshi superior than Dev as a parent .They both are equally responsible for Soha's upbringing and have equal say .

If Dev had abandoned Soha as a child then I can understand Sonakshi being superior but here he was not even informed so how did he lose his rights over Soha ?



What ever I am going to write now...will not be liked but again that's my POV... 😆
I feel Sonakshi never tried her best to get in touch with Dev...his parting words of her being a bad mother did hit her hard...( I am not blaming her for that ...anyone would feel) ...She came to meet him after 6 months of birth is just to keep her in a safe zone...instead of calling him and informing him...she directly reached his house when she knew they wont allow her...She could have mailed him when she knew she was pregnant and leave it to him to decide...she could have called his number...she could have called his office phone...her saving the plane ticket itself shows that she was ready with the answer that she came to meet him...

For a perfectionist like Sonakshi...if she wanted genuinely to meet Dev she would have done it..

Anyways that is how the character sketch is done for SOnakshi...so we just enjoy the story telling ...not every time every one cant be perfect ...she is also flawed ..she also has a grey shade.. 😊 😊

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